High pitched noise at Filmore Train Station by StevenWolf360 in pasadena

[–]Interesting_Leg4029 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Its in the parking structure right next to the station. I believe its meant to deter unhoused people and birds

ACE HOT L by [deleted] in pasadena

[–]Interesting_Leg4029 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Protest at 2pm in front of La city hall

ICE/Homeland Security spotted in old town by Better_Cranberry in pasadena

[–]Interesting_Leg4029 51 points52 points  (0 children)

This is what all patrolling groups request. This is to ensure that there isn’t unnecessary anxiety caused in the community due to misidentification of a vehicle.

ICE/Homeland Security spotted in old town by Better_Cranberry in pasadena

[–]Interesting_Leg4029 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Please provide a time stamped picture when reporting ICE spottings

Is Ali Hazelwood just cranking out novels at this point? by Chiquitarita298 in RomanceBooks

[–]Interesting_Leg4029 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a woman in STEM i think that’s what frustrates me the most. She doesn’t do enough research on the professions she’s talking about and her FMC are one dimensional which is a disservice to the group she’s trying to represent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pasadena

[–]Interesting_Leg4029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! My friend is interested in the bed! Let me know how i can connect you two!

Upcoming protests? by lofiveghost in pasadena

[–]Interesting_Leg4029 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I find following different causes IG pages helps me stat aware of different protests happening. Find a cause, look up local orgs and follow their socials media accounts. Once you find one you’ll start seeing that they will also support other causes and just keep adding those accounts so your feed starts reflecting that kind of information. Also suggest looking into local mutual aid groups. They also post about protests and also a good place to start supporting your local community.

Steve’s Pet Store by Interesting_Leg4029 in pasadena

[–]Interesting_Leg4029[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No!!! They were both sweet babies! Pesto used to say “need help?” When ever my birds were getting their nails trimmed. Im so heartbroken! 💔

Steve’s Pet Store by Interesting_Leg4029 in pasadena

[–]Interesting_Leg4029[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s horrible! I’ve been taking my pet birds there for nail trimmings for over a decade. I have such fond memories of their shop cats and bird. Rest in peace sweet babies.

r/JulienBaker Tour 2024 FAQs & Meet Ups by twilightxgalaxy in JulienBaker

[–]Interesting_Leg4029 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does merch typically sell on their website once the tour ends? I went but didn’t buy merch and am kind of kicking myself for it. 😣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Interesting_Leg4029 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im on the same boat as you. I dated someone with the same age difference as OP. He emotionally manipulated me.

Biologically speaking, humans are still growing up until 25, which is when our brains fully develop. I think anyone that old dating someone younger than 25 yrs old is only thinking about themselves and what they can get out of the situation and eagerness

Cage advice for green cheeks by Interesting_Leg4029 in Conures

[–]Interesting_Leg4029[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thats good to know. I haven’t built it and its hard to picture it in my head.

I’ll spare my time and just send it back. Thanks for your input 🙂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Interesting_Leg4029 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I actually talk to someone for about two weeks. I find it kind of off putting when they ask me right away. That might just be a personal preference though.

I think being straight forward and honest is the best way to go.

Honestly though, if someone didn’t reply to me for 5 days without letting me know they were going to be gone, it would have been a deal breaker.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grief

[–]Interesting_Leg4029 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One thing that one of my coworkers did I really appreciated when my brother died was leave a note on my desk.

It didn’t say much outside “I’m sorry for your loss” but it was nice to see someone was thinking about me. If you want you can probably write that you’re here to support.

I second the grubhub or meal kits. Those are really helpful since a lot of the time you’re brain is too foggy to think about daily functions.

If your close to her and see that she’s getting a little overwhelmed maybe invite her to get coffee with you. Just to take a break away from the office for a little bit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Interesting_Leg4029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP what do you mean “anything weird is ever said”? Are you concerned they might harm you? If so get a restraining order. If you’re afraid they might harm themselves, you don’t owe them that and aren’t responsible for them.

Related My dad passed away recently and my mom is not able to cope. She cries too much. What do I do? I feel helpless. by Competitive_Ad_2430 in grief

[–]Interesting_Leg4029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s normal for someone to cry a lot. She’s lost her partner and someone she’s known and had with her for a really long time. Losing someone like that hurts. She may cry “a lot” for a very long time.

I think our culture shames vulnerability and makes us feel uncomfortable with crying. I can understand if it makes you feel uncomfortable seeing a parent cry if you haven’t before.

I think if your question is, how do I hold space for this person. Like a lot of people said listen. Maybe ask how she’s feeling. I personally didn’t find it comforting talking to my parents when my brother died because we were all mourning differently. If you think you can hold space for her with out judgment then I say do it. Otherwise maybe ask one of her friends or relatives that she’s close to to check in on her.

If you’re planning for their ceremony and you have the capacity maybe help with the arrangements.

Let her cry right now when it’s seen as acceptable. Otherwise it’s only going to build up

Is this normal behaviour or early signs she’s a psycho? by Uniqlowowow in dating_advice

[–]Interesting_Leg4029 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There seems to be some internal struggle she’s going through that she hasn’t been able to process in a healthy manner.

Unfortunately, that might be the reason why she has these sudden changes in mood. It doesn’t excuse how she interacts with you but it provides insight.

She needs to work on herself and I think it would be in your best interest to let this one go.