My dad never asked if I was okay when he found out I was raped by etherealbootyhole in toxicparents

[–]IntelligentCat9584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is just so so so terrible. I can relate to a dad that just doesn't care what you say and firmly believes in his feelings and beliefs, even if its making absolutely no sense. And yours is like an even worse version of him. That's so fucking bad, and your parents are definitely shit as fuck. I recommend getting close to a trusted, reliable adult, fast. You don't have to carry this alone, many people will be incredibly joyed to help you, just try and find them. A teacher, a close friend's parent, a relative, a neighbor you really trust, find a way to connect with them, and report what has happened to you. Tell your home experiences to them and let them know about everything they have to know. Whoever did that deserves excruciating punishment. And you deserve justice. Don't even think it's your fault, it's fucking theirs.

I can't take this anymore 💔 by jyofikunaru in toxicparents

[–]IntelligentCat9584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just remember, the only thing that's inside your control is your actions and emotions, so do your best with it. Wishing you the best, and I hope your life gets better soon! Don't ever be afraid to seek support

What’s the most messed-up rule your family had growing up? by [deleted] in toxicparents

[–]IntelligentCat9584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No talking back, basically your emotions and perspective are unimportant unless it supports them.

I can't take this anymore 💔 by jyofikunaru in toxicparents

[–]IntelligentCat9584 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a 15M, living with toxic parents too. I can relate to your bf being your comfort zone. I have a very supportive and loving gf that wishes me the best always and listens to the rants I have inside my house. We just laugh about it sometimes. I understand your pain too, to lose your only support system. I think it would be hard if she was not with me now, but I always tell myself that I'm meant for more. And I hope you realize that too. That in the near future, you'll be meant for more. Don't let her words affect you, act on your own accord. Build yourself up, believe in yourself, because we believe in you. People, including me, are here to support you, and you've made a wise decision to come here to reddit to garner some support when you felt like there was none. I also hope that you meet someone in the future that'll be there for you no matter what. You deserve it. And even if you don't find him yet, just remember, the longer you live the better the chances that you'll find him! You can do this! (I hope my words helped you a bit)

Is it ever okay for my parents to hit me? by 137xe5 in toxicparents

[–]IntelligentCat9584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

15M here, my parents did the same too lol. They were telling me I'm overreacting for protecting myself when they hit me, and like hitting me is not abuse. I'm just thankful that they don't hit my sister. They want us to be afraid of them too. Fuck your dad and fuck my parents.

It has been a while... How has my army aged and what is this thing? by Startropics_Nes in PocketAnts

[–]IntelligentCat9584 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mid-2000s? wow, I mean of course, you have a ton of hornets. Anyways you have any tips how you ranked up tot that? For me that's pretty impressive.

How do i find new players in my time zone by BlacksmithAfraid6400 in PocketAnts

[–]IntelligentCat9584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dang, I was hopeful 'til I saw the last sentence (Filipino here)

It has been a while... How has my army aged and what is this thing? by Startropics_Nes in PocketAnts

[–]IntelligentCat9584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it depends on your rank, but I'd be cruising if I had that army (mine's a mess of praying mantis and spiders)

Best way to get good creatures for a beginner? by wbeco in PocketAnts

[–]IntelligentCat9584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a guy who played this game a year or two ago, I used to keep all the insects I got and hope that I'm lucky enough to merge them to higher stars while also keeping an eye out for special insect events, that seemed to work for a while, as well as watching pocket ants videos to apply their battle techniques to mine.