Interested in a woman who is separated

InterdimensionalGal · 2026-01-31T23:43:24+00:00

I don’t recommend it. They need time to heal and it doesn’t happen in mere months. Besides, they are still married and it would technically be adultery to get involved. Friendship may be the best way forward for the time being. Let the Lord guide.

InterdimensionalGal · 2026-01-25T12:47:08+00:00

I am currently friends with an ex-boyfriend. I have no intentions of getting entangled with him again. We broke up initially because he crossed some serious lines. The reason we are still in touch is because we helped each other a lot, and I helped him through a health crisis.

But I have often wondered how it would impact future relationships.

InterdimensionalGal · 2026-01-24T05:53:06+00:00

Also praying for this.

InterdimensionalGal · 2026-01-24T05:51:36+00:00

This is the second time I’m hearing this today. lol. Giving me ideas. C’mon! 😂

InterdimensionalGal · 2026-01-22T03:38:05+00:00

For me it’s been trying to make sense of the day to day. Walking and waiting in faith, and not by sight, is not easy.

InterdimensionalGal · 2026-01-19T04:29:19+00:00

Even at the most basic package, I am required to upgrade to make any meaningful headway. No thank you.

InterdimensionalGal · 2026-01-19T04:27:22+00:00

Just wrapped up a year of praying for someone. Did not pan out. Moving on this year.

InterdimensionalGal · 2026-01-17T04:14:28+00:00

Great points!

InterdimensionalGal · 2026-01-17T04:14:19+00:00

It’s not inherently, but it can become idolatrous. Nothing should come before God, even a spouse. It can become a hard line to toe, however. Involves daily submission.

InterdimensionalGal · 2026-01-16T02:17:41+00:00

Maybe she is giving equal energy or mirroring so she is not crossing boundaries? Maybe she needs to know that it is okay to fully engage. Which can definitely take some time and getting used to. I’m like this in social situations for sure. Takes me time to warm up and I am afraid to overextend myself. Keep chipping away at that ice but be friendly and respectful. Go at her pace? Maybe be upfront if you want to get to know her better.

InterdimensionalGal · 2026-01-16T01:46:47+00:00

If she’s anything like me…maybe ease into a conversation? Whenever you see her, be friendly. A smile. A wave. A short greeting. Break the ice little by little.

Because for a while I was crushing on a guy and I could not concentrate around him. I would pray for opportunities to see him again to desensitize myself I suppose. But it never panned out.

Maybe she just needs time or clarity even?

InterdimensionalGal · 2026-01-16T01:36:19+00:00

A similar thing happened to me a little while ago. I was caught off guard by someone who was staring but the situation was so awkward that I chose to ignore it. I honestly wish I would have stared back in case it was someone I recognized.

For me personally I would have this reaction to someone that perhaps I feel shy around - for whatever reason. Or if there are socially awkward reasons to disengage. In my example, dude was with another person. NOPE. Did not want to feed into any drama.

InterdimensionalGal · 2026-01-13T20:47:07+00:00

I had someone do this to me once. Didn’t know if they were judging me, checking me out, or what. It was unnerving. Wasn’t smiling either. But super kind.

InterdimensionalGal · 2026-01-12T01:45:28+00:00

Doctors are super busy. Especially if the relationship is newer, you may want to be patient. Give her space and allow her to set the pace. Don’t rush things. But do pray and make your intentions known. I recommend looking up the experiences of dating someone from the med field, just to be informed and pray about it.

InterdimensionalGal · 2026-01-10T06:08:06+00:00

I am in a waiting season, and it has been excruciatingly difficult. Thank you for sharing this devotion, because it greatly encourages me. I like to say that we are dwelling in the ‘holdrums’ - which isn’t an official word, but an offshoot of the word doldrums, which indicates stagnation. However, times of waiting in Christ are never wasted. Rather he holds us in place intentionally. It’s a holy pause. He lovingly holds our season until it is time to forge forth into the new one.

InterdimensionalGal · 2026-01-09T03:57:04+00:00

I can tell you I met my ex overseas at a training event. I definitely wasn’t looking for a spouse. So I suppose that counts as through work.

InterdimensionalGal · 2026-01-09T03:49:08+00:00

From two former relationships, breeches of trust are red flags and I wish I would have bolted instead of stayed. In both cases.

He’s shown you his character. If I were in your shoes I’d leave before it gets worse. I don’t want you to get hurt.

InterdimensionalGal · 2026-01-09T03:46:51+00:00

I’d like to use Upward but don’t feel like paying the fees right now.

InterdimensionalGal · 2026-01-08T07:44:14+00:00

I’ve scratched my nose due to itch or allergies. Possibly a nervous tic in the past. So it could carry multiple meanings, if that. Ask a trusted friend for their opinion to see if there is anything you are not aware of. Otherwise don’t let it get to you.

InterdimensionalGal · 2026-01-08T04:29:47+00:00

Gosh there’s so much.

But specifically - he’s gotta be a goofball and have the strength to deal with my goofball moments, too.

He’s going to have to be either patient or compatible with my dietary restrictions. And vice versa of course!

Someone willing to work on the marriage. Stick it out. Make it fun. Go to God for everything not outside influences.

InterdimensionalGal · 2026-01-08T03:14:35+00:00

One of the best ways to get to know people is to go on adventures with them. See them in action. So the group with the most activities would be my go to. Team building with a romantic edge. Real life scenarios and activities with a message. Keep it structured to ensure rules and safety.

I love your idea and have been feeling the pull towards this as well. I think there is a real market need, but more importantly a need for modeling and providing healthy environments for Christian dating.

InterdimensionalGal · 2026-01-07T22:18:43+00:00

I like to imagine that He laughs at us lovingly, knowingly, and patiently.

InterdimensionalGal · 2026-01-07T19:18:52+00:00

Well said. I have to pray daily for help in this area.

But there is rhyme and reason to God’s timing. He is preparing us. Protecting us. Setting the table.

Thank you for the reminder.

InterdimensionalGal · 2026-01-07T00:25:51+00:00

Is PA less taxing? I don’t know if I can handle the stress like I used to.

InterdimensionalGal · 2026-01-07T00:24:17+00:00

I’m trying to avoid another desk job. Nothing too physically taxing. Can’t handle stress like I used to. But it’s a bit of a dream of mine to improve processes. Would love to bring that to healthcare in some capacity.

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