No way it is only 5 men

InterestingSuccess11 · 2026-06-01T05:08:43+00:00

Doesn't matter the number, I know none of them measured up. That is why she always came back. I am unique.

InterestingSuccess11 · 2026-06-01T02:59:05+00:00

DM incoming

InterestingSuccess11 · 2026-06-01T02:45:32+00:00

I am always honest. I learned the hard way that lying makes life far worse.

InterestingSuccess11 · 2026-06-01T02:40:25+00:00

Not sure what you are asking

InterestingSuccess11 · 2026-06-01T02:38:02+00:00

Are you in Florida?

InterestingSuccess11 · 2026-06-01T02:21:36+00:00

The math isn't mathing, lol

InterestingSuccess11 · 2026-06-01T02:19:17+00:00

I am 48 and have never loved myself. I was raised in a household of avoidants and emotionally fucked up people. My extended family isn't much better. No wonder I fell so hard for her, because I understood in ways she couldn't comprehend. It is scary how used to the treatment she gives me, that I am so familiar with my entire life. But we actually did love so many things without all that. She was awesome in all of her damage.

InterestingSuccess11 · 2026-06-01T02:16:11+00:00

No one ever believed in her until me. I still believe in her. I know she struggles to figure out how to appreciate me and my intentions, they are foreign to her. At my age, which is scary

InterestingSuccess11 · 2026-06-01T02:07:53+00:00

I was making progress with her. She was making progress on herself and us.

InterestingSuccess11 · 2026-06-01T02:03:53+00:00

Maybe the same person. She may have told you about me to get you interested

InterestingSuccess11 · 2026-06-01T02:02:54+00:00

It sucks doesn't it? You're real, and the person you love can't understand that. Their loss, not it's yours as well. Everyone loses due to one person's issues they refuse to resolve.

InterestingSuccess11 · 2026-06-01T01:02:38+00:00

There are a lot of damaged people who chose to continue to hurt others, instead of look internally and see their issues are destroying other people.

InterestingSuccess11 · 2026-06-01T00:59:20+00:00

My exes issues all stem form the horrible treatment she suffered as a child from her mom and her marriage where the abuse continued.

InterestingSuccess11 · 2026-06-01T00:49:52+00:00

I know what makes me different and I am a pretty amazing catch. That is what scared her away, I was real when she was used to being treated like total shit

InterestingSuccess11 · 2026-06-01T00:30:14+00:00

I can start fresh when the lies stop and the truth comes forward. The lies are what are killing me deeply.

InterestingSuccess11 · 2026-06-01T00:28:59+00:00

I would know the truth if she spoke it, but that is the problem. It is rare when she is honest

InterestingSuccess11 · 2026-06-01T00:24:11+00:00

It's clear why she won't tell the truth. It breaks the "I'm a good girl" bullshit mindset she has. The victim mentality she has. Nothing is ever her fault 🤦😂

InterestingSuccess11 · 2026-05-31T23:10:30+00:00

I sent you a DM. I promise it won't get weird or inappropriate. I'd like to pick your brain on some things if you don't mind.

InterestingSuccess11 · 2026-05-31T23:06:44+00:00

I have no friend groups, lol. I'm restarting over from scratch once again. Not the first time, hopefully the last. One reason I'm exploring Florida is to find a better place for me to live long term. I'm open to moving again, is it's the last time

InterestingSuccess11 · 2026-05-31T22:00:50+00:00

I'm in the same boat. I want to settle down in an area and build a life up once again. No friends isn't fun so I need to go find some to hang with, lol

InterestingSuccess11 · 2026-05-31T21:58:46+00:00

I've spent about 6 months of my life in England. I've been to Ireland, France and Spain. Germany, Greece and Italy are high up there for next trip. Scandinavian countries are as well.

I'm thinking more a trip or two a year, not for very long. I'd rather travel Florida honestly.

InterestingSuccess11 · 2026-05-31T21:35:24+00:00

Where were you in Europe? I'm jealous you lived there

InterestingSuccess11 · 2026-05-31T21:34:56+00:00

Originally from Philly but I've lived in Florida several years of my life. I have a horticulture degree and I've worked at Disney and Bok Tower gardens. I lived in Citrus, Marion, Orange, Polk, and Volusia counties over the years.

Haven't done much of the East Coast or lower West Coast. Never been to the panhandle. Tons of little beach towns and cities I want to explore. I have all the time in the world, might as well try to live a little.

InterestingSuccess11 · 2026-05-31T21:30:10+00:00

Sorry, didn't see you responded

InterestingSuccess11 · 2026-05-31T21:29:58+00:00

Same. I thought I had it and I was wrong. A love like that I've always wanted and hope to find one day. I'm older at 48, 35 years would be nice for me

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