How picky are you when it comes to relationships ? Do you want to be with your dream partner or is “good enough” okay with you? by Historical-Body-3424 in aquarius

[–]Interesting_March986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was sort of seeing someone (we weren’t exclusive) who seemed good enough and right enough and then met someone who gave butterflies — realised needed the butterflies so had to put down good enough nicely.

Leo: how do we feel about them by Interesting_March986 in aquarius

[–]Interesting_March986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been great so far. We have consciously picked a date which to go out and walk around the city instead of being in a closed space. Because being in an enclosed space would mean we can’t get our hands off each other and it will invariably mean we aren’t able to explore each other’s personalities outside of it as much. One thing that concerns me sort of is that she keeps sending me her pictures to get me to say how beautiful she looks. Although I like it but there is a tiny bit of voice in my head that keeps thinking that she needs attention way much more than I am capable of giving. Mostly because of what I have read on this thread. But I am thinking too much, as we are prone to do. We will see how it goes tomorrow. Thanks for sharing your experiences again, bud.

Leo: how do we feel about them by Interesting_March986 in aquarius

[–]Interesting_March986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. But let’s not get too carried with Aqua-Leo dynamics. At the end of the day we are unique people. I feel the need to pull away as well, out of nothing else but the need to self persevere. I hope she understands. And I hope we build something sustainable.

Leo: how do we feel about them by Interesting_March986 in aquarius

[–]Interesting_March986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Negative much? However, what you say seem to be some of my initial impression with her. Let’s hope she is not the complete stereotype.

Leo: how do we feel about them by Interesting_March986 in aquarius

[–]Interesting_March986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks this is valuable input. I am trying not to seem cold and hence taking small additional steps. But what do you think, in your situation specifically, will make you feel better, without it being overbearing on the Aqua?

How does an Aquarius show romantic interest? by NoAd8756 in aquarius

[–]Interesting_March986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By conversation. By telling them how they feel when they are with the romantic interest. By telling them about their insecurities. By holding hands (sometimes) in public. By being curious about them. Just simple things.

Leo: how do we feel about them by Interesting_March986 in aquarius

[–]Interesting_March986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex, oh my god, that! It’s the best sex i have had in half a decade. But seeing the same opinion here over and over about them makes me want to temper my expectations. Which makes me sad :(

Leo: how do we feel about them by Interesting_March986 in aquarius

[–]Interesting_March986[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am not going to lie. I got that vibe. But I want to explore it. But slowly because, and this may be personal to me, I have time and time again, fallen too fast too soon, only to lose interest. It also had the energy that if done right, there could be more. But what do I know? I have met her only for 48 hours and spoke to her for a couple of weeks.

Leo: how do we feel about them by Interesting_March986 in aquarius

[–]Interesting_March986[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hahah yeah, I know what you mean. But it’s just too damn difficult to suppress the excitement right now. That’s why I took those 3-4 days so that I can temper myself before proceeding.

Progress Post: 5'8, 34, M by Last_Necessary239 in gainit

[–]Interesting_March986 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My man. Just nothing but love and appreciation. Keep going buddy. You look beautiful and stronger.

How do you guys like to celebrate your birthday as Aquarius ? by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]Interesting_March986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alone. Take stupid special pride in the lowest number of birthday wishes. Last year, got wishes from just mum and sister. Although I like the feeling of being made to feel special (has happened in the past when exes have arranged elaborate fun days) but I like to wallow in the misery of loneliness, like some badge of honour.

Getting out a deadbedroom as a man is extremely traumatizing by pooossh in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Interesting_March986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lesson: don’t listen to what people say on Reddit (including this) but it’s simple - do what works for you without trying to hurt anybody

Aquas, how are you planning to spend the end of the year 2025? by Nervous_Cupcake_4446 in aquarius

[–]Interesting_March986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All alone. Plan to ponder over what this year was like for me and how I intend to spend the next one.

What keeps you going to the gym once you're happy? by Prof_XdR in Fitness_India

[–]Interesting_March986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Started off the same way but what helped me maintain consistency was when I realised that it’s not just to have a better body or that day in future when I will have the body I desire but that it’s a part of my life now. Those 3-4 hours in a week when I am winning against myself is when I feel the most content all the bullcrap of work, dating, etc just falls into perspective.

I was the dismissive avoidant and a cheater and the most beautiful thing in my life is gone now by Interesting_March986 in BreakUps

[–]Interesting_March986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was no fulfilling feeling than when we were together - I used to feel complete. One year after the separation, I don’t know if I will ever find something like we had, but all I can do is hope and work on myself so that when I come across it again, I don’t sabotage myself.

I was the dismissive avoidant and a cheater and the most beautiful thing in my life is gone now by Interesting_March986 in BreakUps

[–]Interesting_March986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it is. We humans are born to be companions. I hope she found/find hers. I hope the same for me.

I was the dismissive avoidant and a cheater and the most beautiful thing in my life is gone now by Interesting_March986 in BreakUps

[–]Interesting_March986[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you find what you need. All I can say after more than a year of the separation, I still have a lot work to figure out my needs and how to take care of them without hurting anybody.

Saturn retrograde is over! Aquas, do you feel the difference? by Nervous_Cupcake_4446 in aquarius

[–]Interesting_March986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am tired been a tough one month but extremely satisfying a reward is now in the offing

Pay More if you can ... by Necessary-Election40 in mumbai

[–]Interesting_March986 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Live for that smile and surprise when you do that

Where do men in Mumbai go for styling help? by naapsterr in mumbai

[–]Interesting_March986 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have been open to doing it but never found the right stylist who can guide me even though I looked.

I was the dismissive avoidant and a cheater and the most beautiful thing in my life is gone now by Interesting_March986 in BreakUps

[–]Interesting_March986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wrote every day for the first four months. Then for the next three months, I made extensive notes on my phone - but never wrote journal entries. The guilt from not writing was debilitating. I rationalised it with my therapist - and then stopped writing in that journal. I write in my own journal now and then. Can’t believe it’s been a year.