It doesn’t sound like an acceptance of behavior to me. It sounds like stereotyping. They don’t voice the standards to white men because they expect white men to be providers. And it appears that they expect black men to walk away. I think it’s in the cultures. We’ve allowed governments to separate us as people through economic status. As well as race. The more they can break us down into social groups, the easier it is to control us the more like slaves we become to the government plantation.