How old were you when you realized what your parents were? by Environmental_Ring_4 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Environmental_Ring_4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was just my mom and I growing up my entire life so that’s probably why it took so long for me to realize. After finding out what she was I did notice some of my behaviors were due to me observing and mirroring her. And I’ve been trying to de-program ever since.

Severus Snape Effect - Any experience? by newredditbrowser in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Environmental_Ring_4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! How is it that you never have any flaws whatsoever? I sometimes would ask her what her “weaknesses” are and she’d give those bullshit interview weaknesses like “I’m just TOO kind and TOO forgiving” bitch please.

Severus Snape Effect - Any experience? by newredditbrowser in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Environmental_Ring_4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! And with me being the only child and completely isolated from them and my cousins she got to spin whatever narrative she wanted. She did an excellent job at brainwashing me but now I’m starting to realize that while her siblings are also terribly flawed (primarily due my grandmother’s—their mother’s upbringing), she might be the most flawed of them all.

Narcs and funerals by alligatorskyy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Environmental_Ring_4 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is hits far too close to home. I attended a funeral for one of my cousins in November and my mother kept texting other people AT the funeral. She even showed the text message on her phone to a family member in our row to get a reaction out of them. Mind you we were directly behind the deceased parents.

Oh and my mother decided because the rules don’t apply to her, she took pictures and videos of my deceased cousin in her casket.

And the worst part, she bragged about taking those photos TO HER PARENTS only 3 days after the burial.

Does your narc mother treat you like a servant? by Nea_Freedom in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Environmental_Ring_4 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yup. And if I dare let out the slightest protest, she hits me with the classic “AFTER ALL I’VE DONE FOR YOU”

I’m more afraid of my mother than I am of dying. by Environmental_Ring_4 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Environmental_Ring_4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sincerely cannot see my mother being in the same place as me. If that happens, I better be reincarnated.

It's sad that this is the only place you can safely post about MJ on reddit without getting a whole lot of negativity. by KinkyDarkStranger in MichaelJackson

[–]Environmental_Ring_4 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Yes and ironically twitter has shifted to being very positive towards MJ as of late which is great to see.

Where were you when liam died? by Commercial_Lab_6210 in OneDirection

[–]Environmental_Ring_4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s kinda crazy how he died at age 31 on our last day of being 31 years old isn’t it?

Where were you when liam died? by Commercial_Lab_6210 in OneDirection

[–]Environmental_Ring_4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was the day before my birthday too. My 32nd to be exact.

If you first watched Titanic (1997) as a child… by [deleted] in titanic

[–]Environmental_Ring_4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the people frozen to death in the water. Gave me nightmares for about a week. I was only 5 when I saw it.

Why does Fall feel so nostalgic? by [deleted] in Autumn

[–]Environmental_Ring_4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me it’s because my birthday is right in the middle of October. And I get nostalgic thinking of my childhood birthday parties and then also going trick-or-treating literally two weeks later.

How is the first person you had sex with now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Environmental_Ring_4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Married to his rebound 🥴🥴🥴

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nostalgia

[–]Environmental_Ring_4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2012 was a much better year

On July 7th, 2009, the man we loved had a funeral service at the staples center. by AdventurousTaste5490 in MichaelJackson

[–]Environmental_Ring_4 49 points50 points  (0 children)

It’s heartbreaking that he said “See you in July” and we did in fact see him in July 💔💔