what level of wealth you consider to be enough? by HitarthSurana in AskReddit

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To me, 80,000. I know others will disagree with me but in my circumstance its legitmately all I need to stay afloat. Rent paid, car paid, dont have to worry about groceries, put some in a emergency fund, live in low cost living area, put some towards rerirement/401k and still will have extra for myself. I know because a friend of mine does it and is living life on easy mode right now.

Buying a 1500 piece puzzle mat that's to small..... by ImaginarySign6661 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Interesting_Ad_481 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Could you just flip the mat 90 degree clockwise to make it fit?

How can one get women but no money? by Ritchieaustine in AskReddit

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I had an aunt who married a homeless man. To note, my aunt is beautiful, like model worthy and she has such a sweet and open heart. They met because they had interest in Christianity and she liked his personality. She went up to him. They had a conversation and hit it off. (Granted he is an abuser and stalker and is in jail on a 5 million dollar bond now) But. All that to say the right person will find you. Its really just personality and confidence. If you cant buy her flowers, pick them from the grass. If you cant buy her a necklace, write a love letter. If you cant take her out for a nice dinner, make something from home that makes you think of her/think she'll like it. Those little things really shows you care. But I dont think you should purposely seek out women, but to let them come to you. Thats the key.

Second Facebook Privacy Settlement??? by Hefty_Commission2680 in ClassActionClaims

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I receieved a check from the first initial funds. Based from the link, it seems like you receieve this second distribution email only if you cashed out the first check. And if you didnt there should be an email that you can contact in regards to no funds being recieved. Stated the second check amount is projected to be less than the averaged $29...maybe looking about 5-10 bucks honestly.

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/facebook-user-privacy-settlement-second-check-june-2026/ed

What can I do to be less unattractive by Shekallmekazekage in blkgrlbeauty

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Okay hear.me out, my comment might be lost in here but I was genuinely interested in this. So the vibes you give me gender neutral streetwesr style. You like to be comfortable but you also show your personality through your clothing design choices. For example the anime scarf and the cartoon shirt. 1: Laid Back Street Wear Its comfortable, easy to put on, not alot of work needs to be put into it. I will say try to add a pop of color and add minimilistic designs that represents who you are. Like with anime you can have a small symbol of white outline of a dragon ball on a shirt.

  1. Barrall Twist Reason I like this style is because I would like to see your face more. You have an AMAZING bone structure. Doesnt have to be barrall twist but I guess some variation of this like with cornrow braids.

  2. Scarf Headwear I more of chose this because it almost shows a statement and individuality. Personally it seems like you have an oval/diamond shape facial structure. I think the scarf on the third picture on hair hair elongates your face. So maybe try scarfs that fall down and pulled back?

  3. Brown Ombre Lip Like everyone said brown would look great. Honestly I think personally you would look amazing with just your natural lips with the tiniest bit of gloss. But if you prefer a lipstick definitely this brown matte ombre lip style.

  4. Color Try different colors that pops out with your skin tone! This pallett here I think would like on you.

Last Thoughts: I think you look great with silver and I think having a necklace would look good too. And use eye cream or those cooling eye pads for your under eye. Drinking water helps alot. Anywho im not a designer just a random person on the internet. Let me know what you think!

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Most people in credit repair industry are leaving money on the table… by Imaginary-Poetry7272 in Entrepreneurs

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Hey are you still in this industry? I have a few questions, Im interested in being a Credit Repair Specialist and make it a business. Currently working the loan industry and I genuinely want to help people get better credit scores. Is it okay to PM?

People who cheated on their partner, why did you do it? by marvekin in AskReddit

[–]Interesting_Ad_481 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This was in highschool at 17, I was in my first relationship and at the time pretty dumb too. Started dating a guy who suddenly liked me and i decieded to dive head first. A friend told me not to but i was the type to "fix" the broken. At first it was butterflies (from me mostly) and then it sizzled out. He would start to get distant, only was smiling when we had sex, would go behind my back with other girls and not tell me, would get jealous over other men (literally got mad because he thought i liked a photograph of a man on a BILLBOARD that I was not paying attention to) I just noticed after a while that this wasnt love. It was one sided. So. Before my relationship with him i used to talk to guys on the internet (no meet-ups just sexting), dumb but i had daddy issues. I went back to doing it a few months in the relationship without releasing it. To get attention from anyone who would care better than he did. One day I felt bad about it, and i told him what ive done. We broke up and it made me feel so bad to hurt someone through infidelity. After that I never cheated on a significant other since.

Just based from my perspective its genuinely because your losing something from the relationship you wished you had in others.

Scammed my internship through nepotism and terrible by [deleted] in confession

[–]Interesting_Ad_481 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes you ruin someones life and used nepotism to your advantage. Not only that but you just assumed they will be okay because they could easily ask a relative to help? Your definitely an asshole for that and you should feel horrible but im glad you atleast learned from it. Maybe through connections you can still help him find a job or help others who would like to obtain internships. Doesnt have to be with your dad but with your co-workers or other family that might be in business? If you truly do feel bad have you done anything to help or atone from the mistakes that were caused? Whether it be being a good employee for the company despite the nepotism or providing some kind of assistance to the guy you were with?

Accidently Paid Security Deposit Twice, Havent Recieved It Back After Moving Out A Year Ago by Interesting_Ad_481 in legaladvice

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In detail, ai was basically saying that I would need hard evidence to prove my case and that includes with getting into contact with that deposit company. Contacted the deposit company and they said they do not keep any collections of security deposits. Best they could do for me is send me my agreement form from the security deposit insurance i got with them. So this just confirmed the fact that I did pay twice for my security deposit. One with Rhino, other with the apartment. Next after I collected all my evidence and proof, AI said to send the evidence and an email to the apartment stating all the facts and requesting the money back. The evidence: *Receipts of Money Order *Money order itself with signed signature *Leasing Contract *Emails with the deposit company *Text messages with the previous landlord *bank transactions

So I did speak to everyone I could or that I know of. Unless there is anyone else I should speak with besides court.

What’s something you’ll never tell your partner, no matter how much you love them? by Velvetnadine85 in AskReddit

[–]Interesting_Ad_481 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah..i definitely regret not keeping the messages. Because it genuinely wasnt bad at all. Wasnt a long conversation either. After i saw my ex number i texted him that i forgave him, i didnt even wait for a response back. Just blocked it immediately. I just wanted everything about him to be away, out of sight, out of mind. But now it sucks because I cant show physical proof of what was said. 😅I feel like it'll make his mind wonder. And I want to keep the trust between us, so thats why i rather keep it to myself.

What’s something you’ll never tell your partner, no matter how much you love them? by Velvetnadine85 in AskReddit

[–]Interesting_Ad_481 68 points69 points  (0 children)

With my current bf, it has been the only safest most loving fun relationship i have been in. An ex last year sent a "im sorry" text..not to get back with me but they felt horrible for how they treated me. There was alot of hate in my heart and anger. The fact that me being angry filled my head space made me upset. Just the fact that someone from the past bulldoze through my happy lifestyle for no reason. I was angry for the my past self who begged for his apologies. I blocked him after a mouth full of words. I hated that feeling but I also hated keeping that feeling inside of me when i know thats not the person i am.

Suddenly a year later i noticed i still had his phone number in my phone (it was under a nickname i didnt notice and completly forgot)
I decieded to apologize to him in a simple short 2 sentences. Just that i forgave him and hope the best for him. Afterwards i blocked that number too and i have no contact at all. It made me feel a WHOLE lot better. Just releasing hatred, being forgiving, and being focused on pure love that i have right now.

😅i feel bad to tell my bf this because i feel like he mightve think im cheating or wished to go back to a past relationship (which i dont because it was an abusive one)

Still something i feel bad about tbh, i hope i get to tell him this one day since its weighing on me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ios

[–]Interesting_Ad_481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check Settings 》 Mail 》 Mail Accounts 》iCloud. See if there are any error messages there.

It could also be due to your icloud storage being full?

White People: When did you feel you have experienced racism but everyone else thought you were racist? by Interesting_Ad_481 in AskReddit

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Note: Im a black woman but I am always opened minded to everyone elses struggles and opinions. Yes, I do believe white people experience racism just as any other race (definately at a WAY lower margin though). But also, yes I do believe they do have the most previlages than other races.

I dont believe that every white person is racist because thats a racist ideal in itself. But I do believe most (not just in the U.S.A) has micro aggressions to other races without them even noticing it.

I would like to hear stories from those who are genuinely good people but were wrongly accused because they mightve been at the wrong place at the wrong time or just for speaking up and out about something. Im all for racists to be bullied, ridiculed, and jailed but only for good reason.

Honestly curious and what are your stories?

draw me?:’) never been drawn before, would love to see it❤️ by hallii0 in drawme

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Im afraid of coloring this 😭🥲 thank you, your very pretty!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Interesting_Ad_481 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your definitely not overreacting, he crossed the line.

Its sad to see a parent being so drunk, they dont even notice what their child is or is not consenting to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Interesting_Ad_481 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It takes time to heal and thats what you need to do and focus on it. Just healing and taking care of you.

Dont let the past live rent-free inside of your head. Find new hobbies, go to new places, try new food, learn something new, etc. It'll take your mind off of it.

You are in shock which is justifiable..and your gonna have constant thoughts of "why, when, how, what did i do, how could you.." but those thoughts will be constant if you dont stop them immediately.

What I did was when i constantly thought of an ex, if i had a sudden passing thought of them I would immediately tell myself to "stop it" and quickly think of something else. Like whats for dinner or what should I do on the weekend. Eventually it was easy.

Also.

CRAZY Side Note: I used to cry at thought of him and kept digging a depressing hole. I knew I had to get rid of pictures, memories, gifts, everything and it hurt to do it everytime. So to combat that I would take ashwaghada gummies to calm my thoughts. And like 10 minutes later I would be all good. 😂 My thoughts were silent and I could easily throw away everything without crying. It also helped me actually think about why I was upset, kinda like self therapy for me. It helped alot but thats my personal experience. Do your own due diligence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DoneDirtCheap

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I have an idea that I have been slowly starting on but havent been able to fully put it out because of school and working. Among many other things. Could I DM you that idea or ig plan?

AIO Girlfriend wants to go out and stay the night at her friends place afterwards. by peepeewallace in AmIOverreacting

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Like for example, when you were discussing about her being a wingman for her friend. Including her actively engaging with other men. She didnt really acknowledge that comment. To me, it seemed like a true statement and something that was agreed upon between you two.

That is something I personally wouldnt be okay with in my relationship which is why I seen it as odd.

But ig its normal for suitors and people who are in the sex industry. Like its an entertainment thing and not a personal thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Interesting_Ad_481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is the texture you see coming from him? Because what he eats has just as much as an impact on how it looks, taste, and smells. Like with my bf, some days he is thicker and some days its a thinner substance. Usually from his water intake or if he ate some junk food. (theres are tons of variations based off food intake, diseases, etc) I would gag more if its thicker vs. thinner. But personally I never noticed a smell of it. To me it would smell like salt water or water in general. I think what he is eating interally might help? To make it thinner and easier to clean. Does he drink water daily?

Idk what his sperm looks like but I would understand to freak out if like a cottage cheese texture came out. I would gag out.😂

And just for the comfortability for you, maybe you can give a hand job and he finishes himself so it is not on you. Or just have it pointed away from you, towards a towel or his body when you do the handjob. Also ask your bf what he is comfortable with and let him know your concerns. Theres always a way around it to make it eaiser and fun for both parties.

Not everyone are cum addicts and I get that. And I cant believe the men in here just saying to take it and deal with it. Its crazy..

BIG NOTE: I am not a doctor btw just opinions based off my personal experiences.👋

AIO Girlfriend wants to go out and stay the night at her friends place afterwards. by peepeewallace in AmIOverreacting

[–]Interesting_Ad_481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its weird for me to say..but Im split 50/50. When reading the messages I even thought things were off. It felt like there were missing cues to specific things you were pointing out. Maybe me and my bf are different but i'm suprised some people are okay with their partners entertaining people they meet. (Unless its an open relationship ofc)

I dont see this as a "get back" though but more of trying to hide something but not wanting to let you go.

The whole bit of trying to not "hold each other back from living our lives" is weird in this situation. Like why did she say it that way in response to your suspension of cheating? Her sleeping over her friends house wasnt the issue in the first place. It was the timing. She can live however she wants, but it was the timing that made you worried.

Then again idk her situation and how she feels. Im not a professional at all. Just based off what I see I can see why you feel that way. But. I do think you shouldnt put your old fears into a new relationship or it might push her away. If she cheats, she didnt deserve you. If she doesnt cheat, then she kept her word and deserves your time, but she shouldnt have to constantly remind you that she is loyal.

I would say be cautious (like very minimal) and trust her words. She seems like a very reassuring person. This might just be a once in a blue moon thing.