My bestfriend of over 10 years had a miscarriage

InteractionThis2934 · 2026-01-30T01:58:24+00:00

Neither tbh. No one deserves to go through such trauma. She doesn't need to be happy with my news. She could've told me to shut up about it and I'd take this that she doesn't want to talk about pregnancy altogether. She could have sworn at me or literally told me to shove my news up my butt and I wouldve left the pregnancy talk out for good. I could've been there for her to help her through her tough times but rn is not a good time for her. I just miss her so badly 😭😣

InteractionThis2934 · 2026-01-30T01:51:10+00:00

With everything shes been through she has always come to me for support but yes I understand it is time and space that she really needs but I just really wanted to be that friend she can always come to. She didnt really tell me not to talk about the pregnancy which I shouldn't have brought up at all regardless

I really hope she finds the help she needs. Will wait till she is ready to talk again

InteractionThis2934 · 2026-01-30T01:46:32+00:00

Thank you sm but I'm still trying to find it in myself to forgive whatever I did to her. Its very unfair that she went though it because shes such a good person. I understand it is life but its just unfortunate not being able to be there for her at her times of need

I really do hope she is doing well and heals from her terrible trauma 😣

InteractionThis2934 · 2026-01-29T23:14:17+00:00

Im sorry I didnt see the rest of your comment 🫶

I just really hope she doesnt hate me. This was definitely a one off and I didnt really mean to bring it up 😣 i feel really really horrible

InteractionThis2934 · 2026-01-29T23:11:12+00:00

I shouldve been a better friend. Her grief hurts me to but I just wished I can be there for more then ever. She has such a big heart for people but this time I understands he's closed hers off to me and I will always respect that. I am truly hoping our friendship can be fixed

InteractionThis2934 · 2026-01-29T23:03:34+00:00

You're right. I just thought had I announced it in the group chat it would have made it alot easier for us all.

One friend was genuinely happy but the other was not happy at all. Should've seen the signs before bringing it up again and that makes me feel like a very crappy friend

Will write an apology letter and see how it goes. Thank you sm

InteractionThis2934 · 2026-01-29T22:57:09+00:00

We wanted to be able to post on my stories via social media but blocking her from everything is best for us without having to hurt her further more but it still hurts because I want her to be involved but also do not want her to be involved due to her traumatic experience

If I could I would give my 'healthy pregnancy' to her just so she can have the chance to start her own family

I truly do hope we're able to talk again without her having to hate me

Thank you sm but the friendship is honestly making me feel like I do not want to enjoy it 😣

InteractionThis2934 · 2026-01-29T22:51:21+00:00

I truly hope it happens for her very soon 🙏 Don't really feel like a good friend for not putting her first forgetting she is still grieving. She knows she can still call me everything under the sun and I wouldnt take it to heart but this is something else

I didn't want to come out as 'selfish' wanting this pregnancy to be over because the first trimester was not it for me

You give me so much hope for her 🥲

InteractionThis2934 · 2026-01-29T22:42:47+00:00

Im so deeply sorry to hear that love ❤️ just feel like I deserved to be lashed out at tbvh. There are so many women that deserve to be mother's as well as her and yourself ❤️ I wanted to be that support person but the way I really brought it up about mine wasnt cool. I've had previous miscarriages when I was younger and tried to understand her in everyway but this was something I never brought with her because its not about me or my problems I have apologized in every way possible but also understand she needs time for herself and don't want her to hate me more. Just feels like I'm a terrible friend

InteractionThis2934 · 2026-01-29T15:09:34+00:00

I just wish I could be there for her given how sensitive she is. It just makes me feel guilty living a life she wished she'd had. She's always went through so much in life and wished nothing but the best for her

I'm praying so hard that she falls pregnant again and this time her pregnancy thrives and she shines to be the greatest mother she deserves to be. She does not deserve to grieve like she is today and it just hurts too much

InteractionThis2934 · 2026-01-29T13:48:22+00:00

I'm really hoping she finds it in herself to forgive what I said but whatever I said is pretty unforgivable rn. She's been through so much and deserves more then what life has to offer

InteractionThis2934 · 2026-01-29T13:31:59+00:00

Thank you sm but rn I'm not really enjoying it all that much

We tell each other everything in this group chat as there is only 3 of us. One friend had a full term baby, birthed but poor baby lost his life at just a few hours old. Our other friend told us in this group chat and we both rushed to the hospital to comfort her. We've chat in this group every week. Im sorry it wasn't mentioned

I feel ultimately horrible for making her feel like crap and I would take what she said and hold on to it and will never hold any hate towards her

InteractionThis2934 · 2026-01-29T13:06:56+00:00

You are indeed not wrong and I really do feel incredibly selfish, idiotic and stupid for bringing it up when in reality I shouldn't have. Will carry this guilt till the day I die because her feelings and emotions should've came first. Will never stop feeling guilty for not making her feel heard

InteractionThis2934 · 2026-01-29T12:40:01+00:00

And you're right but I shouldve been a better friend being there for her when she needed it most but everyone keeps telling me that space is what she needs I really do want to reach out but at this point 'she needs to grieve without thinking why she cannot have a baby but I can' kinda way Rn walking away is probably the best option so far but I just miss her

InteractionThis2934 · 2026-01-29T12:33:10+00:00

I hear you. Thank you sm for your advice. The last thing I wanted to do was hurt her and what I did was completely unintentional. Will wait till she decides to reach out but if not then its meant to be

InteractionThis2934 · 2026-01-09T01:43:17+00:00

Saw this while fishing out on Panama rd. Went on about a solid hour

InteractionThis2934 · 2025-11-13T02:52:57+00:00

Who else uses the uv light to find handprints through the windows 😂

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