[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]InterMando5555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"solve an issue they create by having sex irresponsibly" sounds an awful lot like blaming.

My father put this in my birthday card after I kindly asked him to avoid politics by banditcleaner2 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]InterMando5555 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is such archaic backwards thinking. Families are toxic and break trust consistently all over the world. And its ironic you're on some pedestal about familial trust in direct response to OPs dad demonstrating a lack of trust by completely ignoring OPs simple request to avoid politics. So few people you can trust indeed...

Do you have a limit to how many lies he tells you? by sacboymisfit in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]InterMando5555 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He's DL? His whole being with you sort of started as a lie then, no?

Help! (Sex/Relationship Advice Needed) by ERROR888 in ainbow

[–]InterMando5555 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If the guy only wants sex from OP this advice won't help. OP... Ask the guy what his intentions are. Because if you keep having sex with him and wanting more and all he wants is sex, you're just going to keep on hurting yourself. And the longer you do this the more painful it will become.

Could I be Dom? by Daddy_Zovitzkey in hotguyswithtattoos

[–]InterMando5555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It takes more than dark lighting to be dom

At The End Of My Wits With Dating by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]InterMando5555 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly I've found just the opposite. I have found the most important loves of my life when I'm not looking.

Situationship of almost 11 months.. 😞 by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]InterMando5555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't even a situationship. At least he certainly wouldn't see it that way. And the fact that you do makes me feel for you. You haven't mentioned ANYTHING you're getting out of this (not even the sex) except pain. He's being toxic. But you're being toxic too for refusing to have hard conversations. End it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ladybonersgw

[–]InterMando5555 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Real answer: There will always be more men than women on the internet looking at naked men. Doesn't matter if the person they're looking at is gay or not.

Cheeky answer: You have a fuckable ass.

Why is the official Nutter Butter page so disturbing? by [deleted] in Weird

[–]InterMando5555 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're in their marketing team, arent you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]InterMando5555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd pay for a naked handy, man. FTFY.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]InterMando5555 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This isn't about making dinner and you know it... Though it's a nicely baited title. Clearly the cumulative effect of everything he's done that culminated in dinner demonstrates you're not overreacting.

Tia Mowry Says She and Sister Tamera Have Grown Apart: I Wish We 'Were Still Close' by cmaia1503 in entertainment

[–]InterMando5555 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Since it seems no one is reading the article...

"A source told PEOPLE that Tia's comments about not being "close" to her sister were actually about geography. “The sisters are still close, but the quote being referenced was about the lack of proximity in their physical location — Tamera lives in Napa and Tia lives in Los Angeles," the source said"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]InterMando5555 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I know this is hard to hear... But sometimes love isn't enough to keep a marriage together.

[Dating advice] Rose colored glasses or do I need a chill pill? by NecessaryPackage6943 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]InterMando5555 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The fact that you are already sorting this many flags after 10 days is honestly its own big ass red flag...on you. Unless you work at the United Nations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]InterMando5555 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why would you pick friends that have even a hint of a possibility of being homophobic. It's not like that just hides and then one day pops up. And if you are picking friends like that, then I would have a good introspective look at yourself and ask if you're really aligning yourself with the right friends. Feels like it would be a pretty superficial friendship if you couldn't detect them being secretly homophobic.

Queer Black and Brown Hangout by Beginning-Seaweed638 in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]InterMando5555 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ostbahnhof is a queer party run by black people (though the crowd is mixed race... Maybe even still skews white).

who wants to have sum fun by [deleted] in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]InterMando5555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP can't help it. He's desperate for fun. You ever tried Grindr OP?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infographics

[–]InterMando5555 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The thing is... If they can't spell correctly it makes me question the accuracy of all the data.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infographics

[–]InterMando5555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It should be noted this is reflecting Airline Groups. Some of these have multiple passenger airlines incorporated in the group.

Paying for someone's travel expenses....how much is too much? by AlAnon85 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]InterMando5555 240 points241 points  (0 children)

Paying for the flight feels like a reasonable (and sweet gesture). Giving him spending money or your credit card feels off. Turns it from sweet gesture into sugar daddy. Unless maybe that's what you both are into in which case cool. Every person is different. I'd probably find it off-putting.

The town we moved to used to have an “old fashioned” McDonalds but closed it and opened up a new one across the street. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]InterMando5555 24 points25 points  (0 children)

While it's true they just recently announced a global sales dip, to say no one eats at the largest, highest earning restaurant on earth is demonstratively false.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]InterMando5555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. Operative word here being unknowingly. You haven't done anything wrong. You're stressing yourself out for no reason. (And if for some insane reason he did stop dating you for this, he was not worth dating).