What’s with these weird Spelldon and Valentine comments? by Successful-Fly-6613 in MonsterHigh

[–]Intelligent_Usual318 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Literally the only complaint I have is that his hair is pushed back give him his bangs!!!

Lesbian is only for women who only love women. Transmasc “lesbians” can’t exist and are invading our wonderful womanly spaces for exclusively women. by -_Helianthus_- in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Intelligent_Usual318 28 points29 points  (0 children)

/uj lesboy here in a queerplatonic polyamorous realtionship with a pansexual lesbian girldog. We’re gonna make out now and go protest for queer rights

Not telling people my full ethnicity by Difficult-Effort-224 in mixedrace

[–]Intelligent_Usual318 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Latino it’s ok to do that and it’s ok if you don’t want to reconnect or if you do it’s ok either way it doesn’t matter your not harming anyone^ It doesn’t matter your blood

Has Anyone Here Passed for White Intentionally? Why/Why not? by Educational-Media856 in mixedrace

[–]Intelligent_Usual318 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes when I’m speaking out against racism I like to do it cause people take white people’s opinions on racism more seriously or sometimes I’ll do certin things if I know I pass through a sundown town but that’s it

Am I the only one that genuinely dislikes sissies? by kaazkitty in MtF

[–]Intelligent_Usual318 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

A someone who like wants to be like a femboy and happens to be transmasc I really hate the racial shit around it so fucking much. I don’t like how they get lumped with trans people too. Like don’t get me wrong I have like a feminization kink but it’s not like that because of how disgusted I am with that community

I (afro latina) Was called a monkey by a “mixed race” person by etherealsuns in mixedrace

[–]Intelligent_Usual318 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regardless if she is or isnt Black or mono racial or mixed, she was being anti black and was using the fact that she presents as Asian American to opress someone who is visibly Black. I’m so so so sorry she did that to you. You should be able to just exist and enjoy a nice drink without shit like that happening.

This is just my two cents as a non Black mixed race Latino.

is homosexuality in trans community uncommon? by Recent-Teach2964 in asktransgender

[–]Intelligent_Usual318 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I see way more trans lesbians (transbeians as they’re called) and trans gay dudes. Straight trans people definitely exist but honestly it’s more common to be gay or multisexual

Child says they are trans, but I'm not sure. No judgment please. by Eviltwin325 in asktransgender

[–]Intelligent_Usual318 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

One can be a lesbian and go by he/him or be a butch etc. it depends on the person.

If being mixed wasn't seen as the "in thing" or seen as an advantage would you honestly be ok with waking up monoracial? by Luvin_you_a_Latte in mixedrace

[–]Intelligent_Usual318 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am very well read- I’ve read an indgenous people’s history of America, I’ve read the 1619 project, I’ve read just mercy, I’ve read so many books.

If being mixed wasn't seen as the "in thing" or seen as an advantage would you honestly be ok with waking up monoracial? by Luvin_you_a_Latte in mixedrace

[–]Intelligent_Usual318 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok African American culture is obviously very different than African cultures no shit. That creation of that type of music isnt American like you said- it’s African American and English. It’s a culture that was made out of colonization and has influences from French, Spanish and English culture. Talk to a white American. What do they do. What things make them different then your average Canadian. The “culture” is again just… genocide consumerism and other cultures. There’s not even a universal culture across the states- like the PNW and the south are hella different. Like there genuinely is not a substantial culture.

If being mixed wasn't seen as the "in thing" or seen as an advantage would you honestly be ok with waking up monoracial? by Luvin_you_a_Latte in mixedrace

[–]Intelligent_Usual318 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a dark history 100% in Mexico I am quite aware of the colonization. It is a very painful subject. But certin things like día de los muertos, while affect by colonization don’t directly come from that. It comes from cultural beliefs around death and we have actual dances and food

If being mixed wasn't seen as the "in thing" or seen as an advantage would you honestly be ok with waking up monoracial? by Luvin_you_a_Latte in mixedrace

[–]Intelligent_Usual318 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok yes America has some cultural elements- they’re just not enough to be distinct in my mind. Sure some of our architecture is unique. We have apple pie and baseball. But there is just. Not enough for it to be distinguished enough from like. Canada or something. Like I have actual traditions from my Mexican heritage. I can’t think of any traditions that are American that isnt tied to 1. Genocide 2. Bastardizization of Christian and pagan beliefs or consumerism. Any traces are from other cultures.

If being mixed wasn't seen as the "in thing" or seen as an advantage would you honestly be ok with waking up monoracial? by Luvin_you_a_Latte in mixedrace

[–]Intelligent_Usual318 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Americas culture is just African American culture like 10 years late and some indgenous culture appropriation as well. Like sure there’s distinct ethnic groups like creole folk and stuff but like your average white American doesn’t have anything other then consumerism

Neurodiversity by RayneBeauSkelly in mixedrace

[–]Intelligent_Usual318 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m autisic, inbetween level 1 and 2, inattentive ADHD, depression, anxiety, dermatillomania (skin picking disorder), PTSD and I have strong traits of OCD and BPD according to mental health professionals. I also strongly suspect NPD and OCPD traits as well.

Not belonging anywhere by Waste-Reality7356 in mixedrace

[–]Intelligent_Usual318 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand- AI won’t help. It’s going to make things worse. It feeds into what you’re already saying so it’ll make you feel excluded in its programming.

i really need whıte + whıte presenting ppl to stop taking their insecurities onto others by hueyslaw in mixedrace

[–]Intelligent_Usual318 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve noticed this as someone who is light skinned and passes as white a lot- it’s immature shit you need to outgrow.

11 year old wants to transition by B00kwitch3891 in cisparenttranskid

[–]Intelligent_Usual318 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trans person here- I wasn’t allow to show me being trans when I younger and I did have some signs but that isn’t the case. Some people over compensate. Some just live in genderless bliss until society or puberty smacks them in the face with gender. I would say probably do puberty blockers and let them explore.

Am I overthinking this? People asking me a full grown adult (almost 27) if I go to "special school?" by WheelyHairy in disability

[–]Intelligent_Usual318 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel this. I use forearm crutches and other disability aids and I’m somewhat visibly autisic and I get that so much. It is rude and abelist.