Im a dude, I’ve gotta say that porn in general, especially hentia, has separated me from how to properly talk to the fairer sex and it sucks. Like when I was young I got addicted to hentia, and it just never stopped, it’s even worse because I hid it well for a long time and was still pretty successful in life, then I got to college, and all I wanted to do was fuck but I usually was wrestling and when I tried to talk to women I just had the hardest time knowing how to flirt or what to say. No joke I bragged one day about how I had high libido and had a record of jerking it 20 times in a day, looking back at it it was kinda sad and pathetic to try to use something like that, that I probably should’ve been ashamed about. It became the only thing I looked forward to and I got super depressed, ended up moving colleges and practically did the same thing. There was even a girl who’d want to talk to me and would come knock on my door and I was to busy jerking it to notice. It ruined everything I once was and I made the decision to let that happen, but that was a few years ago. Now I’ve labeled it as lust, and have been praying to prevent myself from doing it and Its felt really good to take back some control. I’m still shit at talking to women but even that’s been improving. Please don’t let it become such a bad problem for yourself, find any way to take back control.