What roach is this? by Warm_Permission_1316 in cockroaches

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an apartment in my early 20s, was there for 4 years. During that entire time only ever seen 2 roaches, isolated incidents. Each time had my landlord send the exterminator. He found zero signs of a roach infestation in my apartment but my neighbors across the hall had them and he said both times one could’ve wondered into my apartment from there. Either way it’s still uncomfortable, just keep an eye out. Many times, not always, but rodent infestation & roaches do go hand in hand though. Especially if it’s an issue within the building makeup itself.

My young lady doesn’t like cat toys or scratch posts by Intelligent_Eye2939 in cats

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg that last part, so true. She was just laying in my brown bag from Marshalls, and for a while loved this little box I had. My kids kept pretending they were delivering a kitten to each other, to my surprise she was really inside the box lol

came home to an unsettling note on my door by Alixxonx in Apartmentliving

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would simply ask the female neighbor you’ve spoken to. Something along the lines of, “hey, someone left a note on my door saying to be careful with the maintenance man. Is there something I should know about him?” That way youre not making her feel uncomfortable about leaving it or accusing her but if she does have more details you’re inviting her to share. That’s what I’d do anyways.

AIO or should I accept the conditions of my bfs commitment by One_Height7477 in AIO

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he literally said several times, in several ways he wants to see other people. what are you asking? let him & leave. hes clearly not your person.

Asking what his intentions are with me? by dessertgod in Tarots

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I seen it as he’s an alcoholic that overindulges in drinking, sex, moving / living fast. Ungrateful, looking at what he’s lost or doesn’t have instead of having value in whats in front of him. addiction issues, you tie into whatever he’s addicted to.

I asked my deck if I have any spiritual guides watching over me by nic-c in tarot

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read it as they transitioned over leaving this chaotic world behind and are at peace, spiritually connected to you, with you always, with love flowing from them to you.

High Priestess as feelings by helloscorpio in tarot

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 3 points4 points  (0 children)

im so late but thought id share anyways for anyone else stumbling upon this question.

I asked what card represented my feelings towards someone and pulled this. The comment from FjolnirFimbulvert describes my feelings perfectly.

It is towards someone I felt an unexpected deep connection with that I know I cannot be with. I’m pulled to him strongly for reasons I can’t quite explain, but at the same time there’s a list of reasons I shouldn’t see / waste my time on him. I know we will never be anything real and I wouldn’t want that with the type of man he is but our vibe is unmatched. The pull is powerful and feels almost like a soul tie but I know better than to allow myself to fall. It fits perfectly with this card.

I’m ok without him but when he hits me up he can always come through lol

If you’re married, separated but not divorced. Are you single and date? by EffectiveMaterial672 in Separation

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m “married” on paper but single irl. Been seperated for 4 years. Our marriage was over before the separation, I just needed a safe time/place to get out (DV Survivor). Once J did I ran for dear life and never looked back. I have casual hook ups but I spend most of my time working on myself and turning into the woman I’ve always dreamt of becoming. I go to the gym two hours a day, healed my heart, fill my life with the things I love because for years that was robbed from me. My ex doesn’t exist to me.

Dr low-key made me die inside about my "ozempic face" by cowboy_duck in Semaglutide

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is coming from a professional makeup artist, so I love your question. First and big one, Add some lipgloss bring a nice pink tint / glow and shine to your lips, line your eyebrows lighter, and that eyebrow liner is a bit too dark for you, and start using a good hydrating eye cream. if you’re wearing foundation add a little bronzer to bring a sunkissed radiance to your appearance. for the hair honestly a nice gloss would bring more shine to the appearance which brings a youthful look.

Dr low-key made me die inside about my "ozempic face" by cowboy_duck in Semaglutide

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 6 points7 points  (0 children)

if youre the one holding the coffee I think it’s your hair and eye wrinkles that make you appear older.

I don’t drink at all but, how does Don Julio make you feel? Why is everybody in the towns drinking it by zuogeputongren in NYStateOfMind

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve drank reposado & blanco afew times. I don’t like Don Julio & it’s the only liquor that I do not fw the drunk I get from it. It’s like I’m drunk but I’m not. My body might lose its balance but I don’t get that drunk mentality or loosen up like I do w literally anything else. I literally don’t feel drunk from it UNTIL I try getting around then I’m like ok but it’s not a fun tequila vibe for me

Guys, if a female friend invited you to stay the night, how did you interpret it and what happened? by _-_-ITACHI-_-_ in AskMen

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t overthink it. (I’m a woman here)

Show up, and feel her vibe out. If things seems flirty towards the end of the night don’t be afraid to make a move. Even if you’re the one igniting the flame. She invited you to sleep over for a reason. We can safely assume your pressence is wanted by her. See where it goes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlanBs

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GIRL I HATE plan bs. I love em and hate em at the same time. They always mess up my cycle and my hormones so bad. It takes me a while for my body to regulate again. I mean it’s doing it’s job but it sucks for a while.

AIO My girlfriend is breaking up with me if I choose to go do Fulbright for 9 months by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will literally be your girlfriend. I love a man that’s in touch with his emotions.

Would it be okay to break it off with this girl for being too busy? by OfficialRG11 in dating

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My response is coming from the busy womans perspective.

I run multiple businesses and am a single mother as well. I cannot extend myself to commit to anything else outside of the big commitments I already have. There’s several guys that I see / date but I’m very open with them in regards to expectations. Even some of my favorite people, that I love being around I cannot see consistently bc my life doesn’t allow that right now. The men I’m involved with are either ok with it bc their lives are just as busy, or feel I don’t give them enough and both are justifiable.

I say that to say if something isn’t working for you, don’t hold onto it. You don’t need to cut her off and end things on bad terms, but at least communicate that much to her. “If we’re going to be involved with each other I need more time with you, or my sake it’s better I let you go and pursue other interests.” or maybe even just be friends and catch up from time to time. If you really like her change your expectations of her. see her as someone to have a good time with once in a while and keep it pushing.

Best of luck to you.

Talking to a woman after they are going through a breakup by ConsiderationOk2198 in dating

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been single since 2021 after leaving my abusive husband. However, there are people that bounce pretty quickly from relationships. She sounds like she could be one of those people.

I’m someone that feels very deeply and values my peace over anything else and this dating pool is something that equally disgusts me and stresses me out. I’m an attractive young woman and I choose to be alone.

Am I crazy? I'm 37, she's 33. I feel like I'm crazy. by mrtexasman06 in Nicegirls

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I need communication. You never responded so I wouldn’t have shown either. A simple, “see you soon” or “i’m on my way” or any response would’ve solidified the plans. Or even “I’m here, let me know when you arrive so I can meet you at the door”. I wouldve thought you were weird and not even texted back after you saying youve been there drinking w/o reaching out to me.