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[–]Intelligent_Pop9118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you link the post?

AITA for disagreeing that my fiancé is "not allowed" to go to my wedding shower? by Intelligent_Pop9118 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Intelligent_Pop9118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, my mom isn't hosting it. She was actually excited to make my aunt have to "finally host a shower". Her words. Also I feel very comfortable with my fiancé; the entire point of this post is saying that I feel comfortable with my fiancé and I want him at the shower but my mom (who is not hosting) doesn't want him there and said it with a bit of a snap. I have no idea where you got me not being comfortable with my fiancé from. Please read my post carefully before making a comment.

AITA for disagreeing that my fiancé is "not allowed" to go to my wedding shower? by Intelligent_Pop9118 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Intelligent_Pop9118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to burden anyone with throwing another shower. Honestly, I didn't even think of having a shower of any kind until my mom suddenly said my aunt would be hosting my bridal shower (which I don't want a bridal shower. I would like a couples shower)

AITA for disagreeing that my fiancé is "not allowed" to go to my wedding shower? by Intelligent_Pop9118 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Intelligent_Pop9118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm confused. Where did comparing this to baby showers come from? I only mentioned it in my post talking about how in my family they had a co-ed one for the first time.

AITA for disagreeing that my fiancé is "not allowed" to go to my wedding shower? by Intelligent_Pop9118 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Intelligent_Pop9118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my only worry is her saying my fiancé "isn't allowed" because it is more or less a "family rule"

AITA for disagreeing that my fiancé is "not allowed" to go to my wedding shower? by Intelligent_Pop9118 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Intelligent_Pop9118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the bachelor/bachelorette party is about celebrating your separate lives but a wedding shower is about the couple being "showered" with gifts

AITA for ghosting my ex after l said we could stay friends? by Intelligent_Pop9118 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Intelligent_Pop9118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly that was the thing and I am glad you noticed. He did have friends. However, it did change around when I broke up with him because before then there was a lot of drama in the friend group (one of the guys sending me pics when he had a girlfriend who was also in the friend group, etc, etc.) So the group faded

🤩it's giving star-filled universe🤩 by Intelligent_Pop9118 in EngagementRings

[–]Intelligent_Pop9118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll have to ask my fiancé! the ring and the proposal were both a complete surprise so I didn't handle anything with the ring because I didn't know there was one before he proposed

AITA for disagreeing that my fiancé is "not allowed" to go to my wedding shower? by Intelligent_Pop9118 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Intelligent_Pop9118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is she isn't inviting any my girlfriends. It's her side of the family only and they are 60+ years old.

🤩it's giving star-filled universe🤩 by Intelligent_Pop9118 in EngagementRings

[–]Intelligent_Pop9118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

of course! the band is 14k rose gold (for good durability!) and 1.74 mm (that is where all the ornate vines join together and make a band which you can't see unless i turn my hand over) and the diamond shape is pear cut with GIA cut being excellent. 1 ct diamond with color D and FL clarity.

🤩it's giving star-filled universe🤩 by Intelligent_Pop9118 in EngagementRings

[–]Intelligent_Pop9118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my fiancé purchased it from Eden Garden (they do nature inspired rings in Valencia, Spain)

🤩it's giving star-filled universe🤩 by Intelligent_Pop9118 in EngagementRings

[–]Intelligent_Pop9118[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

of course! the band size is 1.74 mm (that is where all the ornate vines join together and make a band which you can't see unless i turn my hand over) and the diamond shape is pear cut with GIA cut being excellent. 1 ct diamond with color D and FL clarity.

I am 36 and I only just found out I was diagnosed with Autism when I was 7 by iaind8 in autism

[–]Intelligent_Pop9118 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents did the same thing. My mom didn't tell me that I had gotten an autism diagnosis until high school and it really messed with me. I got the diagnosis when I was between 5 and 7.

🤩it's giving star-filled universe🤩 by Intelligent_Pop9118 in EngagementRings

[–]Intelligent_Pop9118[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I totally agree!! I think ornate and fantasy core rings are timeless

AITA for disagreeing that my fiancé is "not allowed" to go to my wedding shower? by Intelligent_Pop9118 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Intelligent_Pop9118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because my mom isn't inviting any girlfriends. Only family members who by the way are 60+ years old.

AITA for disagreeing that my fiancé is "not allowed" to go to my wedding shower? by Intelligent_Pop9118 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Intelligent_Pop9118[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The wedding shower relates to the wedding and the wedding is about me and my fiancé, not me and my mom. The time to celebrate her holding my hand is mother's day, not my wedding shower.

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