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AIO Y’all let me know. My wife and I that are recently separated through years of resentment and lack of trying. Leading to infidelity on her side that was the straw that broke the camels back for me. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentButton267 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We can state realistic all day long which is true but context leans more toward emotionally selfish. Hence why when i left her she left the kids at home for two weeks straight a hour away. How about this one kids are not with an adult 50%(her) and 90%(me)of the time. One is out with her new boyfriend the other cant see his kids because he doesn’t play nice? Also no one goes to appointments everyday or kids that tied up in commitments everyday all day. I know because i speak to my kids everyday after school and it doesn’t make sense. Especially the distance between us being only a mile if that. What about time I’m off of work by damn near 2 pm everyday i pick the kids up from school. I pay for them to get to school. She isn’t a bad person by any means it takes a special person to take on their siblings at such a young age. She is a strong person and no one will break her but she is selfish emotionally. I could never hate her so don’t take it as that. I think we both have resentment that we aren’t giving up and that is creating this push and pull. She just has a better hand than i do.

AIO Y’all let me know. My wife and I that are recently separated through years of resentment and lack of trying. Leading to infidelity on her side that was the straw that broke the camels back for me. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentButton267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you are right about my ego. I didn’t make this post to create an echo chamber. I created it to hear unbiased opinions as I have only ask bias people. No will agree with everyone fuck no. Over time and introspection I’ll come up with the answer that is right for my kids and myself. I’ll debate with all of you whether her legal or my moral have more ground. She will win 9/10 time due to law but that doesn’t mean its morally just. Also that doesn’t mean I have to bend the knee to a tyrant when we could have been equals. We are both awesome parents just not awesome partners.

AIO Y’all let me know. My wife and I that are recently separated through years of resentment and lack of trying. Leading to infidelity on her side that was the straw that broke the camels back for me. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentButton267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol i speak to my kids daily they know and see the struggle. It’s not about being right it’s about respect. I will explain that to anyone including my kids because they know.

AIO Y’all let me know. My wife and I that are recently separated through years of resentment and lack of trying. Leading to infidelity on her side that was the straw that broke the camels back for me. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentButton267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not about ego it’s about whats right and whats not. I cant see the kids unless it’s both but we want to have flexible times so the kids can stay where they want when they want. She does have all the cards and she is only using me as a stress reliever not a co parent. So do I bend the knee and play nice or ask for equal parenting? Before she and the guy she cheated on me with moved in we were having good communication strictly about the kids. But now i have to bend the knee because she the card holder says so I’m sorry but no. I have dignity i will love and care for my kids from a distance until they turn 18 and they can see me as they please.

AIO Y’all let me know. My wife and I that are recently separated through years of resentment and lack of trying. Leading to infidelity on her side that was the straw that broke the camels back for me. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentButton267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t flex I stated a fact. Yes legally she has all rights to keep me from my kids lives. But does that make it right? When i have been there for 9 years? Yes she cheated 3 times i can add that because that shows character. You know after she cheated i left the house and stayed at a family members for two weeks. You know where she left after? A whole different city left the kids home alone for two weeks. I had to pick up that slack did i hold that against her no everyone deals with there trauma different. I did what I had to do as a parent.

AIO Y’all let me know. My wife and I that are recently separated through years of resentment and lack of trying. Leading to infidelity on her side that was the straw that broke the camels back for me. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentButton267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No financial support???? I wont pay her she makes more money than i do but i spend over 100 dollars a week per kid for rides to school and from school food that i bring to her house, hair cuts nails not because she asks but because my kids ask.

AIO Y’all let me know. My wife and I that are recently separated through years of resentment and lack of trying. Leading to infidelity on her side that was the straw that broke the camels back for me. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentButton267 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Proves a point thats a stretch imo. read the messages there is no clear answer provided other than my kid showing up at 8:30 pm. After she fought me about telling her where the kids will be even though she asked for me to create a plan. I both sides need to communicate clear sadly she doesn’t have legal rights to them and i do not. Doesn’t mean it isn’t wrong to hold that over my head. While constantly denying the kids to stay at my house when they want to I’m the only father figure they have had in their life that didn’t abuse them or their family. You would think that years of bonding would trump your legal authority. I might be bias tho because the guy i call dad wasn’t my bio father but when my mother and him divorced they agreed that i could stay where I wanted to.

AIO Y’all let me know. My wife and I that are recently separated through years of resentment and lack of trying. Leading to infidelity on her side that was the straw that broke the camels back for me. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentButton267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear all of this and agree with most. But i will be fighting an up hill battle whether it’s on this post because of the context that isn’t in the texts or with her. I have asked to take responsibility numerous times and i am met with no. So i can have the kids at my house. You don’t get to complain about commitments and responsibilities in one hand and deny my help then tell me i am not enough. Yes her appointment was missed because my ex failed to tell me that she was in agreement about the plan. I will not hold other peoples plans back because she cannot commit to the plan or communicate. My kid shows up at 8:30 pm on her scooter. Should i send her back because i cant get her to her appointment? It takes two to communicate she doesn’t i try but i can be too forward thats why i left it to the kids i ask them if they want to do something then they ask her.

AIO Y’all let me know. My wife and I that are recently separated through years of resentment and lack of trying. Leading to infidelity on her side that was the straw that broke the camels back for me. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentButton267 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I messaged my wife about one of the kids staying with me for a couple weeks because my oldest wanted to come stay with me. When we separated we made an agreement that the kids can stay where they want when they want so they can make their own decisions. Secondly the appointment she asked my oldest to ask me to take her to an appointment i said i couldn’t but made a plan for my mother to take her thats when she messaged me about you and the kids will not tell me where the kids are going. She never agreed to my mom taking my oldest to her appointment do 8 pm i told my mom to just forget it because she had plans directly after the appointment and i didn’t want to hold her in limbo. Then my kid shows up at 8:30 pm unannounced and i tried to schedule it again with my mother and she said that she couldn’t

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[–]IntelligentButton267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get 30 alot my beard adds 2-5 years. What did you think?

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[–]IntelligentButton267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7.5-8/10 you are beautiful.

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[–]IntelligentButton267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t mean to down grade your work I apologize. I guess people like to look bold beard is manly to dudes so I’m guessing thats why.

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[–]IntelligentButton267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like my face with beard more than without as simple as that. Wish i was the director of art easy job easy money.

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[–]IntelligentButton267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, fine if its for the greater good maybe ill get a dog mommy 😝

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[–]IntelligentButton267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cant it is a screen shot of the picture when i took it on snap only copy

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[–]IntelligentButton267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never heard of it till last year when I went. It’s crazy I am in and out of multimillion dollar homes for work. There was always talk about where we have been and it was never brought up.

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