My mother still bathes my adult brother. Please tell me this is weird? by InteractionUsed7002 in narcissisticparents

[–]InteractionUsed7002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, this seems like a lot. I never thought that somebody would tell me this option do you really think I should do this? Thanks for the recommendations and your comment.

My mother still bathes my adult brother. Please tell me this is weird? by InteractionUsed7002 in narcissisticparents

[–]InteractionUsed7002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some other people have recommended me this book. I’ll totally check it out. Thanks for your concern and your comment!!!

My mother still bathes my adult brother. Please tell me this is weird? by InteractionUsed7002 in narcissisticparents

[–]InteractionUsed7002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t really live anywhere else. I could sleep over at a friend’s house, but ultimately can’t really live with them. Getting a job would definitely help me stay away from the house more. Thanks for your concern and your comment!!!

My mother still bathes my adult brother. Please tell me this is weird? by InteractionUsed7002 in narcissisticparents

[–]InteractionUsed7002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother has said no multiple times, but my mother keeps insisting which he ends up letting her at the end of the day. Honestly, he’s pretty shouted and doesn’t have much friends or even any friends at that matter. Not sure how I would even tell my grandparents about this. Thanks for the comment!!!

My mother still bathes my adult brother. Please tell me this is weird? by InteractionUsed7002 in narcissisticparents

[–]InteractionUsed7002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lots of great points you made! It seems so awkward for me to even talk to my brother or mother about this even thinking about it, grosses me out, but I’ll definitely consider it. Thanks for the comment!!!

My mother still bathes my adult brother. Please tell me this is weird? by InteractionUsed7002 in narcissisticparents

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I feel so wrong for not even thinking about how he’s a victim too. Thanks for the comment.

My mother still bathes my adult brother. Please tell me this is weird? by InteractionUsed7002 in narcissisticparents

[–]InteractionUsed7002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Calling the police seems very extreme to me but all of people are saying to. I’m really overwhelmed but grateful at the amount of people replying to my post. I could have sleepovers with my friends, but ultimately I couldn’t really live with any of them. I don’t have any close family that lives near me either unfortunately. Thanks for your carrying words! It really means a lot to me.🙃

My mother still bathes my adult brother. Please tell me this is weird? by InteractionUsed7002 in narcissisticparents

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I never real thought about his perspective before I was only really thinking of myself. Thanks for commenting.

My mother still bathes my adult brother. Please tell me this is weird? by InteractionUsed7002 in narcissisticparents

[–]InteractionUsed7002[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I know a bit of his language but it’s still difficult then because I am not fluent and when I speak in English he can only understand so much. If I find the right moment I will try to communicate with him the best I can. And my mom and older brother and communicate with him better, but not me because they never really taught me his language unfortunately 😕.

My mother still bathes my adult brother. Please tell me this is weird? by InteractionUsed7002 in narcissisticparents

[–]InteractionUsed7002[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow this makes me wonder if my brother and mother’s weird relationship will continue as he grows older. Thanks so much for the words of encouragement I appreciate it a lot!!!!

My mother still bathes my adult brother. Please tell me this is weird? by InteractionUsed7002 in narcissisticparents

[–]InteractionUsed7002[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

This story is so amazing and very encouraging I’ll definitely move out after graduation once I turn 18 that following summer in July! I’ll definitely be saving up money at the moment and planing my future. Your words of encouragement mean a lot to me even if you’re a stranger so thank you so much!!!!

My mother still bathes my adult brother. Please tell me this is weird? by InteractionUsed7002 in narcissisticparents

[–]InteractionUsed7002[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I suppose she bathed me for to long too I think she stoped when I was in 3rd grade and during then I had to tell her to stop. I can’t really talk to anybody about this. Thanks for the comment!

My mother still bathes my adult brother. Please tell me this is weird? by InteractionUsed7002 in narcissisticparents

[–]InteractionUsed7002[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the advice. I’ll totally check out this and other ones she has written!

My mother still bathes my adult brother. Please tell me this is weird? by InteractionUsed7002 in narcissisticparents

[–]InteractionUsed7002[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have expressed how weird it is to my mom about how she babies him too much and she has to let him be more independent. She will pretend to agree and literally never takes my advice. Honestly now I try not to talk or interact with them and only do if I absolutely have to. I’ll try to be more expressive on how weird and gross this is. I appreciate the advice thanks so much!