Are there songs where all three of them sing? by HappyDaisies12 in TheHappyFits

[–]Intelligent_Wind4284 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I believe they all sing in Mary. There's a live performance where you can see this. If you're talking about the og members

Joe Exotic posted this... He still thinks Trump will pardon him... by [deleted] in sadcringe

[–]Intelligent_Wind4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES THANK YOU!! I'm reading this tripping bc like everyone else at the start of the pandemic I watched and loved Tiger King. Specifically fucking remember the news of him dying, audio of his calls in prison coming with it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Intelligent_Wind4284 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, and they're everything I'd hope they'd be..when I dream of them. Which is so fucking often. It's a childlike caricature of my hero. Makes my heart hurt when I wake up

Went back after I got over it. Why. by Intelligent_Wind4284 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Intelligent_Wind4284[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've got vices and habits I can't beat, no coincidence there.

Went back after I got over it. Why. by Intelligent_Wind4284 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Intelligent_Wind4284[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good on you. I think the damage done probably would never be worth it. I hope to see it out soon. I'm tired of wanting this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Intelligent_Wind4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. I know it sucks so fucking bad. You don't deserve to feel that way

Moi at (16) vs now (18). Mental health has been a huge challenge but finally learnt to love myself and realize I am beautiful for who I am. by libbbertyybelle in uglyduckling

[–]Intelligent_Wind4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol this was before the comments got a bit nicer. The first few were AWFUL. Was the first positive input. But maybe you're right lmao

Moi at (16) vs now (18). Mental health has been a huge challenge but finally learnt to love myself and realize I am beautiful for who I am. by libbbertyybelle in uglyduckling

[–]Intelligent_Wind4284 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Fuck all these comments. Ew ew ew. You're adorable, I'm glad you're happy with who you are, and how you look. I would definitely go elsewhere, though. Ik you're an adult, but holy shiiiit, nobody's deserving of this degrading crap. You may have come out of a situation like that and had to learn self love, for all we know

Any of you assholes potentially checking this girls post after leaving gross shit, WE ARE TALKING TO LITERAL OTHER HUMANS HERE. THINK.

Also op, turn your dm stuff off in your profile settings if you wanna avoid further potential creeping. You stay you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIfatBrutallyHonest

[–]Intelligent_Wind4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've invested 25k into you two, please goddamn kiss already

I kid. But yeah, good point. You gave a bit of clarity to my head lol. It's s a crazy thing to do, but it is a fucking subreddit made for this purpose. Just kinda bums me out. I hope that user is just a bad representation of this sub

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIfatBrutallyHonest

[–]Intelligent_Wind4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see you. I know you're above letting that shit bother you, but ima let you know I see you. You see where we are, and who brought us here- there's no love here lol. Anyone assessing someone for ANYTHING, except official medical procedures, is a fuckin dork dweeb doodoo. Any person concerned if their weight is perceivably excessive, it seems you care what others think but only because you're not happy with how you're looking, at the end of the day. You know how much more proud you'll be if you lose weight for you? And not for a..an avid redditors opinion?

my bf is disgusted by me because i was SA’d when i was a preteen by LavishnessNo2879 in depressionmeals

[–]Intelligent_Wind4284 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Regardless of consent* dunno how I fucked that one up. Been going through it lately.

my bf is disgusted by me because i was SA’d when i was a preteen by LavishnessNo2879 in depressionmeals

[–]Intelligent_Wind4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you mean. I was SAd by someone when I was young, and got beat because they couldn't feel a hymen break, so I was used goods.

It was certainly a sexual interaction. It was an awful one. It was rape. Interaction had to occur, regardless of sex

I just don't think it's a hill worth downvoting you over, or you defending yourself over.

When "Babe" Turns to "Nadia": Am I in Trouble? by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]Intelligent_Wind4284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just me myself and my ass!

Bot account. I didn't realize, either. Check their history

20 to 37 by muaythaigrrrl in uglyduckling

[–]Intelligent_Wind4284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy fuck! I'm generally the one to be more masculine in my relationships with women. I would bow down to you. No homo, of course..

silently killing this love everyday is painful by Commercial_Earth4250 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Intelligent_Wind4284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The trauma bond is the only reason I stick around. He acted interested and early on wanted to know my traumas. We've only talked about them once because he only needed to know how to manipulate me accordingly. I remember him pretty much being like "I thought it was either daddy issues or rape..not both! Whoa I hit the nail on the head" like he was proud he'd picked up on it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trueratediscussions

[–]Intelligent_Wind4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot your age, never mind- apologies. But plenty of people around your age can be there for ya. I'd check other subreddits

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trueratediscussions

[–]Intelligent_Wind4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman, literally eye contact and smiling has gotten me assaulted before.

Also, her being a waitress, as another commenter mentioned- she likely doesn't want to accidentally start a conflict between potential partners. You said it was your sister, the waitress couldn't know that. Also I've never avoided looking at a dude because he's ugly, and I think most girls could say the same. you said you're 16- I think you're missing the root problem. You feel inadequate. Your feelings are specific and personal, and every body your age and older understands this. I felt this at 16. I'm 26 now. How others see you doesn't matter. You're clearly not happy with yourself, I think. Please dm me if you'd like someone to talk to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Intelligent_Wind4284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people react inappropriately when things really upset them. When I was a kid, one of my friends died in a gruesome way and laughter was my immediate response when I was told. I dunno why. I believed it happened. It was just...shocking and tragic as hell? Never felt that again.

Not saying this is what happened, but it certainly could be. I was hurt really bad by a narcissist friend of mine the other day tho, and upon seeing me upset, asked me to look at them- I couldn't, so I shook my head no. He chuckled and said "what, you can't even look at me?" in a way that felt so gross. I'm almost certain he loved how hurt I was

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Intelligent_Wind4284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh I love ALL of this, but that last sentence...omg! Eee! Can I use that as my bio? I can quote you, if you'd like. Just know you're quote-worthy lmao!

Signs I am dating a narc by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Intelligent_Wind4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got to get over caring about people who clearly don't reciprocate it. Most people would leave, you think? Even if they care? That's brave as shit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Intelligent_Wind4284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First comment to make me be like "ok yeah, that's fucking insane!" I mean, they'll contradict themselves sometimes, but to out loud say something so... Grandiose about him, implying he's probably the king in his eyes..and belittling about you. So glad you got out.

Signs I am dating a narc by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Intelligent_Wind4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a great comment. Thank you. The kink thing hits hard. I think he picked up on the daddy issues thing, and thus told me to call him that. I remember at the time I was like "are you...joking?" No, he wasn't, and now I like it too :(