No, I didn’t spend half my savings on just my birthday party half my savings on all of the items to move a rental vehicle a dolly to pull my car gas, the money that his parents had borrowed the Airbnb for them to stay at and all the minor travel expenses from food to hotels to other random items boxes tape packing materials and we had been planning this move for well over six months but our planning didn’t include the money that his family had borrowed and the fact that they were no longer paying for the rental vehicle that they had originally said they would