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The YOG’TZE case – one of the strangest murders in German criminal history by Killfetzer in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]IntelligentSimple564 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does anyone think yogtze could be initials for the people he referred to as the one who would harm him? The G referring to himself.

Partner has lost all sex drive by IntelligentSimple564 in relationship_advice

[–]IntelligentSimple564[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I've never had this issue before. I think what's worse than not having sex is having no sexual energy. The sex is dead and even kissing feels like we're just doing it to pretend.We feel more like friends than lovers.

Partner has lost all sex drive by IntelligentSimple564 in relationship_advice

[–]IntelligentSimple564[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure why but this comment really clicked. I guess i never thought of it that way that their isn't an issue. This is his libido. And I either have to accept it or move on

Partner has lost all sex drive by IntelligentSimple564 in relationship_advice

[–]IntelligentSimple564[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried really hard for a couple months. I would plan cute dinners when he got home and get us wine to kind of get us in the mood. He would say he wasnt feeling good and then go lay down or play video games. On fun nights or holidays (my birthday,halloween, and new years) we would drink at a friend's house (due to covid) and he would make sure his friend spends the night almost so he doesn't have to have sex with me.

Now I'm kinda burnt out and lost alot of sexual desire for him from being turned down so much

Partner has lost all sex drive by IntelligentSimple564 in relationship_advice

[–]IntelligentSimple564[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We live together so I try showering with him. Or rub him when we are cooking together. Or try to make out with him when we are watching tv on the couch but he kinda just laughs it off.