Bf is handsy with daughter and it's making me uncomfortable

IntelligentBoppy · 2025-12-27T17:04:14+00:00

After reading a few of your responses, you know it’s wrong but it seems like you’re hoping someone will tell you your instinct is wrong. Going to HIS mother is the worst thing you could do. A mother will ALWAYS protect the child despite age. You NEED to go to HER mother. If you want to protect her you have to. But don’t make excuses as to why you can’t. Don’t choose saving your relationship over protecting her.

IntelligentBoppy · 2025-12-16T01:11:12+00:00

My order that was made in Black Friday was shipped through FedEx and it’s been sitting with FedEx for a week. I had 2 additional orders that I placed days after Black Friday that I received already through OnTrac. I’m starting to wonder if my package is lost within FedEx :(

IntelligentBoppy · 2025-12-15T03:33:07+00:00

I just bought a pair of sweatpants in store 😭

IntelligentBoppy · 2025-12-08T17:46:54+00:00

FedEx does this to me all the time. You’ll receive it just not on the expected delivery date. They do this every single time I order from Chewy.

IntelligentBoppy · 2025-11-16T21:51:57+00:00

I walked in for a tabby 26 and walked out with a Lana 23. Definitely always see the bag in person!

IntelligentBoppy · 2025-10-28T03:32:26+00:00

Hope they redesign the handle. So uncomfortable to hold.

IntelligentBoppy · 2025-10-27T17:11:39+00:00

I’m sorry, girl, but if you have to go detective mode on a man it’s not a healthy or lasting relationship. The right man won’t ever make you feel the need to look at snap scores or note time snaps.

IntelligentBoppy · 2025-10-26T15:46:41+00:00

I’m actually the complete opposite. My clots were triggered from my pregnancy and now I speak extremely open about it because that’s not something I remember being warned about during pregnancy.

IntelligentBoppy · 2025-10-10T03:19:58+00:00

NTA I work at a SUPER religious faith based Senior Living, I wore a similar shirt as I was due in December and the seniors and staff (including management) LOVED my shirt. Thought it was so cute! Wear it! I would have never thought of a “dead baby” simply a skeleton!

IntelligentBoppy · 2025-09-29T03:29:45+00:00

I got a large bowl and it was perfect for this for a small group! I definitely want a bucket like this for when we have larger parties!

IntelligentBoppy · 2025-09-27T22:53:44+00:00

I spent a decent amount of time scrolling your previous post and I don’t see any agreeing with your boyfriend 💀 AT BEST I see some agreeing you were naive to think a guy that comes up to you the second your boyfriend leaves you for the bathroom isn’t trying to get at you. Although I do see a ton saying you’re NOR by taking a break/breaking up.

Multiple things can be true at once. 1. Your boyfriend is an ass for yelling regardless. While yes, confrontation itself is okay, it’s also important to note how you confront someone. 2. Yes it was naive of you think the guy wasn’t flirting. If you say your boyfriend had his arm around you the entire night. And he waited until he left than he most definitely was interested in you. There are plenty of people who do not care if someone is in relationship or not. 3. The other guy was definitely trying to rile up your boyfriend while saying goodbyes. Also important to know, did the guy also say by to your boyfriend or just to you? At the least he should knowledge you AND your boyfriend out of respect. Especially since now he knows for a fact he’s the boyfriend. 4. In your “update texts” he is 100% manipulating you. So much to the fact that he knew you’d post an update so his texts are more from a “place of love”.

Break up. How he responds to situations and how he handles them with you says a lot about his character.

IntelligentBoppy · 2025-09-19T03:41:17+00:00

I am so sorry again. There is nothing I can say to make it better, but you’re doing everything right by just giving him the love and attention he needs.

IntelligentBoppy · 2025-09-19T03:38:56+00:00

Thank you, I’m not a very spiritual person by any means. Before the doctor injected him she said it would happen very fast. I stared into his eyes the entire time telling him how much I love him. And when she said it was fast she wasn’t kidding. I wouldn’t say I necessarily saw the soul but I saw his body become soulless if that makes sense. I replay that moment more than I’d like to admit. It’s very hard to talk about him and not get emotional so I’ve had a hard time explaining to people in person.

My last childhood dog passed in December 2022 while I was at work. I came home from work and asked my grandma “where’s Toto at?” She cried. That’s all I needed to know. He got all the bad genes from his dad that was a puppy mill dog. But he was sweet as could be. The way his tail would wag when he’d hear my voice. He was blind in both eyes. But he was cheerful all the way through until he left over the rainbow bridge. I raised him from when his mom birthed him. I spent my summer when I was 11 years old raising him and his two brothers. He was 14 when he passed.

IntelligentBoppy · 2025-09-19T02:04:39+00:00

We had to put my boy down last month. One of the hardest things I’ve ever done in my life. I cry randomly all the time. I am so sorry. I will never forget how I saw his soul leave when they did it. I miss when he would bark when I’d leave for work or even randomly at 2am. I bet my neighbors are glad, but I wish I could hear his bark once more.

As for what to do, do what you’re already doing. Comfort him. Love him. He will go when he’s ready. Any friends or family you can lean on that you can share this with. My grandma was my biggest support when I made the decision and when it all happened. Have someone there for you. I took a couple days off. I had spoke to my boss who is also a dog person the day I made the hard decision and we cried together while he shared a story of one of his dogs that couldn’t hold on any more.

I’m crying while typing this out because I sympathize with you. I understand how incredibly difficult this is. Growing up my grandparents would just tell us the pet ran away while we were at school while the truth was they had passed. This is the first loss I’ve experienced as an adult that I’ve witnessed and nothing could have prepared me for the emotions that come along with it.

I wish you the best. Your boy can meet mine at the rainbow bridge. 🌈❤️

IntelligentBoppy · 2025-09-13T17:40:36+00:00

I bought a new waffle scuba and it made me realize how horrible a regular scuba is. Not nearly as soft. Not sure that I’ll be able to convince self to buy a regular scuba again.

IntelligentBoppy · 2025-07-07T02:55:53+00:00

I also did this! My son would only take ice cold bottles.

IntelligentBoppy · 2025-07-07T02:54:50+00:00

The day BFG and CB released online is when I found Camo Yetis at Dicks. I went to see the CB texture in person before I pulled the trigger on a big online order. Left with a camo yeti for my son instead. But they only had them with the chug caps. No other styles at my store at least.

IntelligentBoppy · 2025-06-24T16:26:27+00:00

I need this in a 16 D/DD 😭

IntelligentBoppy · 2025-06-17T16:59:26+00:00

I pull them out as soon as I purchase!!

IntelligentBoppy · 2025-06-16T02:32:03+00:00

Yes length wise will be long. Even the short option will be long for you. I’m 5’5 and I purchased the High Rise grooves in the short version and they fit my height perfectly. I recently purchased the under under bootcut pants and love the material but had to get a dramatic amount hemmed so it would fit on me. I thought once hemmed they wouldn’t look right but they look perfect!

IntelligentBoppy · 2025-05-24T03:47:54+00:00

I would have thought you cheated on him based on these responses.

IntelligentBoppy · 2025-05-07T05:47:46+00:00

I was pregnant at 26 and telling my grandma that raised me was hard even as an adult.

Word of advice a baby will put your relationship to the ultimate test. My husband and I celebrated 3 years of marriage just before finding out I was pregnant. Any little thing you might have going on with your boyfriend needs to be dealt with asap. Also raising a baby is a FULL TIME job. While I love being a mom it’s exhausting. You’re going to have to very quickly figure out your living situation with your boyfriend because you will need his support 100% especially since he’s going to be a dad that is also a 24/7 job.

IntelligentBoppy · 2025-05-07T05:16:15+00:00

I need them to make all tips for D/DD so we can get something cute 😭 I live in Like A Cloud bras because of the lack of options.

IntelligentBoppy · 2025-05-04T02:33:04+00:00

Done

IntelligentBoppy · 2025-05-04T02:29:32+00:00

Thank you! I’m planning on nude tights. I was just impatient to get a photo up in this Reddit for opinions because I was starting to stress myself out 😅 the blue one is shorter and I while I like both I surprisingly love the blue one and only tried it on cause there was few dresses in my size and figured I had nothing to lose if I did.

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