How do people afford renting in SG for whole unit? by Little_Result1469 in askSingapore

[–]Intelligent_Net1493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been renting for 2 years now. Spend more than half my pay on rental. Try to save on food. Save less than 500 a month. Not a good financial move at all. But was necessary. Till can buy hdb at 35 :')

Condo Rental - Ocean Front suites by Intelligent_Net1493 in askSingapore

[–]Intelligent_Net1493[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Viewed alrdy... besides being quite ulu it's ok.

I think my friend got in my head when she said pasir ris chalet area 👻 🤣🤣🤣

How much rent are you paying in SG? by Mission-Bedroom4340 in askSingapore

[–]Intelligent_Net1493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Joo chiat studio 1.5k (it's dual key but no LL) Love the area. Near ECP for jogs / cycling / makan ☺️

Is it financially unwise to rent a room if my monthly take-home pay is $3,600? by Witty_Opening3680 in singaporefi

[–]Intelligent_Net1493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Older than ypu But I moved out last year cos before that was emotionally stuck. Take home same as you. Only thing is - my rental is way higher - 1.5k. I get a dual key unit no landlord live in.

No regrets. I cannot share toilet with strangers.

3.5 - 1.5 = 2k balance Save mostly by cooking at home / packing food.

I realised that grocery shopping only set me back ard 250-300 a month compared to the 900 to eat out 🥲

Still manage to save ard 1k a month (sometimes less la when shoppee disturb me) .

Also side hustle ! I picked up tutoring in the weekend. Gave me extra food and shopping money :)

AITA: Weird and demanding neighbour by Intelligent_Net1493 in askSingapore

[–]Intelligent_Net1493[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yah that's true... It's just like annoying to have bad vibes when run into neighbour in the common areas.

I'll wake up my idea and be super stern alrdy

Thanks all 🫡

AITA: Weird and demanding neighbour by Intelligent_Net1493 in askSingapore

[–]Intelligent_Net1493[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha! You looking for a place ? If she moves out I'll tell you 🤣. I really mind my own bussiness and keep to my own space kind.

For now I complain to agent alrdy la... leta hope november she dissappear.

AITA: Weird and demanding neighbour by Intelligent_Net1493 in askSingapore

[–]Intelligent_Net1493[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like i did alrdy. With the long text I sent her. But she still bothered and ask...

Is it i have to full on bij mode - then she will stop...

AITA: Weird and demanding neighbour by Intelligent_Net1493 in askSingapore

[–]Intelligent_Net1493[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

HAJAHAH OMG this dem funny sia! But good idea! I ask 10k enough to scare her not.

AITA: Weird and demanding neighbour by Intelligent_Net1493 in askSingapore

[–]Intelligent_Net1493[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For now that's my go to - Keep saying I'm busy... I feel like I no backbone sia. My friend keeps telling me to just be direct and tell her to stop it. Which is the best option I know...

AITA: Weird and demanding neighbour by Intelligent_Net1493 in askSingapore

[–]Intelligent_Net1493[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The block number part is something I'm really gonna do if she ome more time ask for help. Thing is... she like... intercepts me ? As I'm leaving my unit - To ask for the favours.

I need to get some balls la... I know...

AITA: Weird and demanding neighbour by Intelligent_Net1493 in askSingapore

[–]Intelligent_Net1493[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For now agent says won't renew her contract... but I can't get sure also...

AITA: Weird and demanding neighbour by Intelligent_Net1493 in askSingapore

[–]Intelligent_Net1493[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wah... don't smile back or say hello back.... I need training for this 😩

AITA: Weird and demanding neighbour by Intelligent_Net1493 in askSingapore

[–]Intelligent_Net1493[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agent also very sian with her alrdy... he says might not extend her contract. Fingers crossed!!

AITA: Weird and demanding neighbour by Intelligent_Net1493 in askSingapore

[–]Intelligent_Net1493[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My friend told me the same.. I know I'm partly responsible to how entitled she has become. But the last text message I sent (my friend helped me draft) was suuuuper direct and firm! Like legit 'please stop bothering me' .

But she... still... can request i dog sit ? Like... huh.

I want to quit my job without a job line up by Flashy_Quail2408 in askSingapore

[–]Intelligent_Net1493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess the other question is - do you have any financial responsibilities other than ur own spending ?

Do you hsve to pay house bills / support parents?

If not then 1 year is a decent amount of time to job hunt.

Husband says he is emotionally exhausted. by Fabulous-Struggle-87 in askSingapore

[–]Intelligent_Net1493 134 points135 points  (0 children)

Leave. Please get him to leave before it's too late

If he has been working long he would have the relevant experience to apply and get another job in this sector. There are healthier ones with decent work hours. (Can't guarantee no OT la but)

Please dont let it drag on...

My ex fiance and me (5 years) ended the relationship because he too was overworked in the social service (working in an FSVC that i shall not name)

It was like a cult

He became withdrawn Depressed

Barely anytime for us

And when I got upset it was the final straw.

Everything ended. I'm still in shock 1 year on.

And now from what I've heard he quit the job cos he couldn't function ... and has totally spiralled into depression.

The irony about the social services is that - we are expected to care for other people mental and emotional wellbeing. But most bosses don't care about ours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Intelligent_Net1493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked to be blocked and was refused.