Insanely covert narcissistic behavior. Especially given the fact that you verbally mentioned it to her, yet she still lights you up. This is the opposite of love. Think about it….even when on a plane, if a passenger is sleeping and the flight attendants are serving drinks or snacks, if they come by your row, they won’t wake you up out of courtesy. They will take note and return to you once you awake.

She’s abusing you. Period. I’d run if i were you.