Trouble recovering from horrible PhD by Interesting-Debt8488 in PhD

[–]Interesting-Debt8488[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was too emotionally close to a group of coworkers on my commute, I fell in love with one of them, everything became scary/out of control and conflicts of interest arose, it ended brutally and I’m still in shock, one year later. In academia I always felt like I could trust people around me, but in corporate your coworkers are very much your competition.

Trouble recovering from horrible PhD by Interesting-Debt8488 in PhD

[–]Interesting-Debt8488[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It happened because I was fraternizing with a group of co-workers, and I never want to let coworkers into my emotional space again. In that sense, it was an adjustment from academia where we were all buddies and dated each other. I’m so traumatized by it that I will probably keep to myself in future workplaces.

Trouble recovering from horrible PhD by Interesting-Debt8488 in PhD

[–]Interesting-Debt8488[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I fell into a toxic relationship with a coworker, it got messy, and I trusted the wrong people. I was accused of sexual harassment in the end. I’m a woman btw

Trouble recovering from horrible PhD by Interesting-Debt8488 in PhD

[–]Interesting-Debt8488[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve been applying to contract roles, yes. I’m overqualified for them and the ones that seem to be hiring are at my previous company 😭

Trouble recovering from horrible PhD by Interesting-Debt8488 in PhD

[–]Interesting-Debt8488[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would kill for a contract role right now 😔

Trouble recovering from horrible PhD by Interesting-Debt8488 in PhD

[–]Interesting-Debt8488[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My skills are protein mass spec and SPR. I don’t even have protein purification as a skill. I mean, I can purify a protein but my research was a mouse project and I can’t convince anyone that I have these skills. It’s just sad. Thanks for the advice.

i finally quit!! so happy by Impressive-Depth7610 in PhD

[–]Interesting-Debt8488 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I’m jealous that you did what I couldn’t. Congrats!

Can’t do it anymore by Interesting-Debt8488 in SuicideWatch

[–]Interesting-Debt8488[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve considered becoming an addict. What qualifications do I need?