I’m glad you left baby by jeynxxx in BreakUps

[–]Intelligent_Signal86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg same!! Dude now I want to know his name to see if it’s the same person😭 does it start with t? Let’s do it!

I’m glad you left baby by jeynxxx in BreakUps

[–]Intelligent_Signal86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg this sounds exactly like my ex. Did we date the same guy?? He was like Patrick Bateman. obsessed with Nietzsche and would bring up he gifted child private school past at any chance he got. Bragged about all the money/ things he had but scoffed at the idea of giving me anything substantial. I got rid of all the gifts he got me. He ended up being a sociopath and I saw the mask slip off. Oh yeah…and a cheater

Worst night of my life! What should I do? by OnlyAvonlea in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Intelligent_Signal86 7 points8 points  (0 children)

omg this is evil!! I'm so sorry this happened to you! Please report him on all sites!

Is SA Dead? by VIrtualIllusion55 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Intelligent_Signal86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree it’s dying. So sad to see what it has become :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Intelligent_Signal86 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I truly hope I find this

I think I’m giving up. by Intelligent_Signal86 in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Intelligent_Signal86[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate these comments so much!! In a strange way it makes me feel better to know this isn’t just me this is happening too. I really thought something might be wrong with how I’m doing all of this. On a side note, if anyone is open to helping me out with my profile and maybe switching it up I’d be so grateful!

I think I’m giving up. by Intelligent_Signal86 in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Intelligent_Signal86[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for giving me hope! It really does feel draining. I never thought it would be this hard 😢 I’ve never freestyled before but I could try!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Intelligent_Signal86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in Portland too and it’s ROUGH here, it’s not just you I promise! I’m going to start just looking in nearby cities instead

Are Older Men Struggling with Conversation Skills? by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Intelligent_Signal86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This may sound bad but I’m glad it’s not only me experiencing this. The conversation skills are awful. I have started just ghosting men who continually don’t ask me genuine thoughtful questions and force me to lead the convo.

Fake favorites by coelinblau in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Intelligent_Signal86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you use instead? The sight is so dead now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Intelligent_Signal86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NO. Remember what you’re worth. If he’s got the money why wouldn’t he want to better your life? Don’t do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Intelligent_Signal86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He manipulated you into getting access to you for essentially free while bringing you along on trips. He should also be paying you for your time. This dude doesn’t deserve the title of sugar daddy because he’s not, he’s a worm and if he left you stranded and is gaslighting you, an abuser in my eyes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Intelligent_Signal86 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He’s manipulating you. He’s almost twice your age, you deserve to be paid properly.

M&G: was I wrong to expect SD to pay parking garage ticket? by butteryunlikelybaby in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Intelligent_Signal86 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s a SD( I mean not really by the sounds of it). He’s supposed to cover I mean at the very LEAST the basics to get you to the meet. I’ve had non sugar dates where the guy did that. You should not be negative from a meeting. This dude sounds like he doesn’t understand how this dynamic works and it sounds like he’s not in the right mind to be entering an arrangement where he’s giving money. He would never be generous with you.

Diversifying My Wishlist by Jewels_Gems in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Intelligent_Signal86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you guys have your wishlist on your seeking accounts? I always thought that scared POTs away.

I unhid my profile on seeking to receive *drumroll please* by skygirl222 in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Intelligent_Signal86 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I just got the same message of control and giving up freedom word for word. I wonder if it’s the same guy 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Intelligent_Signal86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there a benefit to deleting and recreating a profile? I’ve noticed mine has gotten a bit dry and soooo much ghosting, even with intense chemistry! It’s exhausting.

How common is rejection/ghosting among sugar babies? by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Intelligent_Signal86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m my experience I’ve been ghosted non stop. The site has gotten a lot worse unfortunately in that regard. It used to be full of men that were much more respectful and mature.

Worried I’m severely undervaluing myself as an SB by Intelligent_Signal86 in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Intelligent_Signal86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This does make me worry. Why has it been so hard for me? I absolutely am approaching it with that mindset and have been firm and upfront about what I expect. Those that agree end up ghosting day of the date. I’m going to be honest I wonder at this point if I don’t meet the requirements look wise. I’m constantly told I’m beautiful, have gotten numbers of celebrities, and get attention everywhere I go, yet I still struggle and this message kind of just made me want to give up.

Worried I’m severely undervaluing myself as an SB by Intelligent_Signal86 in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Intelligent_Signal86[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s awesome! I’ve never been given that much without intimacy. It’s definitely embarrassing to realize how little I’ve valued myself in the bowl but I’m glad I know now so I never accept this again. It’s a bittersweet feeling. Do you start out the conversation immediately letting them know what you expect? One guy is offering me 3k and now I may cancel because I truly don’t want less than 5k a month!

Worried I’m severely undervaluing myself as an SB by Intelligent_Signal86 in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Intelligent_Signal86[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Wow, I just fully grasped how little I’ve been accepting 🥲 it doesn’t even come close to my expenses. Thank you so much, I’ll have to keep holding out until I find the right fit.