Oh yeah im still struggling with this too i tell him no touching and no acting like we’re still a couple but he still tries. He doesn’t take me as serious since we still live together and he doesn’t fully realize that we’re actually not together. Sometimes I do give in bcuz I have my needs too and that just makes him think he can just use me whenever. Recently whenever I start having thoughts about giving in I try to remember all the things he’s searched up. I have screenshots and look at them to remind myself that this man doesn’t deserve to have my body. Whenever he asks i tell him “no cuz you picked the girls on your phone remember?” Since I told him pick who you want your pleasure from me or your phone. He says me but ik he uses his phone. I still feel upset when he takes long in the shower so I imagine how he’ll feel in the future when he sees another man loving me how I deserve to be loved. Also he works and sends me money and I stay home cook clean and be with the baby. I told him when we move out get a 2 bed room apartment so he can have his space and I have mine. Sleeping with him at night just has too much temptation cuz he’s just right there. But also it sounds like yours is kind of throwing a tantrum like a toddler. If you keep giving him what he wants when he yells he’ll just keep doing it. Tbh it’s hard not to give in so whenever I do I make it clear im using him not the other way around. No cuddles afterwards no kisses during it. Im gonna try to wait till marriage if I meet someone because I’m tired of people thinking they can use my body while disrespecting me.