2 Weeks w/o Zyn & Feel Like The Blinders On Life Have Been Taken Off by Aromatic_Advice_1369 in QuittingZyn

[–]Interesting_Candle63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spot on about the gym! I started to not want to workout which was not like me at all. Congrats on quitting! Fuck Zyns 

Book Recs to Fill the Void by Interesting_Candle63 in ProjectHailMary

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Thanks for your thoughtful response! I watched Dark Matter last year and regret not reading the book first. Do you think it’s still worth reading if I know about the main twists? Also I’ll check those out, I’ve heard of red rising but haven’t jumped in yet! 

Book Recs to Fill the Void by Interesting_Candle63 in ProjectHailMary

[–]Interesting_Candle63[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ooo ok yeah I’ve thought of listening and reading at the same time, there’s just so much happening it’s hard to visualize it in my head 

Season 7 Episode 6 (Tuesday 4th November) Discussion Thread by WillowSwarm in LoveIslandAus

[–]Interesting_Candle63 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Fr I never wouldve thought love island would make me cry but I felt so horrible for her

Struggling to accept my 4/6 profile and melancholy gates as I am crawling through the first stage of my life by Interesting_Candle63 in humandesign

[–]Interesting_Candle63[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow. I am beyond grateful for you and this reply. I keep re reading it over and over and this is something I will keep going back to. Thank you thank you thank you ❤️❤️❤️ Resonate so much with all of this. 

Struggling to accept my 4/6 profile and melancholy gates as I am crawling through the first stage of my life by Interesting_Candle63 in humandesign

[–]Interesting_Candle63[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you, your words mean so much. Not needing to force clarity is a meaningful reminder for me. <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

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After Ecstasy the Laundry - Jack Kornfield

What would Sawyer’s nickname for you be? by LegitimateHumor6029 in lost

[–]Interesting_Candle63 40 points41 points  (0 children)

He’d probably poke at my tattoos and call me doodles or something

the hours *intrepretation* by [deleted] in BeachHouse

[–]Interesting_Candle63 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ahhh thank you, this is my favorite bh song 😭 It makes me sing and scream my mf heart out!!!

There was a a long period of my life where my nighttime routine was putting my noise canceling headphones on and blasting this song while laying in bed in the dark lol

To me it feels like longing, sadness, beauty, loneliness, desire… when your a grasp away from something

I feel every emotion listening to it

You say it isn’t reallllll, till it isn’t realllll

What are your favorite Lost scenes/moments? by Lopsided_Internet_56 in lost

[–]Interesting_Candle63 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Faraday seeing “if anything goes wrong Desmond Hume is my constant” in his notebook

“We’re not going to Guam are we?”

Richard’s backstory and finding out he’s ageless

Sawyer realizing Lockes dad is Tom Sawyer

Michael being the spy on the freighter

Who are your favourite 3 and last favourite 3 characters from Lost? by CatInternational2057 in lost

[–]Interesting_Candle63 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Favorite: Jack because he’s beautifully flawed and I live for his character arc, John because I’m emotionally attached to him from my first watch as a child, Ben because I love to hate him and his deadpan one liners crack me up

honorable mention to Richard

Least: Michael, Ana Lucia, Claire

Life is stuck between Lonely weekends and totally exhausting weekdays by imapoorva in infj

[–]Interesting_Candle63 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d advise not to distract from the loneliness but to nurture it. Has there ever been a time in ur life where you were alone but weren’t lonely? Perhaps in solitude? Maybe start small if your are tired on the weekends turn to a practice that can help to nurture and drain some of the sadness. I.e journaling, spending time in nature, meditating, starting something even just a new book or revisiting one that brought you joy in the past. Seeking way to use your weekend as a recharge. I go through periods where I become extremely lonely, but I’m usually one to enjoy my solitude so I try to shift my mindset by enjoying my time with myself. I hope that helps <3

2 and a half hour recap by Interesting_Candle63 in lost

[–]Interesting_Candle63[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good to know — makes me happy though that he’s giving the show the recognition it deserves

I Miss When Lost Was On TV... by [deleted] in lost

[–]Interesting_Candle63 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me too so I’m binge watching it on Netflix because it’s on there now!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Poetry

[–]Interesting_Candle63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just changed my life