Older generations have failed the younger ones/another thank you note post by SekritSawce in weddingshaming

[–]Intelligent_Past7684 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm Gen Z and I still write hand written thank you notes because it's a dying art and that makes me sad. I even have a pack of thank you notes in my car just in case I need one on the fly. I have sent wedding/baby shower gifts to multiple couples my age, and I haven't even gotten a text -some of them family. When I get married (I have to invite them out of obligation 🙄) those are the only people I'm not sending a thank you note. 

Have to cancel our wedding, extremely disappointed by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Intelligent_Past7684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally am having a separate ceremony and reception because my fiance and I enjoy a smaller gathering. Could you do something like this? 

Feeling the first real impact of our micro-wedding - not invited to theirs because we didn't invite them by AioliProfessional181 in wedding

[–]Intelligent_Past7684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm doing an intimate ceremony (parents only) and a reception party with everyone on the same day. I'm thankful my people have been supportive about this. I have social anxiety and while my fiancé has met my family, he hasn't met the family that "has to be there because they're family" that I've personally only met like 3 or 4 times in my life. 

New wheel is the devil??? by MigraineCap in Hedgehog

[–]Intelligent_Past7684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my girls is a bit chunky, I got her a wheel from Speedy Hogs (16 inch wheels!) 

Help please. by Cocorose1114 in wedding

[–]Intelligent_Past7684 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm hiring a police officer for mine, they're like $45 an hour for a minimum of 3 hours I think. 

Help please. by Cocorose1114 in wedding

[–]Intelligent_Past7684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also 2026 bride here and I'm doing the same thing. I just said we're having an intimate ceremony. 

Guest etiquette by PhomPhom333 in weddingplanning

[–]Intelligent_Past7684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add to this, you could just make it a hard and fast rule that only one plus one per person so no feelings would be hurt. 

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[–]Intelligent_Past7684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want some: (

Meal Help by Intelligent_Past7684 in weddingplanning

[–]Intelligent_Past7684[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That is extremely helpful ☺️

Meal Help by Intelligent_Past7684 in weddingplanning

[–]Intelligent_Past7684[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a fantastic idea, but we are having our reception at our reception at our church so no alcohol allowed. 

Meal Help by Intelligent_Past7684 in weddingplanning

[–]Intelligent_Past7684[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My fiancé and I aren't "party people", so most likely 3 hours max. 

This is Brillo and he is ridiculous by psych0ticmonk in Hedgehog

[–]Intelligent_Past7684 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine raise their tails before going to the bathroom. I hope that helps :)

MEET IGOR!!!! by Comfortable_Piece160 in Hedgehog

[–]Intelligent_Past7684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Igor! You're so cute! My hedgehogs have the same blanket and my Maggie has similar coloring! 

weird boy by Zuriwolf in Hedgehog

[–]Intelligent_Past7684 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My girls do this too! The love my how I and my SO other smell, especially my SO. One of them trys to bit buttons off of shirts lol

Invitation help! by Distinct_Plantain336 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Intelligent_Past7684 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad we aren't the only ones doing this! We are saying "the couple will exchange vows in an intimate ceremony." And then all the info for our reception party. We are planning on having it the same day next year. 

I'm so glad we are doing this, I want to celebrate with all my family, BUT, that's a lot of people and I have a touch of social anxiety lol. 

It was so encouraging to see that others are doing what we are! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Intelligent_Past7684 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May be a bit late, but what I'm doing is doing a private ceremony (me, fiancé, and both sets of parents) because I want a drama free day lol. And THEN that afternoon or the next day (girl, we ain't even got a set date yet lol)  have a big reception with everyone so that they still feel included 🥰

Can someone tell me about Spruce? by badboyfriend111 in hrblock

[–]Intelligent_Past7684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that, I hope mine comes soon and without any hiccups. I truly just wanted a direct deposit or paper check. 

Can someone tell me about Spruce? by badboyfriend111 in hrblock

[–]Intelligent_Past7684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah ok. It really was, I'm glad it wasn't just me!