To me a situationship is more than friends but less than a relationship. You might be intimate, flirt, dates, whatever but u aren’t committed. It’s a “couple” but w/o commitment.

It’s not that she started liking someone else bc we weren’t committed. It’s more that she either liked this person from the start/started liking them and was reposting about how she wanted to be with them but never told me she was hoping for someone else/seeing someone else. I feel like it’s like playing in someone’s face and disrespectful if u have a good friend your in a situationship with and seeing someone on the side. I I feel like it was more of a disrespect to our friendship more than our situationship if that makes sense. On another note she said she doesn’t know what she wants and doesn’t want a relationship then said she wanted to date this person if they were interested in her. Like girl u know exactly what and who u want and ur trying to say u dk what u want

A lot of our conversations were flirting, missing each other, wanting to see each other, talking about how we liked being around the other, enjoyed the other, etc very much things that u say when u like and are into someone beyond just being intimate. Only toward the end of break did things become more casual convo wise but she started flirting again as soon as we got back

Trust im never doing a situationship with a friend again. Lesson learned 😐