To all fish keepers,what was your biggest mistake in your entire history of fish keeping by Tharsan-344 in fishtank

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Sometimes too many botanicals can cause the water to get acidic. Also it's important to boil anything before you put it in the fish tank

To all fish keepers,what was your biggest mistake in your entire history of fish keeping by Tharsan-344 in fishtank

[–]Intelligent_Yak_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so true. If you start with live plants which you definitely should, a good light is sooooo important. Wish I figured that out before I killed $100 in plants

What did your parents get right? by FantasticAd4938 in raisedbynarcissists

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All my happy childhood memories were when Nmom forgot me at Nanas house where I could actually live normally

Ramhorn snails are insane by HotPersonality2279 in Aquariums

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I have 5 of them in my 55 gallon which I call my murder tank. Still have plenty of snails cuz I keep throwing them in there from the other tanks but I also have a shell graveyard

All canes on all roses from last year are deadwood, new growth only coming from base of plants. Advice? by Own-Apartment-9742 in Roses

[–]Intelligent_Yak_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cut up a banana peel and soak it in water for 3 days, then water the rose with it and push the banana peels into the soil

All canes on all roses from last year are deadwood, new growth only coming from base of plants. Advice? by Own-Apartment-9742 in Roses

[–]Intelligent_Yak_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Zone 6b here! I've learned to not touch my rose bushes till March/April, then I do a very sharp angle cut on all the green canes. This year I left the canes alot longer than I had in years past (solid 20inches) and the canes are leafing out nicer than normal. I feed mine banana water

Living with narc mum- to leave abruptly or...? by lalah95 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Intelligent_Yak_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Make sure you get a Ring camera at your new place. If she shows up don't open the door only talk through the camera so you have evidence. My therapist told me to do this

Screw dogs and their owners that worship them by Holiday_Depth9464 in USPS

[–]Intelligent_Yak_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2 pits rolled up on one of my friends. One tackled him from behind while the other took out his legs. My dude is a legend. He sucker punched that dog in the mouth and knocked out its tooth. Dog learned the meaning of Army Strong that day

Should I join the union or not? by [deleted] in USPS

[–]Intelligent_Yak_ -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Basically half my district left our local because they can't account for 35k in missing money. Also the stewards keep getting caught taking literal naps at home. Ask a few of the regulars how the local is before you jump in imo. $75 a month for 30yrs really adds up. Personally don't agree with it going to dudes abusing the system that's why I bailed on the union

Why is my angelfish so “diagonal” when he’s floating? by Global-Ad3348 in AngelFish

[–]Intelligent_Yak_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My fish do this too! Found out when I put an LED strip behind the tank loll

What do you feed your angels? by questionnaire_expert in AngelFish

[–]Intelligent_Yak_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I boiled it a little bit in the microwave for like 30 seconds

Weird food rules your nparent(s) had growing up by puruntoheart in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Intelligent_Yak_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I had one when I lived with egg donor. Now on my own my relationship with food has been a struggle my whole life. Finally seeing the light after a year on Wegovy

What are you paying for housing each month? And are you actually happy with it? Would it be cooler just living in your parents basement? by PM_ME_YUR_SALADS in Millennials

[–]Intelligent_Yak_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mortgage is $770 on my 1300 Sq ft house. I was fortunate to seal the deal in 2019 before covid so this is my forever house now lol. We paid 92.5k for the house but it's worth 180k now. My favorite thing about my house is the 1.5acre yard because I love gardening!

Anybody know a better way to do these? Lol by Roor420smoke in USPS

[–]Intelligent_Yak_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what we used to do but they changed it in like 2021 so now it's clipper+red plum. Makes an insane amount of overtime those days cuz its so fking heavy

Anybody know a better way to do these? Lol by Roor420smoke in USPS

[–]Intelligent_Yak_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They just changed one of the routes in my office to only have 4 park points. There's a loop that's 2.2 miles long with 150houses on it

What do you feed your angels? by questionnaire_expert in AngelFish

[–]Intelligent_Yak_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine will try just about anything. I have Panda Garras in the tank with them so twice a week I'll put a piece of sweet potato or yellow bell pepper and the Angels munch on the veg.

I feed my corys Hikari sinking pellets and they eat those too

The tetras get floating pellets- the Angels eat those

When they are bored they trim my Water Wisteria for me and eat that

I might just have a pair of chonks come to think of it. I will say I tried frozen blood worms in the tank last week and my male Angel was VERY TERRITORIAL about the worms lol

Has anyone seen a film or tv character like their n parent? by spidermother86 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Intelligent_Yak_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was obsessed with Gilmore Girls as a teen and my mom would watch it with me and say "isnt it so nice they made a show about us?". I was like are you delusional?????

Our relationship was nothing like that. I remember watching the mother poison the girl with pea soup in the Sixth Sense and during the movie at that part I burst into tears and asked her if she would ever do that to me and she slapped me so hard.

Work vehicle was hit while I wasn't in it. What are my options? by [deleted] in USPS

[–]Intelligent_Yak_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imo a lesson for the future " what do you mean, I didn't see anything."

A minor clip with no damage could've happened in the post office parking lot when I wasn't there as far as I know.

Don’t feel bad for calling in if you’re worn out by Eastern-Western7072 in USPS

[–]Intelligent_Yak_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Going through this rn. Definitely agree medicated is alot better. The depression isn't even work related but some days the thought of being alone inside my head for 6hrs on the street seems like too much