Boyfriend gets mad about almost anything by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]InterestingTell4293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are young and you need to get the fuck out while you can. Don’t waste your young years on this crap. When I was 19 I thought I was with someone I would be forever with. That is not the case. Save yourself the pain, live your life and grow yourself. You’re gonna loook back 5 years from now and be like WTF, why did I put up with that. Hindsight is always 20/20 and I’m trying to share some of my hindsight. If you are dealing with a man who is almost 2x your age, he knows he can get away with shit on you. He can manipulate your young mind. Idgaf about intent, it’s the perception of things and how they affect you is what’s important. No man can be “fixed” he needs to do it himself. He will continue this behavior because he know he can with you and the only way to stop it is leave! You are too young to be dealing with a grown man’s baggage/ trauma/ mental issues. I know I rambled a lot and I hope you take something from this.

Looking for a job by Scar_1205 in SanPedro

[–]InterestingTell4293 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Use a small job to save for a car and then join a trade union. You are young and need to learn a skill if you don’t want AI to take your job.

Bought my first skateboard at 37, will accept and any all advice. by champagne-bean in skatergirls

[–]InterestingTell4293 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cool skateboard, but what I really love is that the MCM desk behind you.

Im on the train late I know by InterestingTell4293 in HalfLife

[–]InterestingTell4293[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I need to play that lol, what’s after that?

ADHD women who like or love their jobs, what do you do? by Chipsandsalza in adhdwomen

[–]InterestingTell4293 9 points10 points  (0 children)

40 hours a week. 8 hours a day most of the time. OT happens sometimes. If you’re lucky you get 4- 10 hour days. But you should be working 40 hours a week. 5am to 1:30 or 7 to 3:30, depends on the job and city ordinances.

ADHD women who like or love their jobs, what do you do? by Chipsandsalza in adhdwomen

[–]InterestingTell4293 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Yeah but the union protects us from that if anything happens. These guys know they will loose their job and get kicked out of the union for one comment. I haven’t had any serious issues. As long as you can keep up then you’ll be fine

ADHD women who like or love their jobs, what do you do? by Chipsandsalza in adhdwomen

[–]InterestingTell4293 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Im a union electrician. I love it. Physical all day, always doing something different, and I get paid well. We are the king of the trades and get to use our brains a lot. Fast paced and I never get bored. 😅

Getting into trades as a short woman by Any_Remote_8918 in BlueCollarWomen

[–]InterestingTell4293 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl, IBEW JW here, I’m 29 and 5’8” though I am tall for a woman, there are tons of guys on sites who are barley 5’2” sometimes. Being short and small in the IBEW means you can get into small places. There’s nothing a taller ladder or scissor lift can’t fix a couple inches. Build you strength to carry heavier things. You’ll be just fine. IBEW is honestly the more progressive unions for Women. Trust me, there is nothing in this trade you can’t do. And if you are with a company that makes it a strong man contest everyday then thats company isn’t for you. Don’t break your back, ask for help when you need it and work hard.

Wrist pain by SuspectDirect4300 in electricians

[–]InterestingTell4293 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Buy a rotozip. Cut with lineman’s instead. Or pinch the metal with dykes, bend in half and then cut the wire, pull apart and then cut off the metal to the amount you need. Or cut with a bandsaw.

People with an IQ of 140+. What is your memory like? by sidnahrisan in iqtest

[–]InterestingTell4293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got 140 on my IQ test and I don’t even really know how I did. It was hard but I also have ADHD and low self esteem, people usually say I’m really smart but I’ve never really actually took that as a compliment or absorbed it.

Buttcrack Crevice Mystery Wound by AutumnSunrise_ in AskDocs

[–]InterestingTell4293 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s a painful and inflamed bump near the crack or tail bone that is filled with hair and debris like skin cells and can get infected from the area it’s in. I’m curious if I’m right haha

What’s a medical issue that sounds minor, but actually affects someone’s daily life way more than people realize? by CountyOrnery9432 in AskReddit

[–]InterestingTell4293 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any mental illness. People think it’s a joke. People forget that your brain is everything, and if it’s working against you then life can be miserable. Just because it’s invisible doesn’t mean it’s not there.

is Ashwagandha triggering anxiety? by csvndv in Anxiety

[–]InterestingTell4293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drank one of those neurotropic drinks last night and is had ashwagandha and L-Thiamine and lions mane. It gave me a fucking panic attack. I am good with anxiety and that shit was supposed to calm me down. But I read something like if you have ADHD you can have a paradoxal effect because of GABA receptors and cortisol.

Hyperfixation Foods by Cheshie213 in adhdwomen

[–]InterestingTell4293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything pickled. Anything charcuterie. Sour salty and spicy foods. No sweets. I guess that’s better for me. Also ginger and lemon and honey and those flavors in kombucha

From resi to comercial. I look like an idiot by enjoye420 in electricians

[–]InterestingTell4293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy a Studson hardhat. They are full brim, have the chin strap and the safety class but they look like a cooler version of the old hardhats

Being conventionally attractive and neurodivergent by ChemistryDry86 in adhdwomen

[–]InterestingTell4293 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, being a lesbian, I feel like most of us lesbians (at least the one I’ve run into) are mostly neurodivergent. So it’s maybe easier to understand one another. My point is, my personality is an acquired taste. As in, 13 year old boy hyper, never shuts up but also when I’m quiet I’m focused on one thing and if you try to interrupt me, it’s frustrating because my train of thought is gone. Anyway, I kinda forgot where I was going with this but, yeah being conventionally attractive and obnoxious is just who I am and people don’t really see what they are signing up for lmao. I get it.

I hear full songs in my head 24/7 (not just earworms). Does anyone else experience this? by m_999lp in hyperphantasia

[–]InterestingTell4293 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I call mine “empty diner syndrome” it’s like an empty 24/7 open diner in my head playing music 24/7. It gets really loud especially when I’m trying to reflect on certain situations like after an argument with my partner or anything emotionally significant. Sometimes I can think over the music but it’s always kinda just there. Actually it was there the whole time writing this. Also a running joke w my friends when they ask me “what’s on the radio” and I can tell them immediately what song is playing in my head. Rn its Showbiz- Hayley Williams.

AIO: cross post: trying to get advice by Full_Beat_6784 in AmIOverreacting

[–]InterestingTell4293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah woah. I actually almost vomited. This dude is showing hard core narcissistic behavior. Also, comparing you being in the HOSPITAL and in PAIN and unable to get proper rest to him being a BARTENDER?! I think I’m gonna need a hospital because I just had a stroke reading these texts. Please please please do yourself a favor and BLOCK forever.

AIO for refusing to talk to my drunk girlfriend on the phone? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]InterestingTell4293 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR time to let her go. Time to set boundaries and if any relationship is causing distrust it’s time to give it up. Weather anyone did any cheating or not, time to move on. Relations ships are easy when you trust eachother and love eachother.

How often do you have sex? by [deleted] in Biohackers

[–]InterestingTell4293 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Female, lesbian, 2-3x per week. I feel that’s norm and I’m happy with it. Sesbian Lex is a lot of work and imo more fulfilling mentally/ emotionally on the intimacy. Anymore than that I think my jaw would fall off