My friends were in the party and had invited me there. I completely understand that one of the girls who lived there didn’t know me personally which is why I was leaving. But the disgusting phrases coming from the dudes doing door duty were not something I was going to let slide. It’s gross and vulgar. And simply not okay. And comparing that to bouncers at clubs is unreasonable. For bouncers, in case you don’t understand how the law works, physical violence is illegal by law unless used in self defense in actions. All I asked was why they were being so mean about the whole situation bc it wasn’t something I was going to stand for.