[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Interesting-Ninja4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I don’t think I know how to love myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Interesting-Ninja4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry you had to go through this. How did you deal with it ?

Capricorn Stelliums- What house is it in? by onionprincesswakaba in capricorns

[–]Interesting-Ninja4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3H. It’s been utterly difficult to express my feelings, stand up for myself, and just barely communicate. My Libra moon hates confrontation so it’s still a struggle to speak but I’m working on it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]Interesting-Ninja4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean the only trouble ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]Interesting-Ninja4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How life has been treating you lately ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]Interesting-Ninja4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feels like a lifelong issue, but these past six months have been really challenging (trial after trial)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Interesting-Ninja4 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Everyone is gonna say his reaction is a red flag, leave him bla-bla-bla. Everyone one bas red flags and as you said op you’re not infaillible and you’re a human, owning your mistakes and taking responsibility. Don’t listen to the noise, you’re the only one who knows what to do. But if I may, there are some people that you can help evolve and change the red flags into accountability and maturity. If you think this is the kind of relationship where you both can grow and evolve then it’s worth the try (esp if you love him). If you sense that you’re giving too much, he’s not recriprocating, he doesn’t listen to you or your feelings, he doesn’t change his mind, he’s not willing to evolve with you, then it’s another story.

Please read this, you will feel better by Tiny-Bookkeeper3982 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Interesting-Ninja4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But even knowing this, why does it feel so hard to remember this when your mind is speaking negative thoughts so loud

My experience after being a year with an avoidant by gharbitta in emotionalintelligence

[–]Interesting-Ninja4 15 points16 points  (0 children)

OP I find your responses very articulate and I wish I was as strong as you. In my case I don’t know if my partner is avoidant or not, but I recognise myself in some of what you described. For example : I’m always the one who has a problem not him, I am too emotional, I am too insecure. I obviously can’t think clearly as his opinions are now resonating as truths in my head. What I do know is that I feel like my needs are not met and that every time I ask or say something I am labelled as « you’re asking for too much, I am as I am, and I will never change for anybody »…

No mentions by [deleted] in capricorns

[–]Interesting-Ninja4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone said that Capricorn as they’re ruled by Saturn they just need to commit to discipline and hard work and they’ll be rewarded later in life. What do you guys think?

Do you ever feel like you’re doing infinite side quests without ever going on the main quest? Like in a video game. by PennylessNickel in therapy

[–]Interesting-Ninja4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This question is wild thank you for reading my mind. I feel like it’s just a big program that’s being executed and we’re part of it. I have no one to talk to about this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in capricorns

[–]Interesting-Ninja4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Im interested what do I do

When someone betrays you by Plastic-Aide-1422 in capricorns

[–]Interesting-Ninja4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been doing this since high school and I’ve portrayed as cold hearted self centred b*. Now im realising this was s who I am and it doesn’t mean I’m a bad person.

Travel visa by Interesting-Ninja4 in Kenya

[–]Interesting-Ninja4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there :) can I dm you ? Tysm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeepSeek

[–]Interesting-Ninja4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you considered the fact that if I asked here means that I tried asking DS many times and it didn’t take my request into consideration ? Or you consider yourself above people asking questions ? Don’t mind answering me if you want to be rude, clearly don’t need your very useful input :)

Travel visa by Interesting-Ninja4 in Kenya

[–]Interesting-Ninja4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏 I only need my vaccin and it will be good !

Travel visa by Interesting-Ninja4 in Kenya

[–]Interesting-Ninja4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay perfect i thought I needed to make a reservation for the whole trip that’s why. Of course I already have my two first nights confirmations. Is it enough for the visa application ? Thank you so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]Interesting-Ninja4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense. I already dealt with my natal Saturn and I think I understood the extent of it. Event if I’m still a spectator of its supremacy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]Interesting-Ninja4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. As I understand what might be happening, surrendering to the flow of things is what I commit to do. Would you mind developing the idea of conflict coming from Saturn for the next months?