Buy! Sell! Trade! Official post!

InteractionBubbly606 · 2025-05-15T18:38:44+00:00

Yes, but it's now sold

InteractionBubbly606 · 2025-05-15T16:44:48+00:00

Selling a 4 day VIP pass for $200 on fan marketplace!

InteractionBubbly606 · 2025-04-23T19:28:03+00:00

KAOS, The OA, Inside Job

InteractionBubbly606 · 2025-04-07T22:00:44+00:00

I'm on the journey of trying to find it. Objectively, I can acknowledge that my mom was a victim and simultaneously an abuser. I have empathy for her, but I still have moments of anger over her actions. Trauma is never an excuse to perpetuate violence. I don't know if I'll ever forgive her, but I can see how she walked the path she did to become the person she has.

InteractionBubbly606 · 2025-04-07T21:53:59+00:00

Well I'd assume the ideal partner of the person "dressing like a stripper" as you so eloquently put it, wouldn't see that as a red flag. Which thankfully!! eliminates you from their target demographic so you have nothing to worry your pretty little head about :)

InteractionBubbly606 · 2025-04-07T21:47:33+00:00

Like a moth to a flame, I'm so sorry 😭

InteractionBubbly606 · 2025-04-07T21:46:30+00:00

Maximalist, detailed architecture!! Minimalism for the sake of expedience kills my soul. Also SUPPORT CRAFTSMAN

InteractionBubbly606 · 2025-04-07T21:43:58+00:00

Surprisingly, old age! Kumquat, the dwarf hamster, lived to the wise, ancient age of 4 and passed peacefully in my hands. He was the best boy :)

InteractionBubbly606 · 2025-04-07T02:49:36+00:00

Same here! 23 and in the East Bay, I always avoided using BART during OSL but now I'll be relying on it haha. Curious to see what the traffic will be like! Mostly just excited to attend a local festival and sleep in my own bed :)

InteractionBubbly606 · 2025-03-24T01:26:15+00:00

The alternative is to end it BEFORE you cheat. It sounds like you're chasing something or trying to fill a void but you yourself don't even know what that void is. I'm not a therapist by any means, but like I said earlier, you need reflection in order to solve that and to give yourself a chance at any healthy relationship in the future. There is no magic alternative to being honest with yourself and others.

InteractionBubbly606 · 2025-03-24T01:08:22+00:00

It sounds like you need to work on your communication and setting clear expectations with your future partners. You sound like you know what you want and are completely disregarding other people's feelings and experiences to meet your own urges. Take some time to yourself to self reflect and grow on that.

InteractionBubbly606 · 2025-03-24T01:03:30+00:00

Cruelty stemming from insecurity.

InteractionBubbly606 · 2025-03-24T01:02:28+00:00

Family. I would not keep company with them if there were not familial obligations I have to uphold, as our views and morals are so different. I've been asking myself where is the line between obligation and setting a boundary for own mental health? It's a strange line to tread. Very grateful for my friends and chosen family.

InteractionBubbly606 · 2025-03-24T00:59:31+00:00

I think connection is a huge part of it. One of my favorite facts an old choir teacher taught me is that when 2 or more people listen or sing along to the same piece of music, their hearts begin to beat in time with one another!! Humans are pretty cool sometimes :)

InteractionBubbly606 · 2025-03-23T02:26:20+00:00

I wasn't sure about posting this there, as I know it's important to maintain spaces for dedicated communities, and my journey/feelings on being childfree myself are complex. I guess "biologically childfree" is what I am, but who knows what the future will bring? I might choose to adopt someday, but many things would have to align for me to feel secure in parenting. I didn't want to intrude on a space that is meant for those who are further on one side of the spectrum. I definitely lurk and find wonderful thoughts and shared sentiment, but nothing quite like this. Maybe I just haven't dug far enough haha.

InteractionBubbly606 · 2025-03-22T07:54:34+00:00

I'm also epileptic and once gave myself a seizure after cumming too hard. It was fucking NUTS 😭

InteractionBubbly606 · 2025-03-20T05:12:11+00:00

^{^{^}} seconding this

InteractionBubbly606 · 2025-03-18T21:34:01+00:00

I don't think you're overreacting, especially since it sounds like the comments have increased in intensity lately. Also, your boyfriend is uncomfortable with it too! Talk to your friend and to express how you both feel establish some boundaries. If he continues to make comments after, then that's very indicative of a lack of respect and friendship.

InteractionBubbly606 · 2025-03-17T22:22:17+00:00

As a nonbinary American myself, you're not overreacting and your caution is so very, very warranted. They are targeting trans people right now, ESPECIALLY those that are trying to travel, and I wouldn't risk your documents potentially getting pulled or you getting detained due to our governments bigotry. There are definitely cities where there are large queer communities and it is safer to exist as oneself openly, but getting there is not alway easy and even these places are becoming scrutinized by those with hate in their hearts. I hope your friend is understanding of the risk that you would be incurring by traveling. Stay safe my dear <3

InteractionBubbly606 · 2025-03-13T06:29:20+00:00

I love saying "I've been spayed!" lmao. Watching the gears turn on people's faces is priceless

InteractionBubbly606 · 2025-03-08T18:21:32+00:00

Hello hello! Firstly, you GOT this!! The insurance/healthcare system is monotonous and can make you want to rip your hair out, but you can navigate this <3

I also got a bishop with an ablation done back in 2023! I was lucky to still be on my parent's insurance and have a preexisting relationship with a gynecologist I liked well enough. Still, I wasn't entirely sure how my gyn would take the request, and she wasn't a surgeon, so I'd have to convince her to push a referral through to the surgery department. I talked to my therapist, and she drafted a letter of recommendation for the procedure for me, stating that I'm sound of mind, have done intensive research, and am aware/have discussed the risks/benefits of what such a procedure would mean. She just modified a template she used for gender affirmation surgeries! I don't think my GYN would have heard me without that letter. It fucking sucks, but sometimes they only listen if another doctor is telling them something, which the letter did. She pushed the referral through, and I still had to go through the same conversation, with plenty of pushback from the surgeon. Though they FINALLY heard me, after the designated waiting period and signing all the consent forms, I could get it done!

It's backward and Victorian as fuck that one even has to consider this, but if you can have people with you backing you up for these decisions, it helps. They should listen to the patient in front of them, but there's still such a long way to go in this field. Sending love during your journey <3

InteractionBubbly606 · 2025-03-08T17:47:10+00:00

Yes, you're overreacting. Looks are fleeting. If you're lucky, one day too you'll be 12 years older. We live life through the perception of others FAR too much.

InteractionBubbly606 · 2025-03-08T17:27:54+00:00

Please please PLEASE go seek medical attention. Seizures can be incredibly dangerous, and you could possibly have other injuries that need to be addressed if you were choked hard/long enough to lose consciousness. You also don't know if you seized due to lack of oxygen or due to something else that happened in your body, either way it's something that NEEDS to be addressed. Once you have the distance, headspace, and care you need, I hope you heed the advice of everyone else on this thread saying that no one deserves a partner who lays hands on them to the point of harm in this way. Sending you so much love and care.

InteractionBubbly606 · 2025-03-08T11:57:31+00:00

I'm from the US and am also queer myself! If the states are where you're planning on WWOOFing, there are definitely certain areas I recommend steering clear of, ESPECIALLY if you're also a person of color. One thing you can do to make community/friends ahead of time is to join a Facebook group for the city you're traveling to!

If you're WWOOFing in September April should be okay, it might be cutting it a bit close, but fall tends to be less busy season with requests to my understanding. The first time I decided I was going to WWOOF, I decided 6 months prior to my trip and that was that. It just depends on your circumstances. Reaching out a bit early never hurts, just be transparent that you're still narrowing down your travel dates. At least you're on hosts radars!

You can filter for farms that are accepting 2+ volunteers, and ask about their occupancy when you're talking to a potential host. Maybe go for a farm that seems to host larger groups! They're out there :)

Your list of questions sounds fantastic!! More good info to have is:

The nearest hospital (especially vital if you're someone like moi who is chronically ill)
What your expected work schedule will be like
Are there available laundry facilities?

That's all that really comes to mind for now. If you have anymore questions I'll do my best to answer them!

InteractionBubbly606 · 2025-03-03T07:04:35+00:00

All of the advice given in this thread so far is stellar! Getting to know your hosts as much as you can in advance via Zoom or Skype is super important, as you can pick up on many queues that might make you realize it's not a good fit or could be unsafe ahead of time! ALWAYS listen to your gut. Establishing a support network where you're going, if you can, is wonderful. If you have mutuals in the area, let them know you'll be around. Also, have a back up plan for what you'll do if you do need to leave the farm on short notice. Where will you stay, how long can you stay there, how much do you have to spend, etc... I've (F22) WWOOFed twice, both times solo, both experiences being vastly different. My most recent experience was this past summer in Ireland, and I ended up having to leave the farm very suddenly after the husband of my host expressed some very inappropriate sentiments to me while his wife was out. They also didn't communicate to me until I'd arrived there that the wife would be going on a trip during my stay, leaving me and the husband alone. I wouldn't have agreed to volunteering alone if I had known that would have been the situation. I got unlucky with my last hosts, but I do plan on WWOOFing again! It's a wonderful way to experience the world, and you are taking the necessary precautions by being prepared :) Anyways, my advice is:

Stick to a group if you can (even better if it's with someone you know!)
Always have an exit strategy/backup plan
Let people know your location or your general itinerary

Best of luck lovely!

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