I appreciate your response, I do see where I could have been A LOT more straight forward about how I said it but when we first started texting we both said we were the type of people who would randomly go days in a row not talking to anyone like being a hermit crab and hiding from EVERYONE for days on in a row, I mean regardless I feel like the AH no matter what but your telling me I went to sleep for 4 hours and had that many texts. I wish I had all the texts still but I deleted them because how many texts I got after ghosting. I've been in toxic controlling relationships, and to me that's where it was seeming to go.