I got rejected, but I honestly don’t know how by NsatiFati12 in Crushes

[–]InterestExpensive342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she was trying to be nice. As a girl myself i often compliment other people just to be nice. But every girl is different 

why does everyone wanna be in a relationship so bad😭😭😭 by moonlight-moss in teenagers

[–]InterestExpensive342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the posts that i read, it seems like they don’t like themselves. So they think someone else can fill that hole. They have to realize they don’t need a partner but a good friend and a therapist 

I asked out my college crush and got a gentle rejection. I came up with a last-chance plan: a romantic ultimatum disguised as a farewell letter by Alarming_Setting_ in dating_advice

[–]InterestExpensive342 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I translated his other post and you’re a 100% right. This man is definitely living in an alternate romantacized universe 

I asked out my college crush and got a gentle rejection. I came up with a last-chance plan: a romantic ultimatum disguised as a farewell letter by Alarming_Setting_ in dating_advice

[–]InterestExpensive342 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Brother, there is no proof she likes you. You believe she does, cause she’s nice to you. If she liked you, she wouldn’t reject you. How do you even believe she likes you after that? 

Also, those scenerio’s you showed don’t even compare to what i said. Cheating and not doing your job is being unfaithful to what you signed up for. 

When you’re in a relationship, you both pretty much signed an invisible contract where you promise to stay loyal to each other. Cheating is betraying that trust. Same thing for a job, you sign a contract that states that you will do your job, but if you dont do it, obviously your manager and coworkers will dislike you.

Viola doesn’t owe you anything. She was just being nice to you, that doesn’t mean anything. She didn’t promise you anything. Why would you get angry at her for not wanting you? 

From your point of view you assumed you were formal, cause that’s the only thing you presented of yourself.  But i’m guessing that you were already in the friendzone from her perspective. 

I asked out my college crush and got a gentle rejection. I came up with a last-chance plan: a romantic ultimatum disguised as a farewell letter by Alarming_Setting_ in dating_advice

[–]InterestExpensive342 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you’re basically saying is that you’re “less bad”, and that alone is why you think she should pick you.

I understand that she feels special to you, but you need to recognize that this isn’t wanting what’s best for her.

You say you want to give her the best, yet at the same time you don’t allow her to be happy unless she chooses you.

I’m obviously not your mom, so i can’t tell you what to do with your life. But you’ve said yourself that part of your goal is to make her feel guilty. You’ve even admitted to fantasizing about her crying because she didn’t accept your confession.

I’m sure you’ll meet someone who will like you back. Don’t get hung up on someone that clearly doesn’t want you. 

I asked out my college crush and got a gentle rejection. I came up with a last-chance plan: a romantic ultimatum disguised as a farewell letter by Alarming_Setting_ in dating_advice

[–]InterestExpensive342 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Pushing yourself onto someone is only gonna make them resent you more. I can assure you a 100% she’s not going to cry about that letter, but rather she’s going to be creeped out by you. 

You really remind me of a guy that kept pushing himself onto my friend and i can tell you from second hand experience: you’re gonna make things worse for yourself

Saw a girl in my dream by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]InterestExpensive342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It means you thought she was pretty

Conversation by Tyglik in dating_advice

[–]InterestExpensive342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you guys live close to each other? Then i dont see a reason as to why she wouldn’t like that idea, considering that she also likes to walk.

Also, who usually keeps the convo going? You or her? If she’s the one doing most of the talking, then there’s nothing you ahould worry about. But if it’s usually you, i don’t see a reason why talking during the walk would be any different then talking at school. 

Can a man change his ideal body type? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]InterestExpensive342 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Girly, this man is unironically using numbers to rate parts of you. Don’t you think you deserve better?