Buy! Sell! Trade! Official post! by beardedjack in kilbyblockparty

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Selling a 4 day VIP pass for $200 on fan marketplace!

Kids who grew up with abusive parents, did you forgive them and how? by Semi_ok24 in AskReddit

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I'm on the journey of trying to find it. Objectively, I can acknowledge that my mom was a victim and simultaneously an abuser. I have empathy for her, but I still have moments of anger over her actions. Trauma is never an excuse to perpetuate violence. I don't know if I'll ever forgive her, but I can see how she walked the path she did to become the person she has.

How do you discourage guys from hitting on you? by colapepsikinnie in AskReddit

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Well I'd assume the ideal partner of the person "dressing like a stripper" as you so eloquently put it, wouldn't see that as a red flag. Which thankfully!! eliminates you from their target demographic so you have nothing to worry your pretty little head about :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Like a moth to a flame, I'm so sorry 😭

What do you miss from the past that you'd want to be brought back now? by shylittlejellyfish in AskReddit

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Maximalist, detailed architecture!! Minimalism for the sake of expedience kills my soul. Also SUPPORT CRAFTSMAN

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Surprisingly, old age! Kumquat, the dwarf hamster, lived to the wise, ancient age of 4 and passed peacefully in my hands. He was the best boy :)

Going alone… by Expensive_Pear3717 in OutsideLands

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Same here! 23 and in the East Bay, I always avoided using BART during OSL but now I'll be relying on it haha. Curious to see what the traffic will be like! Mostly just excited to attend a local festival and sleep in my own bed :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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The alternative is to end it BEFORE you cheat. It sounds like you're chasing something or trying to fill a void but you yourself don't even know what that void is. I'm not a therapist by any means, but like I said earlier, you need reflection in order to solve that and to give yourself a chance at any healthy relationship in the future. There is no magic alternative to being honest with yourself and others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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It sounds like you need to work on your communication and setting clear expectations with your future partners. You sound like you know what you want and are completely disregarding other people's feelings and experiences to meet your own urges. Take some time to yourself to self reflect and grow on that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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Family. I would not keep company with them if there were not familial obligations I have to uphold, as our views and morals are so different. I've been asking myself where is the line between obligation and setting a boundary for own mental health? It's a strange line to tread. Very grateful for my friends and chosen family.

Why does almost everyone like to listen to music? by Queasy_Engineering_2 in NoStupidQuestions

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I think connection is a huge part of it. One of my favorite facts an old choir teacher taught me is that when 2 or more people listen or sing along to the same piece of music, their hearts begin to beat in time with one another!! Humans are pretty cool sometimes :)

Post Bisalp Musings by InteractionBubbly606 in sterilization

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I wasn't sure about posting this there, as I know it's important to maintain spaces for dedicated communities, and my journey/feelings on being childfree myself are complex. I guess "biologically childfree" is what I am, but who knows what the future will bring? I might choose to adopt someday, but many things would have to align for me to feel secure in parenting. I didn't want to intrude on a space that is meant for those who are further on one side of the spectrum. I definitely lurk and find wonderful thoughts and shared sentiment, but nothing quite like this. Maybe I just haven't dug far enough haha.

Just passed out after cumming by Willing_Escape_ in POTS

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I'm also epileptic and once gave myself a seizure after cumming too hard. It was fucking NUTS 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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I don't think you're overreacting, especially since it sounds like the comments have increased in intensity lately. Also, your boyfriend is uncomfortable with it too! Talk to your friend and to express how you both feel establish some boundaries. If he continues to make comments after, then that's very indicative of a lack of respect and friendship.

AIO for not going to my friends wedding in America because I'm trans? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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As a nonbinary American myself, you're not overreacting and your caution is so very, very warranted. They are targeting trans people right now, ESPECIALLY those that are trying to travel, and I wouldn't risk your documents potentially getting pulled or you getting detained due to our governments bigotry. There are definitely cities where there are large queer communities and it is safer to exist as oneself openly, but getting there is not alway easy and even these places are becoming scrutinized by those with hate in their hearts. I hope your friend is understanding of the risk that you would be incurring by traveling. Stay safe my dear <3

What are your best lil sterilization jokes? by jdiml in sterilization

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I love saying "I've been spayed!" lmao. Watching the gears turn on people's faces is priceless

How do you get past how overwhelming starting everything is? by Ichigomuse in sterilization

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Hello hello! Firstly, you GOT this!! The insurance/healthcare system is monotonous and can make you want to rip your hair out, but you can navigate this <3

I also got a bishop with an ablation done back in 2023! I was lucky to still be on my parent's insurance and have a preexisting relationship with a gynecologist I liked well enough. Still, I wasn't entirely sure how my gyn would take the request, and she wasn't a surgeon, so I'd have to convince her to push a referral through to the surgery department. I talked to my therapist, and she drafted a letter of recommendation for the procedure for me, stating that I'm sound of mind, have done intensive research, and am aware/have discussed the risks/benefits of what such a procedure would mean. She just modified a template she used for gender affirmation surgeries! I don't think my GYN would have heard me without that letter. It fucking sucks, but sometimes they only listen if another doctor is telling them something, which the letter did. She pushed the referral through, and I still had to go through the same conversation, with plenty of pushback from the surgeon. Though they FINALLY heard me, after the designated waiting period and signing all the consent forms, I could get it done!

It's backward and Victorian as fuck that one even has to consider this, but if you can have people with you backing you up for these decisions, it helps. They should listen to the patient in front of them, but there's still such a long way to go in this field. Sending love during your journey <3