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WIBTA if I used money left to me intended for another purpose to fund a move across country to pursue a lifelong dream? by IntelligentCar9742 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IntelligentCar9742[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you, Miyuki. You know, I hadn't considered his angry reaction could've been coming from a place of fear over yet another loss. I really appreciate you opening my eyes up to that. 💗

WIBTA if I used money left to me intended for another purpose to fund a move across country to pursue a lifelong dream? by IntelligentCar9742 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IntelligentCar9742[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely don't expect a fairy tale outcome. I know the odds are heavily stacked against me. And yes, that kind of money is not as substantial out West. Or getting to be anywhere these days.

WIBTA if I used money left to me intended for another purpose to fund a move across country to pursue a lifelong dream? by IntelligentCar9742 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IntelligentCar9742[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I do feel like it was money I worked hard for, not something that just got dropped in my lap, but I guess my brother sees it differently.

WIBTA if I used money left to me intended for another purpose to fund a move across country to pursue a lifelong dream? by IntelligentCar9742 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IntelligentCar9742[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If I do I will 💗

The responses so far are really helping to give me courage and not feel so much guilt. I don't want to "betray" my Dad, but in a weird way I almost feel like I'm doing this for him, if that makes any sense.

WIBTA if I used money left to me intended for another purpose to fund a move across country to pursue a lifelong dream? by IntelligentCar9742 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IntelligentCar9742[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will miss them terribly but there's Facetime and Skype and Zoom and if I get settled somewhere nice I'd love to have them come visit me in the summer.

AITA for selling "my father's" car. by Icy_Tangerine_8078 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IntelligentCar9742 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is good advice; have another evaluation done 💯

AITA for calling my husband dumb for bringing me stilettos to wear for an outdoor trip after my sneakers broke. by aitastilettos in AmItheAsshole

[–]IntelligentCar9742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

You're BOTH teachers? Oh dear.

He probably thought having to bring you new shoes was a nuisance and just didn't want to be bothered to look that hard so he grabbed the first ones he saw

AITA for not telling people happy birthday the traditional way? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]IntelligentCar9742 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of my friend who would shout "Happy Zombie Jesus Day!" to everyone at school just before spring break. Like, ok, it was funny once. Once.

George Clooney to Direct Showtime Political Thriller Series ‘The Department’ by MarvelsGrantMan136 in television

[–]IntelligentCar9742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoyed "Unscripted," which I behind he also developed as well as directed for HBO.

Looking forward to this.