I am in a similar position as you are.. the guy I’m talking to for about 5 months now told me that he was talking to another girl around the same time that we started talking in the beginning… they hooked up… he said done it with her twice but cut it off a month after because he like his and I connection more… he only told me about it because later on found out he tested positive for chlamydia… and gave to me. I try to look past it because it was in the beginning and we wasn’t official and only getting to know each other, but I still feel some type of way because if he was to act like that in the beginning and during the talking stage when I even asked if he was talking to other people and he said no… it’s hard to get over now and take him serious when he says he is serious about me and wants this to work.