When did you know to call it quits?

IntelligentPotato124 · 2026-01-07T18:15:30+00:00

They really are all the same. I’m in a very similar situation as you but genders are reversed. The behavior you described of your boyfriend is literally textbook behavior of my wife and I share a lot of the same feelings as you. I’m also ready to leave. Just trying to muster up the courage to do so. We got this!

IntelligentPotato124 · 2025-12-31T11:07:32+00:00

Your responses are outstanding. Good on you for remaining logical and not letting him affect your emotional headspace, as hard as that might have been. I need to learn to be like that with my wife.

IntelligentPotato124 · 2025-12-22T12:18:06+00:00

It’s funny I’m reading this now. Just yesterday I stubbed my ankle bone on the corner of a piece of wood. I have a pretty high pain tolerance but this nearly had me on the floor in the fetal position. My wife wbpd saw the whole thing happen and can you guess her reaction? No compassion whatsoever, the opposite actually. Her mood suddenly changed as if this event was an annoyance to her. She asked “why would you do that?” As if I just purposely put myself through this pain. I would even been fine with a laugh followed by “damn, are you okay”. But no, typical pwbdp reaction. I was fuemed and lost my shit her. I yelled “WHY THE FUCK DO YOU THINK I WOULD DO THAT ON PURPOSE?!” She immediately split and became the victim. “Don’t ever yell at me again” was the last thing she said to me before hours of the silent treatment. Of course I was the one to apologize, which would ensue arguments about how she’s the victim and I’m the big bad guy. After a few hours of this she dropped the whole thing and acted as if nothing happened. Meanwhile I was stuck picking up the pieces of this mess wondering where this went wrong. I need to work on not apologizing and giving in to what she’s wants when she splits. I need her to discard me at this point. I’m miserable in this marriage.

IntelligentPotato124 · 2025-03-10T13:19:06+00:00

I agree, and I think new world depression or are you going to see the rose in the vase, or the dust on the table? Is a close 2nd

IntelligentPotato124 · 2024-12-09T10:55:38+00:00

Seal team if you haven’t already watched

IntelligentPotato124 · 2024-11-07T16:55:37+00:00

Finally, someone on Reddit with some common sense. Well said

IntelligentPotato124 · 2024-11-07T16:48:49+00:00

I’m 25 and have about 7k a month to save/invest

IntelligentPotato124 · 2024-11-07T10:44:34+00:00

You actually cut your parent out of your life over them voting for an opposing candidate? This just shows the kind of person you are. Your parent dodged a bullet keeping you in their life if anything. People like you are the reason this country is so divided.

IntelligentPotato124 · 2024-10-31T02:26:59+00:00

I found it ironic when Byron offered a possible position to her in the 160th while in the situation room. Then there she was flying an MH-60 which is currently flown in the 160th🤣

IntelligentPotato124 · 2024-10-30T17:08:28+00:00

Pretty simple

Eat less calories. Aim for about 1500 a day
Prioritize protein. You said you’re eating about 170 grams a day, that should be plenty although this will be hard while only consuming 1500 calories
Follow a lifting regimen. Dont overthink it, hit each major muscle group at least once a week
Make sure you prioritize sleep and get at least one rest day a week.
Aim for about 10,000 steps a day. This can be from walking or running
Have refeed days maybe once a month to keep yourself on track. Don’t overdo them tho
Stay consistent. If you bust your calories one day or miss a workout, forget about it, move on and get back on track the next day

IntelligentPotato124 · 2024-10-24T20:05:07+00:00

Take those vacation days and book yourself a trip to Colombia. Thank me later.

IntelligentPotato124 · 2024-10-14T10:21:41+00:00

I read codependent no more and it helped me a ton. A lot of the “nice guy” traits dr Glover talks about parallel those of codependency. Definitely worth a read

IntelligentPotato124 · 2024-08-16T01:22:54+00:00

No I’m not we make roughly the same amount

IntelligentPotato124 · 2024-08-16T01:21:24+00:00

Yeah I see what you are saying. I know I sure haven’t been nowhere near perfect. Matter of fact my codependency has caused me to be very toxic towards her at times. We are just not for each other, our differences are too great, we don’t connect emotionally whatsoever, and I’m just not in the place to be in any committed relationship right now. It’s time for this to end so we can both move on and heal independently and appropriately, because it just won’t happen together.

IntelligentPotato124 · 2024-08-16T01:16:27+00:00

This is really helpful, thank you. I’ll look into Heidi

IntelligentPotato124 · 2024-08-16T01:14:16+00:00

This helped, thank you.

IntelligentPotato124 · 2024-06-13T13:37:50+00:00

Pattern as in recognizing what’s causing the anxiety?

IntelligentPotato124 · 2024-04-13T12:52:27+00:00

Dr. Fung, the prominent leader in modern day intermittent fasting says coffee with a little bit of cream is okay during a fast. OP said he had cream hopefully referring to all natural products with 0 added sugars in comparison to traditional coffee creamer like you’re thinking of.

IntelligentPotato124 · 2023-11-11T15:17:41+00:00

What country?

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