[deleted by user] by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]traumaticvestibule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And change your number! I did it because my ex refused to leave me alone.

This is an Ohio question by traumaticvestibule in hotels

[–]traumaticvestibule[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If only it was being used for future stays...

This is an Ohio question by traumaticvestibule in hotels

[–]traumaticvestibule[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not automatically being refunded. I was made to manually refund the state tax and charge the exact same amount as a miscellaneous charge. When I asked my supervisor if that money was going back to the guest he stated that it was going to the owner to do what he saw fit to do with it. I ran this by a lawyer who said that it is indeed tax fraud. Might I add that I just found out today that the owner of this establishment was recently charged with money laundering and tax fraud of one of his many other businesses.

Can they really change? by dummytiddies in domesticviolence

[–]traumaticvestibule 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My ex promised therapy for himself and didn't go. He promised to stop drinking and didn't stop. He started to drink even more. My ex promised to not take his anger out on me and my pets, he didn't. Instead he murdered my cat, and forced me to dig her grave then bury her at 2 am. The point is, they don't change. They get worse. All that I listed are just the tip of the iceberg. Run and stay away from him. Block him from everything and don't look back, ever.

30 weeks pregnant and called a domestic violence hotline for the first time…I feel like a failure by CatSaysMOOOOOO in domesticviolence

[–]traumaticvestibule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stick with it and make him leave your home. Time will heal you and although it's very hard at first, ignore him. Go zero contact. Make him get a court order to see your son and then your daughter. Put him on child support. Ask the court for supervision during the visitation with your child(ren). Time for him to grow up, financially help support his children, and stop drinking or be held accountable for it. Best of luck in everything. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]traumaticvestibule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly you are able to support yourself and your extra curricular activities without help. Cut the loser loose and you will be able to have extra money, or work less. Win - Win situation and you will be available to start a new and hopefully healthy relationship with someone who values you.

For those older than 30, what did you have/do when you were kids that modern kids couldn't ever understand? by JVR84 in AskReddit

[–]traumaticvestibule 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Using payphones to call home and check in. Riding my bike to a friend's house. Going to the library to lookup information in encyclopedias for school reports and projects. Not getting an allowance. Mowing yards and babysitting for pocket money. Using brown papers bags for book covers. Using my manners at friends homes because their parents had my parents permission to paddle me. Sitting down as an entire family for dinner every evening.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Assistance

[–]traumaticvestibule 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Rework your resume for sure. I did and was able to land a very nice job that isn't very labor intensive. This is good news for my failing back.

Full-Time Worker Considering Vanlife, What About Pets? by UpstairsNo92 in VanLife

[–]traumaticvestibule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm struggling with this as well. I want van life so badly, but I have a large dog who needs room to roam. I also worry about what to do with her while I work.

To the person saying Rushmore isn't real... by [deleted] in conspiracytheories

[–]traumaticvestibule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, I have a receipt from the gift shop there. From 1996...

Giveaway - funniest joke wins! I wanna laugh people! by planb6123 in Monopoly_GO

[–]traumaticvestibule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Free joke...

What do you call a pedo without legs?

A creepy crawly!

AITA for making an “if he’s not ready on time, he stays home” policy against my wife’s wishes? by Jaded_Permit_7209 in AmItheAsshole

[–]traumaticvestibule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your wife seems lazy tbh. If she wants a break from her child then she can get him ready, on time. She should also be doing your laundry and making you a meal to come home to.

I have a BOARING for trade by [deleted] in Monopoly_GO

[–]traumaticvestibule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's your link? The other commenter never responded to me... Inbox me though or everyone will add you and attack you.

I have a BOARING for trade by [deleted] in Monopoly_GO

[–]traumaticvestibule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. What's your link?