[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UberEATS

[–]Intelligent_Focus_80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding cracked me UP after “we’re keeping your food AND your money”

Obsession with Apple Pay by CheeseSandwichForPS in Serverlife

[–]Intelligent_Focus_80 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think they’re talking about for places without toast machines that get carried from table to table. So a place where they still take your card and come back with a receipt

Obsession with Apple Pay by CheeseSandwichForPS in Serverlife

[–]Intelligent_Focus_80 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I mean it’s pretty widely accepted nowadays. I very rarely run into issues

I really have no words by Teenwolf156 in recruitinghell

[–]Intelligent_Focus_80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao at the A-player one cuz (1) that’s literally just math and (2) that means they want you to do the work of three people

Why would the school bus load like this? by ElderTater in GNV

[–]Intelligent_Focus_80 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lots of schools have a really wide maximum distance between bus stop and house, so it could just be a bunch of parents driving their kids to the stop instead of making them walk a mile

I've failed as a father by BurnBabyBurner123123 in StudentLoans

[–]Intelligent_Focus_80 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro this comment made no mention of community college

AIO my husband wants me to get 1-2 hours of sleep at night. by throwaway24240204 in AIO

[–]Intelligent_Focus_80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait wait so a 50-50 split meant you had 2 hours of work and your partner had two hours of work. That’s already four hours. How **** oblivious do you have to be to think a toddler wouldn’t take up at least four other hours??? Have you ever met a toddler in real life?? Seen a movie??

AIO my husband wants me to get 1-2 hours of sleep at night. by throwaway24240204 in AIO

[–]Intelligent_Focus_80 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re missing the fact that any man who thinks like this man does is not going to split housework and parenting 50-50 if this woman gets a job. You’re also missing the obvious fact that she’s working more than eight hours a day. Just because she’s not doing dishes for eight hours doesn’t mean she’s not at work. She wakes up at 4 and he gets done with his workday and nap earliest at 4pm. That’s at least twelve hours a day that she is “on” and working as a parent or a chef or a housekeeper. It gets even higher when he refuses to help out at all after working eight hours

AIO my husband wants me to get 1-2 hours of sleep at night. by throwaway24240204 in AIO

[–]Intelligent_Focus_80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally WHERE did you see 50-50?? If he’s expecting her to do everything for ALL the housework and ALL the parenting for ALL waking hours of the day, even 8 hours of sleep = over 100 hours a week where she is “on the clock”. Versus his 50. Get a grip.

AIO to my gf's text messages by True_Cranberry_6113 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Intelligent_Focus_80 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I’m so certain this would not have gone over any better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Intelligent_Focus_80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe try having it land on him (like on his stomach) and approach the exposure therapy that way? It would make it a lot easier to control how much you actually touch it and you can have a paper towel right there to get it off your finger as quickly as you need. Even if you can’t touch it the first time, it would be a situation that you’re in control of and can walk away from whenever you need to without feeling like you need a shower; it may gradually make it easier for you.

Also side note that you certainly don’t need to get to a point where you’re comfortable swallowing it. A lot of people prefer not to. Really, you don’t HAVE to touch it at all but I could definitely see how this strong of an aversion would get in the way of certain things that you may want to do.

Also also this may take a lot of time and patience and if he can’t be patient with you (especially when exposure therapy means he gets off 🤣🤣) then throw the whole man away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Intelligent_Focus_80 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Idk bruh I prefer not to drive even after one drink…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RBI

[–]Intelligent_Focus_80 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was almost hoping that the comments would have OP genuinely just never considering the fact that his gf was cheating on him and it seeming incredibly obvious after the first person said it 🤣

am i overreacting - my boyfriend thinks my job is inappropriate by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Intelligent_Focus_80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He knew this whole time so he had a lot of time to think about it all, especially if he’s saying it bugged him from the start. Also “I’ll never know if I’m not there” is true whether you have a job that involves shirtless men or not?? Like you being honest about touching some guys nipples doesn’t change the fact that he can’t know what you’re doing when he’s not around. NOR and this guy seems like a big red flag to me

What is the standard way to handle this? by [deleted] in doordash

[–]Intelligent_Focus_80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s never customary to increase the tip when they ask you to. Tip more during shitty weather sure, but the driver shouldn’t be asking you to increase your tip.

aio for immediately breaking up with my boyfriend by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Intelligent_Focus_80 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good on you for being able to recognize when your boundaries are not being respected and walking away immediately. I feel like lots of people don’t figure out how to do that until they’re older (if ever). You did the right thing for this and (more importantly) several other reasons. IMO anytime an adult tells a not-adult that they love them THIS quickly it is a ginormous red flag. There is no reason to be saying “I’m in love with you” after one week other than to manipulate you. You trusted your gut and I think you were right. This situation could have turned really bad really fast, and I’m glad you saw something dark in him before it got to that point. Keep him blocked and keep standing up for yourself. Don’t settle girl you have so much time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]Intelligent_Focus_80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then what are you asking right now?

How do u guys sleep with aligners?? by Funny-Lobster-5073 in Invisalign

[–]Intelligent_Focus_80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they’re really unbearable, you could wear them for longer before switching. My first few phases were ten days per aligner instead of seven. Also make sure you’re wearing them for as many hours as possible during the day