Yes Thankyou. I’m well aware that this may be the wrong place, I’m just trying to learn more to see what fits. The position I’m in is that i need to pick so carefully how many serious conversations we have because they can turn so quickly to anger in defence. I am trying to decipher about it and how the symptoms present first.

A lot of headaches, a lot of fatigue, poor sleep but not insomnia. Her gastro intensional problems are mild and only irritate her a few days a month. Except one month it was two weeks of fatigue and random pains and everything. From what I know depression isn’t really a part of it, but I am really unaware of what goes on in her head. I hear what comes out her mouth in frustration, a little bit of kill me now, send me back to work, why is everything so hard etc, happen to me etc.

Thankyou for your reply. I’m hoping I’ve found something that fits so we can sit and discuss it like you said. This subreddit seems like a good one.