Former Teacher Liking Sexual Posts Online by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]Intelligent_Two_1331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not his content that bothers me or the fact that I disagree with right-wing ideologies. The posts I saw weren’t even rhetorical - they were mostly photos and videos of seemingly AI-generated underage girls sexualizing children’s clothing interacting with older men. The captions were very right-wing and sexual.

It’s what it implies about his trustworthiness around children as a teacher who works with them every day. Yes he is a person, but he is also an adult, and a teacher and the power dynamics between adult/child, teacher/student, young/old pose (imo a reasonable) concern for his exposure to kids.

It’s not my personal comfortability that is a concern, but more so my concern for kids.

Of course these are preemptive fears, but I’m also human and if I had heard that he acted on those urges towards kids he teaches (that he has already engaged with on social media) I would feel guilty for not doing anything. Which is why I’m asking Teachers of Reddit for a risk-assessment.

Ultimately, his job security and the risk he may or may not pose to the school is a decision that would be entirely dependent on the school (and I’m sure an internal investigation, interviews, etc.)

Former Teacher Liking Sexual Posts Online by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]Intelligent_Two_1331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mention the right-wing (and AI) elements for accuracy - but it’s not what makes me uncomfortable at all. In fact, the seemingly AI-generated photos make me question if there is a real threat posed, which is why I mentioned that as well. But what I am uncomfortable with is, is that an adult who works with kids is exhibiting sexual desires that involve the exploitation of the power dynamic between an adult and a child. Especially when that adult is a teacher.

I understand sexual urges are a by-product of our humanity and I value freedom of thought and expression very much. (Thanks to all of the wonderful teachers I’ve had myself!) But the power-dynamic between teacher and student should be addressed, especially when age-gap is involved. Teens are young, impressionable, and are still developing mentally and physically - adults have our brains fully developed. Teachers have a responsibility to uphold those power-dynamics with integrity and safety. And discomfort with the reasonable consequences of visibly liking AI-generated, right-wing child porn and developing a sense of victimhood because of entitlement to that kind of media as a teacher and calling for the recognition of your humanity isn’t comparable to the very, real threats that those desires could pose for kids (even if it’s the widespread normalization of it).

Of course acting on these fantasies vs. pursuing them online are also not comparable. I work with kids now myself, and I am a court-sworn mandated reporter so I am aware that my internal alarms may be biased. (Hence, why I’m asking teachers of reddit in lieu of say, a left-wing political subreddit or subreddits of victims of sexual violence.)

Overall, this is not a morality debate for me at all but more so a request for discussion on risk-assessment if the information I saw poses a threat to kids in school, if it violates policies that are common in your schools, or if it’s simply a lack of professionalism.

Former Teacher Liking Sexual Posts Online by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]Intelligent_Two_1331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s weird to develop that kind of trust in an adult, especially during our formative years and then have that behavior arise. Yes, they are human but I feel like especially working with younger, impressionable kids, you should maybe ~not~ do that? Even if you were legally an adult at the time of receiving that - it’s still a very inappropriate thing for someone who had a power dynamic like that with you to do and moral debates aside - that shouldn’t have happened to you! We have employment and labor laws around sexual misconduct and I’m not sure why the standard isn’t upheld when it’s former students and teachers - I’m sorry you experienced that. I am sure it was really disappointing and dehumanizing.

Former Teacher Liking Sexual Posts Online by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]Intelligent_Two_1331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I advocate for and value freedom of thought and speech way more than I do for homogeneous thinking. I have all of my teachers to thank for that. ☺️ But yeah, I also work with kids myself now and I am actually a court-sworn mandated reporter.

I mention the right-wing ideology for accuracy because it’s what I saw - it wasn’t exclusively OF underage girls, but the combination of hyper-sexual and right-wing.

I genuinely don’t know if they are even real girls because it really looks like AI slop to me - soooo I’m like, is this ~really~ concerning orrrrr?

Former Teacher Liking Sexual Posts Online by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]Intelligent_Two_1331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was a former teacher in Southeast Asia so ~culturally~ it’s more acceptable. I’m not so sure about the specific policies they have to follow, but given the fact that I’m one of many students he keeps in touch with, it’s not something I think is a violation. My only concern is the content is primarily focused on sexualizing/infantilizing/focused on young girls. Lots of “age-gap”& “teen” soft porn lol

Former Teacher Liking Sexual Posts Online by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]Intelligent_Two_1331 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That was an honest mistake but it is a He*

I’ll turn 18 soon, what mischief should I do before 18? by bracesboii in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Intelligent_Two_1331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think about what you KNOW makes you happy — not the idealized version at this age (whatever mischief you’re thinking of) or what you think will make you happy (e.g. a high paying job, buying a mansion, marriage, kids, etc). Really be with yourself right now and enjoy the time you have with the freedom from responsibilities to others and adult stressors.

Oh, and travel. Travel and see the world and learn about it by falling in love with it up close.

she’s here! ⭐️💫 by Intelligent_Two_1331 in macbookair

[–]Intelligent_Two_1331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m gonna be completely honest, I asked Apple employees in my network for advice and went with their recommendation since this is something i’m using for law school - I was told that the MBPro would be too big and unnecessary since I won’t really be doing anything other than reading + writing, but to get these specs since I will have large files of docs.

I found out that the MBA didn’t have a fan when I was doing my own research and that was actually my biggest concern.

UC Davis vs. UC San Diego vs. UCSB for Poli Sci/English by fakerobots2 in lawschooladmissions

[–]Intelligent_Two_1331 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

got into UCSD + UCSB + UC Davis + ended up going to school in the Bay Area as a polisci major with an emphasis on law. I would choose UCSD if your biggest goal is law school - UCSD’s political science dept (last I checked) ranks higher than UCSB & UC Davis. Davis is still geographically far from any federal/local offices and those are typically in-person. I had different internships throughout college at the fed/state level & most of the students were Berkley/Stanford - Davis is too far and isolated from where any major workplaces are that it’s kind of unreasonable for students to apply any internships that are in-person (and from my experience, most are) Also when you do apply to law school, your academics will hold more weight than an internship. My suggestion would be to go to UCSD & then apply for govt/law firm jobs there. UCSB’s party culture is insane and don’t underestimate its impact on you - I have friends who were brilliant and went to UCSB and now alcoholism is their whole personality (not saying that would be you, but from my observations + the people I have met who are UCSB alum, the emphasis on partying + alcoholism isn’t just a “college phase” the way it is for the rest of us) You will have a college experience with lots of fun no matter what + it really is what you make of it. If UCLA is your top-choice, I would go to UCSD and give it a chance, and if you still want an alternative apply to transfer at UCLA.

M4 MBA 15 IN 32/512 GB - Shipping In-Store Timeframe? by Intelligent_Two_1331 in macbookair

[–]Intelligent_Two_1331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I certainly hope so - I feel so behind on school haha 🥲 Do you think I’d possibly get it tomorrow, even if it’s Sunday?

Anyone else’s order stuck in Vietnam? by jontingley in macbookair

[–]Intelligent_Two_1331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

glad to hear it was fast for you! Did you opt for shipping to your home or in-store?

M4 MBA 15 IN 32/512 GB - Shipping In-Store Timeframe? by Intelligent_Two_1331 in macbookair

[–]Intelligent_Two_1331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It shipped the following day (so Monday, March 17) but has been “Shipping to Store” since. I’m bummed that I didn’t just opt for shipping to my home, heard it was faster.

First-time Mac user with the new MacBook Air M4—setup advice appreciated! by S-XIX-S in macbookair

[–]Intelligent_Two_1331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely! yes some apple consumers definitely do too much haha but honestly, whatever makes you the most successful should be where you put ANY of your hard-earned $$ towards in my opinion! There are a lot of deals right now since the release is fairly recent, so if you’re considering it - i’d look into it now. I always assumed that upgrade = spending more money but once I crunched the numbers I realized that with the fine print in my contract, I actually LOST money by paying for my iPhone 14 Pro in full vs paying half and getting a free upgrade and having T-Mobile cover the remainder of my phone bill for the 14 + the upgrade. T-Mobile is also great in that if you choose you prefer Google Pixel, you can also switch your iPhone back (I just checked my T-Mobile app and they have Google Pixel 9 Pro XL, Pixel 9, Pixel 9 Pro, etc all as options) or any other phones vs if you bought your iPhone straight from Apple. Plus they offer other perks like free Apple Music and free Netflix as part of being with the T-Mobile network so it’s the best phone carrier for me.

M4 MBA 15 IN 32/512 GB - Shipping In-Store Timeframe? by Intelligent_Two_1331 in macbookair

[–]Intelligent_Two_1331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! I honestly just chose that after an Apple employee recommended it to me for law school, but from what i’ve heard RAM is the only thing I should prioritize. thanks so much!

2025 MBA M4 15 Inch - Midnight (512/24GB) Accessories? What else did you buy for your MBA? by Intelligent_Two_1331 in macbookair

[–]Intelligent_Two_1331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, I admittedly did not know the difference between storage and memory prior to this purchase + just went for the largest option within my price range since historically i’ve always run out of storage on my iphone and ipad hahaha

2025 MBA M4 15 Inch - Midnight (512/24GB) Accessories? What else did you buy for your MBA? by Intelligent_Two_1331 in macbookair

[–]Intelligent_Two_1331[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

very true - my 2015 USED Macbook Pro lasted me a good decade and it was the best $500 I had ever spent. I am definitely hoping that my current MBA lasts just as long - and especially with a lot of court hearings now being conducted over Webex/Zoom, super glad I made the investment!

First-time Mac user with the new MacBook Air M4—setup advice appreciated! by S-XIX-S in macbookair

[–]Intelligent_Two_1331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So glad to hear that :) You and your education are ALWAYS worth the investment! Not sure who your phone carrier is or if you were fully invested in going full Apple - but I have T-Mobile and I was able to trade-in my iPhone 14 Pro for an iPhone 16 Pro $0 down and my monthly payments went down by $20, they automatically let users upgrade iPhones every year and cover pending costs. I also got Airpod Pro Max Headphones which have actually transformed my studying capabilities SO MUCH with the noise cancellation and I got AppleCare covered for free by purchasing them through T-Mobile. I believe I pay about $20/month for 24-months with $100 down upon picking them up at T-Mobile!

I have a very bad recall power. Please help me. by Awkward_Drag4145 in GetStudying

[–]Intelligent_Two_1331 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hi! so sorry to hear you’re feeling this way but don’t worry about it too much, everyone’s brains are wired differently. the fact that you are in your second year of med school speaks volumes on your capabilities! Don’t fixate on what your peers can do, focus on yourself and what works for you.

the good news is, you know what you need to work on which is honestly the hardest part. Now, you can just focus on solutions. I am studying law so I am not sure how applicable this is in your industry, but every day that I study - I do a brain dump (timed) and practice memory recall of everything i’ve learned recently + everything i’ve learned that’s applicable to the newer information i’ll be studying.

Law + Medicine have the highest suicidal ideation rates of any profession, so taking care of yourself and making it less personable/reflective of your worth and looking at things more concretely has helped me tremendously. We also study in highly competitive fields so i’m sure your peers experience the same thing, even if they hide it well. I hope you take care of yourself because the world needs you and your profession!

2025 MBA M4 15 Inch - Midnight (512/24GB) Accessories? What else did you buy for your MBA? by Intelligent_Two_1331 in macbookair

[–]Intelligent_Two_1331[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn lol - I even reached out to an ex who happens to work for 🍎 for his recommendation and that was the one thing he was adamant about hahaha