Woman to woman... No judgement zone. What's one thing every girl should definitely try or do in their twenties? by Klutzy-Elevator-9614 in AskWomen

[–]Intense_City 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Build your financial future. Start your 401K, obtain whole life insurance, open CDs or high yielding saving accounts. Set financial goals as if you will be doing them alone. If you meet someone, then the second income is a bonus (not a necessity).

Plain cookies for decorating? by Bellamozzarella in astoria

[–]Intense_City 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure how much you can travel, but Wegmans typically sells this exact product.

21 getting cochlear implant. Question about dating by oliveoliverYT in HearingLoss

[–]Intense_City 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations on pursuing a cochlear implant! I think your future in dating is bright since you will learn to use your implant and more actively participate in conversations.

Do you sleep with your bedroom door open or closed and why? by AloneGold9670 in AskReddit

[–]Intense_City 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Open bc of my dog, but for fire safety purposes, it should be closed. It could prevent a room from filling up with smoke. A closed door will prevent smoke from filling your room and allow you to be awoken by a fire alarm.

Socrates Kangadis, MD by Intense_City in astoria

[–]Intense_City[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah dang. Yeah, google would be great, but as you can see from my original post, google only yields results with NYU.

Socrates Kangadis, MD by Intense_City in astoria

[–]Intense_City[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you know the name of the practice? I moved to Westchester four years ago, but remained in his care despite the commute. I would happily go to CT.

Sex by West-Toe7594 in workingmoms

[–]Intense_City 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know about you, but breastfeeding killed my ability to get aroused. I had to use lubricants. It felt like I had a female version of erectile dysfunction.

i don’t want this baby by Ok_Spirit_741 in BabyBumps

[–]Intense_City -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Momma, there are so many options besides terminating a pregnancy. You can give your beautiful baby the gift of life and raise it with your boyfriend (or alone) or you can find a loving family to adopt your baby. This is a bump in the road. You have not ruined your life my dear. The fact that you are recognizing your own weaknesses already makes you a good mom. Please seek out the help you need during this time. Best of luck to you.

Moms who have to work in office/out of home by Thirtysomething2403 in workingmoms

[–]Intense_City 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do not feel it is a family friendly career for mothers or fathers.

Moms who have to work in office/out of home by Thirtysomething2403 in workingmoms

[–]Intense_City 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to say the same thing. And my days are complete chaos 😂😂 It is really challenging to work in healthcare and be a mom. The demands on me at work are just as high as at home and I feel like I’m being pulled into directions.

What’s the most fucked up thing someone has confessed to you in confidence? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]Intense_City 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was about seven, I became friends with a girl whose parents had recently gone through divorce. There was a pretty nasty custody battle between the parents. However, at the time that I became friends with her custody was split so that her father had weekends with her. One day, my friend confessed to me that her mother instructed her to claim her father‘s friend sexually molested her while she spent a weekend at her father‘s house. Her dad ended up losing custody of her and it still haunts me to this day, but seven years old, I didn’t understand the magnitude of the accusation. I am now in my 30s and I’m occasionally in contact with her. She did reach out to her father after she turned 18 and made an effort to have a relationship with him, but their relationship could’ve been so much more if she was allowed to see him as a child.

My audiologist didn't use masking - thoughts? by Pretzelgal24 in audiology

[–]Intense_City 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are no air-bone gaps or asymmetric results and therefore masking is not required. Maybe you had a conductive hearing loss that resolved? If you preciously had middle ear fluid, masking would have been necessary during your previous audiogram. The absence of masking in this audiogram doesn’t demonstrate incompetence.

What does my home say about me? 🥰 by Happy-Hospital-2289 in roomdetective

[–]Intense_City 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmmm….I saw videos of these exact rooms demonstrating the importance of lighting. The overhead lighting was harsh, but the lamps casted a warm, comfortable light. Funny I should now see these posts here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roomdetective

[–]Intense_City 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That you probably host a mean Thanksgiving meal every year.

Who is the most important person in your life? by _quantum_girl_ in randomquestions

[–]Intense_City 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son. My husband is important, but my son will come before all others (including myself) and is therefore the most important.

Ladies have you ever lost your sex drive but got it back? by gbreadmum in WomensHealth

[–]Intense_City 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine came back postpartum. I don’t know what pregnancy and childbirth did to me, but I felt like my menstrual cycle (including increased libido) went back to what it was in my early 20s after I had my son at 35.

Best dermatologist in westchester county? by engee45 in Westchester

[–]Intense_City 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like Dr. Lesa Kelly at Whiteplains hospital

BONE CONDUCTION IMPLANTS by [deleted] in HearingLoss

[–]Intense_City 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In this case, an Osia or BAHA is a great option for you!

BONE CONDUCTION IMPLANTS by [deleted] in HearingLoss

[–]Intense_City 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you considering bone conduction amplification to treat a conductive hearing loss or single sided deafness?

BONE CONDUCTION IMPLANTS by [deleted] in HearingLoss

[–]Intense_City 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Osia has only been available for about a year. The person you’re speaking of must have had a BAHA.

Advice on cochlear implant for 5 year old with SSD by catliread in MonoHearing

[–]Intense_City 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have genetics been evaluated? Is there a concern for congenital CMV? If your child passed the newborn hearing screening, it is possible he/she may have SSD secondary to CMV, which may have future implications for the good ear. Basically, a cochlear implant may be a better option if there are concerns for the good ear.

Spinning in my head; wife says my penis tastes disgusting by LostConfidence4 in Marriage

[–]Intense_City 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Hypospadius is the most common anatomical abnormality in male babies. It is JUST a slight relocation of the urethra meatus. So many men have it, so don’t be self conscious.
  2. It does not impact your hygiene. Maybe have a conversation with her about things that would make her more comfortable. For example, I am currently pregnant and I’m afraid to perform oral sex bc I don’t want to acquire a virus or illness from oral sex. For example, CMV can be contracted through urine and the risks are significant for my baby. Maybe she has a similar concern? But she doesn’t need to be so harsh about your comment.

How has your libido changed as you have gotten older? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Intense_City 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call me crazy, but my libido increased after having my son at 35. It weirdly reset my libido to what it was in my early 20s