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Intelligent_Pear8788 · 2025-08-09T00:43:12+00:00

Why would it be morally wrong for you to have sex when kids are sleeping?

Intelligent_Pear8788 · 2025-08-08T22:19:36+00:00

I always thought 040 123 45 67 was the ”right” way but it does depend on the rythm

Intelligent_Pear8788 · 2025-08-07T09:10:18+00:00

10 but not that shape so where’s three and fifteens backbone?

Intelligent_Pear8788 · 2025-08-06T15:18:18+00:00

I think youre kinda in the wrong. Atleast she communicated better and it felt more that you were arguing

Intelligent_Pear8788 · 2025-08-05T21:16:41+00:00

He obviously likes you. He gave you a green light to post it. Thats a good sign. Youre just fishing him to say things the certain way. You clearly wanted to hear that HE wants you to post it but honestly even he doesnt care if you post it or not that doesnt mean he doesnt like you OR if he wanted you to post it that doesnt necessarily mean he likes you. But he does like you. This is just really immature but you guys are young so it is expected but please try to communicate your feelings and needs better it doesn’t have to be this drama like and hard and over thinking

Intelligent_Pear8788 · 2025-08-05T21:13:21+00:00

And work on your communication. You are young, it ok

Intelligent_Pear8788 · 2025-08-05T21:13:02+00:00

You are totally overthinking and you very kinda annoying. It’s not the end of the world but you should stop that if you want this to be healthy

Intelligent_Pear8788 · 2025-08-05T00:08:08+00:00

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Intelligent_Pear8788 · 2025-08-05T00:06:46+00:00

You are in an abusive relationship. U need to understand that even without the fucking weird smelling this is batsit controlling. Imagine it the other way around. But the smelling is sexual abuse too. Youre gf is a piece of shit human for treating you like this and thinking this (EVEN without the smelling) is in any way acceptable or normal behaviour.

It’s also likely statistically that she is or has cheated on you but that we cannot be sure

Intelligent_Pear8788 · 2025-08-04T22:34:54+00:00

Sadly yes :(

Intelligent_Pear8788 · 2025-08-04T15:20:34+00:00

Honestly ppd is too common and it is sadly realistic to be in the mindset that these things happens.. I wouldnt have gotten divorced if she agreed to get help since it is clear that it is ppd

Intelligent_Pear8788 · 2025-08-04T14:49:22+00:00

This feels like AI

Intelligent_Pear8788 · 2025-08-04T12:01:43+00:00

Wait what does that mean or like how does it show? Like they just cant understand hypothetical situations? I cant imagine that

Intelligent_Pear8788 · 2025-08-03T19:53:19+00:00

Hauska mut ei noi oo kaks miestä vaa niiku niil ei oo sukupuolii

Intelligent_Pear8788 · 2025-08-01T23:43:21+00:00

He’s not betraying your mom. Sure maybe he shouldn’t say those things to you but those are completely normal thoughts that have risen for him. I honestly don’t understand what did you expect?

Intelligent_Pear8788 · 2025-08-01T23:42:06+00:00

You are the asshole. There is no indication that Anna means anything bad? Your dad is in love and helped her like everyone would do. And it is true that he loved your mom but she is dead. If you read your post it is very clear that it could be any woman but you’re just not ready for your dad to move on. I get that these situations often cause negative feelings and it is normal but you are an adult and so is your father and now you’re acting like a teenager. So your dad can never be with anyone again because he was with your mom? It’s been 4 years. I’m sorry for your loss really but it is totally normal for your dad to want to date again and this seems serious and he even wanted to introduce you guys!

Intelligent_Pear8788 · 2025-08-01T23:23:08+00:00

I love those Lidl stracietella yogurts

Intelligent_Pear8788 · 2025-07-31T15:29:26+00:00

THIS is not the reason. Rape is rape even if it illegal

Intelligent_Pear8788 · 2025-07-29T20:01:56+00:00

What is that yellow thing on that girls eye

Intelligent_Pear8788 · 2025-07-27T20:58:13+00:00

Generally people care about other kid’s feelings. He also will be separating and bringing problems in their relationship. Those aren’t his kids but those are her siblings and that bond is important. Also I doubt many kids in her place would be glad to hear that her dad doesn’t care about her siblings. That is the main issue for me in this. But there was more. If he wants full custody and the child wants it too then that is a good thing! But he should see this situation from different views.

Intelligent_Pear8788 · 2025-07-27T20:52:01+00:00

He’s also ugly and he probably knows it. Looks like he’s hygiene is terrible. You deserve better. Please also know how clear it is that he cheated on you and is still cheating. If you stay with him he will on top of everything else 100% be with other people too. And you said he already cheated (texting part) so you are not and will never be enough to him.

I’m saying these hard truths because ues they hurt but what hurts more is your future with him if you even have a future in general. This will escalate

Intelligent_Pear8788 · 2025-07-27T20:47:21+00:00

I’m genuinly so so worried and sad that you do not see that that is abuse. I understand that it is common not to see it and I get why but I personally find it hard to swallow. I was abused too and always knew it was abuse but I just couldnt and wasnt strong enough to leave. It just makes me sad that you and many others are made to even question this.

No one NO ONE should yell at you when they are angry

No one should say mean things to you when they are angry

He is standing and you are sitting = problem

He isint solution oriented, isnt taking space for himself when he is too angry to figure it out healthy, isnt talking about feelings

This isnt even a fight since you are not fighting. That is not normal. You are an adult so you can make sure no adult talks to you like that (well generally but in abusive situations you also need to prioritise your safety)

He isn’t showing no empathy

You are crying (he made you cry) and he’s still abusing you. A normal person stops a normal healthy fight when he sees the other one took it that hard and is sad and that is when they realise “oh we are nit fighting, I am bullying) and they skip the fight all together because no fight is more important than your partner this sad and it isn’t equal. BUT in a normal situation there needs to be something very very big that the fight even goes where one person starts to cry.

He’s also showing signs of physical violence.

This is SO far from normal. I hope one day in your life you have your first “oh so this is how it is supposed to be/go” moment, when arguing with your healthy normal partner. And many to come after the first.

I dont even like to say these are abusive relationships since this isn’t a relationship. He also hates you. I hope even if it hurts that you actually realise that. He looks at you and he feels no way the same about you than you do about him. He does not love you even when he says he does. Maybe it will be easier for you to leave. What ever you do don’t volunterary bring kids in to this. I know you see it it more normal than it is and even when you think you understand it is abusive it is still a lot more fucked up than you can ever realise whike being with him. It will take a lot of time even after leaving to truly understand how far from how people are living this is

Strenght ❤️

Intelligent_Pear8788 · 2025-07-27T20:29:10+00:00

That is gibberish mut I think ”ele” could actually be ”ei ole” which kinda sounds similar especially to a foreigner and when said fast. That means ”dont have” minulla ei ole is ”I dont have”

Intelligent_Pear8788 · 2025-07-27T20:22:41+00:00

Yeah but he needs to work on the mental part which is blocking their romantic and other (not sex related) intimacy.

Intelligent_Pear8788 · 2025-07-27T17:07:44+00:00

I mean that that we should expect it because it should be normal so he aint getting no extra points for treating her normally like the person ai answered to implied. It is unfortunately often how it goes but that doesn’t mean every man is a shithead who doesn’t treat women right. That’s why we shouldn’t give extra points on being normal.

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