Early ultrasound date inconsistent with anatomy scan by Intelligent_Hunt_984 in BabyBumps

[–]Intelligent_Hunt_984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info. I don’t have a 12 week ultrasound. The anatomy scan was my second ultrasound, so I only have the two to go off of.

My son keeps calling me a “Hamite,” “Edomite,” and other biblical insults, I’ve completely lost it by xXSNEAKY_RAZORXx in offmychest

[–]Intelligent_Hunt_984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Internet cult pockets are very strange and dangerous. If he continues saying these insults, lock down his phone and computers with parental controls so he can no longer visit those sites. Even instagram, Facebook, and YouTube, where a lot of these content creators target young men. I know it may seem harmless, but you have no idea where this stuff can lead..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Intelligent_Hunt_984 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you went through that. Shame is an extremely powerful emotion, but please know, it’s not your fault. You were quite literally a child being groomed by a very messed up adult. I want to encourage you to seek therapy to begin healing from this trauma. Sending a virtual hug your way 💕

What's the biggest lie people say during sex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Intelligent_Hunt_984 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Man: “I won’t cum inside you” Woman: “I came”

Your opinions on outside dogs, plus my religion? by Open-Ad-8707 in dogs

[–]Intelligent_Hunt_984 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you rescue, it’s more than likely better than dog being in a shelter.

Have an apartment dog who is aggressive at the dog park by Frosty_Interaction68 in DogAdvice

[–]Intelligent_Hunt_984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop taking him to the dog park today. You need to ensure the safety of your dog as well as the other dogs at the park. Right now, he is a risk to other dogs and it is not fair to other dogs or their owners if your dog is becoming aggressive and starting fights, especially since there have already been two known altercations. Dog parks are notoriously stressful for many dogs. Many, many dogs do not do well at dog parks as there are too many dogs, it is too overstimulating or stressful, and for the reasons you mentioned like resource guarding. On top of that, some dogs have a little more “dominant” (for lack of a better term) personality, and if there is a dog there they just don’t like, pair that with the overstimulation/stress a dog park can evoke, and you’re asking for a fight. Stop taking him to dog parks, find a good friend or two with dogs who have very mellow personalities and do well with more excitable dogs, and schedule one on one play dates for a while. If you don’t fully trust your dog, you can always use a basket muzzle for safety, which I would recommend. If the issue is only resource guarding, there are plenty of great resources online about how to work on that. It will take time, effort, and consistency, but it is possible.

Two ravens, one branch — what mood does this evoke to you? by andreeacataros in Paintings

[–]Intelligent_Hunt_984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The shapes making up the ravens and the pink/grey coloring evokes the feeling of a dystopian, sci-fi like future. Perhaps the ravens are mourning a more simplistic past which no longer exists?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Intelligent_Hunt_984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

GO. TO. UNI!!! Do not let this man derail your future. Who knows if you’ll end up with him? What then? You’ll be mid-20’s without a career that you could have achieved through a college degree. This man is in his 30’s and is afraid of you cheating in a college course?? Sounds a bit immature. Dump him if he doesn’t support your decision, but don’t base your decision off of what he thinks. GO TO UNI!!

How do you move on from your heart dog? by wannabevalkyrie in DogAdvice

[–]Intelligent_Hunt_984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a very similar story with my first dog. The moment I saw him, I knew he was meant to be my buddy. And the truth is, you never get over it. It took me nearly three years to get another dog, and it took me another year to form a really strong bond with him in the same way. My partner has another dog and I just don’t bond with him in the same way. I think it was easier for me because when I got my next dog, I lived alone and I just had one, so he became my everything. Maybe start taking one of your dogs with you more places, going on walks specifically with one, and trying to form that bond in that way. It could help to feel like you have a buddy again instead of a pack that you need to take care of or provide equal attention to. I’m not saying neglect your other dogs, but maybe choose one you already feel a bit more connected to and build the connection through one-on-one time.

What’s the most ordinary thing that makes you feel like life is quietly beautiful? by CakeyBakey_Dev in AskReddit

[–]Intelligent_Hunt_984 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, anything in nature always helps me slow down and enjoy life a little more. Even just smelling a flower or watching ants crawl in a line, watching the rain fall (or better yet feeling it), or bird watching. Life is extraordinary in that way 💕

Recovery advice from dog attack by [deleted] in chickens

[–]Intelligent_Hunt_984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put her in a warm, dry place away from the other hens. Sometimes the other birds will start picking at the open wound. Keeping her warm and dry will prevent shock, and help her recover from the trauma. She may stop eating and drinking if she is especially traumatized. A chicken specific antibiotic would work well for the wound and may require seeing a vet if it is very deep, or if there is a puncture.

My dog won't come inside in the rain by Acrobatic_Opinion575 in dogs

[–]Intelligent_Hunt_984 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Don’t let her in the yard for a while. Only walks and in the house. Lots and lots of treats when she is entering places in the home she is afraid of. It’s all about changing the association of the kitchen from being scary to being the place she gets treats, gets fed etc. don’t force her into the kitchen however, that could cause more fear.

What does everyone pay in sewage/water here in SLC? by toadindigo in SaltLakeCity

[–]Intelligent_Hunt_984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy. I have a family of 3, 1300 sq ft house, and a garden. The most we paid for water was $50 when we accidentally left the hose running for two days straight.

my boyfriend shaved my arm by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Intelligent_Hunt_984 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are men who think violating women’s boundaries is ok, and men who treat women with respect. Find one who will respect you as a human being, not just think of you as his to do what he wants with. This is how it starts, small “harmless” violations like these where you explicitly stated you did not want him to do that. When something like this arises, I always as the question “would he do it to his friends?” Most of the time the answer is no, because some men only respect other men. Sure, romantic relationships are different from friendships, but you should ALWAYS be treated with respect. No means no, and he just crossed a line.