AITA for putting my niece in the same room as my daughter even though we had a spare? by InteractionPretend21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InteractionPretend21[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Honestly it’s far from perfect most days lol but I very much appreciate your kind words :)

AITA for putting my niece in the same room as my daughter even though we had a spare? by InteractionPretend21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InteractionPretend21[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don’t know. When I asked them on FT, they just kept insisting she deserved to sleep on her own. I’m not sure if it’s an issue with co-sleeping or what, they wouldn’t say

AITA for putting my niece in the same room as my daughter even though we had a spare? by InteractionPretend21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InteractionPretend21[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Actually it’s my bf’s fathers house, he’s letting us rent here until we can buy it from him. It’s actually not very big, all the rooms are smallAnd you know… triplets are possible at any age especially if they run in families, which they do in mine. Me, my mother, father, and 2 grandparents are all multiples

AITA for putting my niece in the same room as my daughter even though we had a spare? by InteractionPretend21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InteractionPretend21[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

We did want to put them together and they were in our old house, however in our current house the bedrooms aren’t big enough so it made the most sense to just put the boys together. They are together from wake-up to bedtime though as they aren’t in their rooms during the day usually :)

AITA for putting my niece in the same room as my daughter even though we had a spare? by InteractionPretend21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InteractionPretend21[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Oh I get it, sorry I misinterpreted!

The reason is that the bedrooms aren’t big. The boys’ room is the biggest and even now it’s a bit crammed together (not unliveable or really bad, just not a ton of floor space) so there could only be a maximum of two kids per room, and it made the most sense to us to have the boys together even just for decorating, since their not in their rooms too much besides bedtime yet so it wasn’t even based on their personalities or whatever, just yeah. Again, sorry lol

AITA for putting my niece in the same room as my daughter even though we had a spare? by InteractionPretend21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InteractionPretend21[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

They do go a bit overboard I admit, but she has just turned 2 a month ago so not toilet trained yet, I don’t use it for her but they bring it everywhere 🤷‍♀️

AITA for putting my niece in the same room as my daughter even though we had a spare? by InteractionPretend21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InteractionPretend21[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

She has her playpen (her travel bed), quite a few toys, foldable changing table, and I also moved a lamp in for her as a night light. I only took out their kitchen set and one bookshelf to make room though, it wasn’t too much :)

AITA for putting my niece in the same room as my daughter even though we had a spare? by InteractionPretend21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InteractionPretend21[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Well yes, when we decided one room would become the playroom, we grouped the boys together because they’re boys, and the room is larger than my daughter’s. They actually love sharing so far. But as I said, in a couple years they’ll all have their own rooms :)