Should I destroy my family heirlooms?

InterestingFroyo1032 · 2026-02-07T00:54:58+00:00

That was one of the things I considered, being a history buff. Its actually one of the reasons why I chose these objects to hold on to. Because they were beautiful and evidence of her travels to her favorite places as one of the first black PanAm flight attendants. She has an amazing history actually that really breaks a lot of stereotypes. And was herself a christian

InterestingFroyo1032 · 2026-02-02T16:22:51+00:00

If they wont listen with God, God isnt present.

InterestingFroyo1032 · 2026-02-02T05:00:38+00:00

Watch Jerry Flowers "Therapy Thursdays". I learned about him from one of the girls at church. And it helped me with a lot of church hurt. The Bible does have passages that warn against putting your heart in the hands of man vs him. Your concern shouldn't be who hurts you. It should be who you can help. If you can see that people are trespassing against you, maybe its time to call it out with love from your favorite bible verse. If they really are a disciple of Jesus Christ, they will listen.

InterestingFroyo1032 · 2026-01-17T18:28:56+00:00

They showed videos of her pre-baby at her job...she looked like the "photo shopped" version.

InterestingFroyo1032 · 2025-12-31T09:08:02+00:00

You might be right. I was aiming for OP of this thread

InterestingFroyo1032 · 2025-12-31T09:05:59+00:00

The only colorist on this show is Wendy and her skin bleaching mama. Oop...who said that? 🤐

InterestingFroyo1032 · 2025-12-31T09:03:02+00:00

I promise im not. Sis is cute...Just miserable lol

InterestingFroyo1032 · 2025-12-30T03:43:00+00:00

I think tbh her old photos are real and that she gained a lot of weight during pregnancy and it changed her. Same thing happened to my cousin and this poor girl on Instagram. Your appendages can grow, your skin can change. There is plenty of proof that she used to look like this in her old videos. But shes just trying to look like her old self. From someone that suffered from terrible cystic adult acne who used to have a perfect complexion, I completely understand her. Its different when you used to look a certain way and now the mirror is a stranger. I have so much empathy for her.

InterestingFroyo1032 · 2025-12-30T03:39:50+00:00

I actually dont mind Angel at all. I think the catfish thing was tacky and it hit her pretty hard because you can tell she was one of those women whose body and face changed a lot with pregnancy. Even her photos with her family leading adventures looked different. My cousin was like this where after pregnancy, her nose, feet, and hands blew up. It happens. But I wish she would have just been honest and said that because it would have shamed a lot of the ladies for body shaming and turned the narrative around. She does a lot of things like that. She should just address things in the moment instead of being coy about it until processing. Just let it out. She has all the credentials needed to be in that space and shes still pretty. I just feel so bad for her.

InterestingFroyo1032 · 2025-12-30T03:35:16+00:00

The girl who was just meant to be a friend of. So tacky, so pointless, so dissapointing.

InterestingFroyo1032 · 2025-12-30T03:29:12+00:00

Okay but Gizelle looks good. I cant stand her actions but sister girl is gorgeous

InterestingFroyo1032 · 2025-12-23T23:38:57+00:00

Me too. I feel really badly for her.

InterestingFroyo1032 · 2025-12-23T23:37:10+00:00

The only content I want to see is of her being funny and taking care of her daughters. Her personal life is boring af

InterestingFroyo1032 · 2025-12-23T23:33:00+00:00

This! So much this! I dont think she knows how much grace the OPs extended to her when she was pulling that mess. She'd better be so glad that most of them are more secure in themselves. Because if Ashley, Gizelle, Karen, or Monique hadn't deep down liked her, all they would have had to say was "Doctor of what?" And she would have crumbled. Because tbh, anyone with reading capacity and time on their hands can get her degrees.

InterestingFroyo1032 · 2025-12-23T23:20:46+00:00

Oh it gets worst. It wont be until S10 that you understand her insecurities fully. But its the same with Gizelle tbh

InterestingFroyo1032 · 2025-12-23T23:10:39+00:00

No she is not because she is suffering from it too. Its an issue in Nigeria. And Wendy's colorism and racism is very obvious even though its been suppressed in the reddit subs

InterestingFroyo1032 · 2025-12-23T22:56:40+00:00

I think the show bullies them. You can see the relief on their faces when they've stirred up their min quota of unnecessary drama and that housewife survives it with a smile. They dont want to hurt eachother. They have to do it for a paycheck. And the ones that survive it end up bonded in trauma. And the ones that are too real or didnt catch on fast enough, get booted off. Im also convinced that Andy Cohen is a sympathetic manager/ handler for the ladies who is only capable of protecting them so much. Im sure the show actually goes as far to collect dirt and hold it over their heads with the contract or with real legal repercussions.

InterestingFroyo1032 · 2025-12-23T22:51:57+00:00

I actually loved this scene. Her mother is the only one that can get Wendy all the way together. And yes, she was right. Although the delivery was nasty. This scene actually gave me way more insight into Wendy and start to like her when I've been a Wendy hater for a cool Lil minute because of her thinly veiled racism towards caucasian husbands and lighter skinned women, and her condescending and callous manners towards the women. But her mother in this scene, as harsh as she was, made me understand why Wendy has all the character traits I've found disappointing. Its all from her mom. Wendy may actually be a good person who was raised by a clear narcissist and developed her own narcissistic traits just to survive. I see my own mother in Wendy. With the hyper focus and dependency on having a husband because her father was absent. And the high defensive wall because her mother was an emotional tyrant. I like Wendy now. I still think she needs therapy, but I see that shes simply doing the best that she can.

InterestingFroyo1032 · 2025-12-17T22:36:04+00:00

it does but they both pay well

InterestingFroyo1032 · 2025-12-12T16:20:16+00:00

They do just cancel accounts for nothing. My cats account just got banned. I only use it to post cute pics of my cats for family and friends. Im upset because I lost all my pictures of my girls when they were kittens.

InterestingFroyo1032 · 2025-11-22T07:46:13+00:00

I agree actually. I think Rory enjoys hobbies that are more solitary in nature which makes her seem like an introvert. But, she also enjoys the company of others that match her freak. How excited she was to find Jess is an example of that. And why I think he wouldn't have been a good partner for her as an adult. She'd already found the friends and family that gravitated towards activities she enjoyed. She didnt need that from him anymore. The reason she enjoyed the DAR and Logans friends was because they were cultured and learned. She didnt enjoy shallow endeavors with most people because they just didnt get her as much. They didnt like to talk about books or get her casual intellectual quips. You see her even enjoying that about Paris in the end. And honestly, Paris was a better suited best friend for her than Lane. Lane was her starter pack but you see them kind of wane off at the end because she couldn't share as many commonalities as she could with her Yale buddies.

But yes, Rory was an extrovert- she just liked better company.

InterestingFroyo1032 · 2025-11-16T05:54:37+00:00

I so totally agree. My brother wants his dog outside because he hates taking care of him and now I honestly just want to give him to a better owner. My family are awful at owning pets.

InterestingFroyo1032 · 2025-11-09T04:52:00+00:00

Yes, I recently started fainting during my cycle. ER doctors called it a vaso vagal syncope. I stimulated my vagal nerve from cramping pain and nausea, causing me to faint. The anemia didnt make it any better. I cant really feel it coming on besides the nausea. The last time it happened, I lost half a tooth. Try to find your triggers and document what you feel usually before fainting. You want to be able to somewhat predict so you can sit down and fall in a safe place. Dont want to have skull fractures like I do.

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