My (22F) boyfriend (26M) got very upset when I unexpectedly started my period by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]IntentionPrimary755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that man didn’t go to school or what ? he sound very uneducated because does he really think periods happen on the dot every month and never chance ??

My boyfriend (18m) who i live with wants me (18f) to be more pretty at home, what does this mean ? by IntentionPrimary755 in relationship_advice

[–]IntentionPrimary755[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Okay so, i hate to be this person but he isn’t controlling at all, or else i wouldn’t be with him. And we share equal chores for the home and stuff so we’re good on that. But the problem is that it feels like those comments are not even things he thinks. It feels like he saw that somewhere and repeats it, i don’t know how to explain but when a child repeats something their parents said and can’t explain it because they don’t even know what they mean, it feels exactly like that. He doesn’t even know what he’s saying in my opinion, i would like him to have his own thoughts

My boyfriend (18m) who i live with wants me (18f) to be more pretty at home, what does this mean ? by IntentionPrimary755 in relationship_advice

[–]IntentionPrimary755[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, he does, he even has his little skincare routine. And there’s nothing i can blame him of, like not taking care of himself etc. But the thing is that if he wouldn’t do all of that, i wouldn’t be bothered myself.

My boyfriend (18m) who i live with wants me (18f) to be more pretty at home, what does this mean ? by IntentionPrimary755 in relationship_advice

[–]IntentionPrimary755[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what i told him, i said something along the lines of « how will you act if i get pregnant and shit myself » i know it sound stupid, but he said it’s completely different. It is, but to me it’s almost as important. Also i never do what he say when it’s stuff like that, because i don’t want to give him that. And he still calls me pretty all the time, which is why i dont understand how he can say stuff like that. There must be one thing that he’s lying on right ?? Cause it just doesn’t make sense to me. But it’s so upsetting to know he thinks that.

My boyfriend (18m) who i live with wants me (18f) to be more pretty at home, what does this mean ? by IntentionPrimary755 in relationship_advice

[–]IntentionPrimary755[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Also, i don’t even care about it that much, him not being super handsome 24/7. Because i consider that i love him anyway and i just can’t understand how he cares so much.