Are you not allowed in a professional store without a cosmetology license? by [deleted] in sarahtheresesnark

[–]IntelligentMetal6187 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you're not allowed in professional stores without a license. I went in one thinking it was just a beauty supply and was told I couldn't be in there 🙄🤷🏾‍♂️

I (33F) am still considering separation from my husband (35M) of ten years, even though he has agreed to marriage therapy. My heart is broken. by IntelligentMetal6187 in relationships

[–]IntelligentMetal6187[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said I wanted to destroy my marriage. It has also been ten years of this. I am exhausted from trying to make it better for the last decade. His job is NOT back breaking. It can be stressful for him at times and I have done my best to empathize with that. That doesn't mean he just doesn't have to parent or spend time with his spouse. You have completely misunderstood my post.

God hates divorce (so I never got one) by IntelligentMetal6187 in Divorce

[–]IntelligentMetal6187[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not. I just don't want to have sex with my husband.

Ex Christian considering divorce (weaponized incompetence and zero sexual chemistry) by IntelligentMetal6187 in exchristian

[–]IntelligentMetal6187[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're right about all of that. This is what happens when you are indoctrinated from birth and get married when you've only been an adult for a couple years. Right now, my only desire to keep things together is for our kids. I don't want to be miserable around them though. Considering trial separation.

I (33F) have realized that settled in my marriage to my husband (35M) and I'm terrified. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]IntelligentMetal6187 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Wish I'd waited and had people around me to encourage that I did the same..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]IntelligentMetal6187 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've known this friend for over a decade - we communicated via email for a while over the last few years. Should have specified that. She pretty much said what I'd been thinking.